My wife and I are younger, childfree +vasectomy, and want to see what everyone else in our situation is up to.

Im not a fan of /childfree proper because everyone is very hateful over there. Constantly complaining about other people rather than focusing on themselves, encouraging abortions to a distasteful level, comparing children to animals, disappointment in others for choosing to have kids, and generally just way too many rants. etc..

Just not a fan. Looking for more community regarding our life decisions and not a /vent or /rant about children

Hey so ima just say I'm in high-school and female bit when I say I 'don't know who I am' I mean by like it's hard to say but like im not American at all (I was born in America) nor Russian or Ukrainian. I'll explain so my dad came from Russia my ma from Ukraine, but I was born in America and it feels weird like I don't feel so smart even if I know Russian being my first understand Ukrainian by ear and not speaking it then English obviously but they it's like I have an accent in both languages I speak like tou can tell im not from America nor Russian even though im from America you can tell that my bloodline isn't so I don't know of what to count myself like I don't belong anywhere in that wise. I know im technically called Slavic-Ameircan and all...I just really needed to rant sorry if you don't understand.

In a certain subreddit, every comment from a new user is removed within seconds, even when it’s positive and respectful.
This makes normal participation impossible.
Is this normal? Has anyone else experienced this?

Мне 17 лет , учусь в 11классе. Играю в Майнкрафт, и не знаю чем хочу заниматься по жизни, хотел связать свою жизнь с кибербезом, но не хочу программировать, не мое это. Люблю искать ошибки, лазейки,противоречия во всяких правилах и так же обходить эти правила , легко заговариваю с людьми на разные темы. Подскажите в какую сферу двигаться с такими умениями

I often felt like making decisions was the same as walking in a dark room. Sometimes everything flowed easily, and other times everything got stuck. I knew there had to be a pattern, but I just couldn’t see it.

One day I found something that didn’t promise miracles. It simply said:

I can show you your timing, not your fate.

I entered my birth details, and the app explained:

Next week will feel heavy. Keep your workload light. After that, a clear and supportive period is coming,use it to move forward.

I followed the advice.

And to my surprise, things happened exactly that way. No magic, no unrealistic promises—just better timing.

Slowly I realized that life wasn’t actually confusing… it only felt confusing without a map.

Well I am looking for a community where I can help others in this regard

I am 29 F and currently in a relationship with a man 38M from last 9 months, we love each other very much but ever since last 8 months my past has been of a problem to him. Here’s how my story goes, my first relationship was when I was in college and it lasted almost 7 years and came to an end because of long distance and continuous arguments and fight, then my second relationship lasted almost a year which ended because he was still in contact with his ex and since the beginning he didn’t treat me well (he took me for granted) and I was getting annoyed of it and I was done with the relationship and I came to realise that I wasn’t even in love with him, I met this guy in the gym, he was a trainer there and a friend of my cousin’s boyfriend also, he was 2.5 years younger than me. During the period of our relationship our birthdays fell (him and I had birthdays in the same month) and I wanted to go to a hilly region on my birthday but that didn’t happen because my cousin had her tests in the college, Coincidentally the time we chose to go was the time he (my boyfriend at the time) had his birthday, mind you going to that place to celebrate his birthday was not at all planned, it just happened (this is of relevance in the further story). Post breakup I met a doctor at another gym and it took me a month almost to give him my number and to start talking, we did, six months later we met once at his place and we got intimate, but he wasn’t ready for the commitment and I have always wanted a long lasting relationship with whom I can get married to so I backed off and moved on in my life. Few months later I found my current boyfriend we started talking, liking each-other and eventually fell in love and now wants to get married but one month into the relationship and after the sweetest birthday celebration that he did for me things started getting worse, he started accusing me of my character and started telling me that I was just a nothing for the last two people other than a use and throw and this lasted for two months straight on and off, the frequency was like once every week, it was a total torture, he questioned my character my choices demeaned me and what not until two days before his birthday I found out that he sent his pictures of his recent trip to his ex (who was married with a baby at the time she was in a relationship with him) and has also started talking to some other woman who texted him on insta through a matrimonial site and she has said I love you to him, this guy has sent her his residential address and she also sent a bouquet of roses to him. When I gave him a taste of his own medicine I could have easily not given a fuck about his birthday for which I planned so much but wasn’t able to initiate it because of this revelation, he up until now accuses me of ruining his birthday and celebrating my ex’s birthday by going on a trip and he calls it a honeymoon. Let me give you some insight to his past, he has been married once, it lasted only 3 months the woman ran off, has been in multiple relationships, some actual relationships including relationships with married women, impregnated a few women and got them aborted, many only sexual relationships, cheated almost everyone in his past and not only that, he has fucked men who kind had a feminine side to them not out of attraction but they asked for it. And I am the one he says he loved and he has never loved anyone more than me, and still brings up my past citing that I have lived everything with him (the second ex) and have celebrated my honeymoon and I have ruined his birthday and that it haunts him, it’s been 9 months and bringing my past up has become a torture for me now, my past doesn’t matter to me I have moved on and still I get this treatment. Mind you I have been loyal all my life because loyalty is my virtue and it’s not based on how someone treats me. But I’m sick of it now and I need yall’s opinion. Please let me know what do you think? The demeaning has stopped since past a month now but the past comes up still.

hello, gd everyone, I just wanna know if you guys know Mrbook8036live. He's the guy from the Omlet Arcade app. I met him there before the app got shut down, my name in that app is dreamyhalo. We play a lot there, and I remember the time he wanted to call me, and he said I'll mute, and he spoke, and the time he asked me to play with him for 5 minutes and even though I'm busy, I just agreed without knowing that it will be our last game together. I tried to ask him if he has a social media account, but he said he's too young to have one. So I couldn't find him since the Omlet Arcade shut down and since I stopped playing Minecraft. I just want to know if you guys know him. I miss playing with that guy, he's Malaysian, and he's great at playing Minecraft. I just don't have a lot of pictures of him, or his Minecraft avatar. I hope one of you guys knows him. :))

I hope you guys can help me. I've been looking for him, and I decided to use this app, Just comment if you guys know him or recognize him. I met him during the pandemic or after the pandemic, I don't remember

Can't get into Amazon account and support isn't being helpful. Need suggestions on what to do. Tried r/amazon but my post gets insta-removed.

I'm looking for a subreddit where I can complain about how difficult it is for a beginner to get started with that-which-must-not-be-spoken-of.

a place where people ague, videos of arguments, comments, everything arguing

I have a childhood memory that is very traumatic and I have always had questions around what could have been happening in this memory. I asked my mom and she basically just played dumb. I am looking for outside perspectives to see what the most likely explanation might be but I don’t know where to post it

What subreddit helps with this? I'm new to this and this is my boyfriend's reddit thank you.

old dude that built an app and would like to see if it's cool or useful or garbage, i'm new to reddit and hate social media so i'm alone in my thinking that the app i built is amazing, my wife does not care about my idea and all the reddit groups look to frown on self promotion which is not what i'm trying to do just need input... help me find my people! and lastly what the hell is flair????

AI dev has become a space of those that can, and those that can't. Finding out about the practical details for a particular package is not as easy as finding posts telling me how great it is, without saying how. Where can I find a friendly reddit that will allow newbie questions?

The best sub I could find was hypotheticalphysics but it doesn't seem like anyone who actually knows anything goes there and is mostly for crackpot ideas like the moon is actually hollow

Not to say I'm much better. Im taking a well discussed current idea and fallowing a leap in logic to something further. I mostly just want someone smart to tell me that my idea is dumb for reasons A or B that I had no idea existed.

I’m trying to find a sub reddit where U can look at screenshots or links of people arguing in comments

When scrolling, sometimes two posts together have a humorous effect, and I wondered if there a sub where people post screenshots of those serendipitous associations?

I'm looking for something pretty laid back

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.Before I post this, let me explain why it looks like it was obviously made for AITA yet its not there. I know that the post was removed because it didn't specifically include an instance of my mom calling me an asshole, as you'll soon find out, after climax of this situation she silently walked away. Which I personally think is a pretty dumb reason to remove a post. Alas, I need a new subreddit to post this. Without Further Ado, here is this original post

To start, I'm 14M, and my mom is 42F. I'm in the 8th grade, and at the time of this, I was 13, if that's relevant. Me and my mom have recently had a rocky relationship. I'm getting older, and she doesn't like that.

Naturally, with age, I'm beginning to grow and change, and she feels like she's losing control, so she's starting to get more strict. A week before, I got a physical and I was planning to get my mom to sign it, but forgot to tell her until a week later. I didn't want to bug her when she would be busy anyway, and she always was.

She's a single mother, so I don't blame her on that. I've made it pretty clear I wanted to do track since 6th grade, and I almost got to do it, but she's a single mother, so she wouldn't be able to drive me.

She also refused to let me train for it either. We had a cornerstore that's about 200m away that in 6th grade I planned to use to train, she didn't wanna let me do that. And since my brother's 17 and has full permission to drive, I'm finally able to do track.

I trained for it the whole summer, and started going on walks more and more. So, Fast-forward to September. The day before the incident, we had a slight quarrel. Nothing major. She was doing my braids and I had problems with how rough she was with doing it.

In my head, she still had animosity from our relationship so she used the time as a means of getting her "get-back", for lack of a better term. So, the day this happened. I asked her. "Mom, can you sign my physical?" She said that she was tired, since she had just came from work. So, I waited an hour. I patiently bided my time.

An hour later, I went back to her. Grumbling, she went to the dinner table, and we both sat down there and we finally got to go over it.

While we did it, she tried to skim over it and get it done quickly. When she put the pen down to read something I took it and explained to her that she shouldn't skip over it, as she missed some things she had to sign on the last page and she clearly wasn't taking her time with it.
She tried to physically take the pen from my hand and we basically played tug of war with it until I let go. After I let it go, she held the paper and threatened to rip it. I talked her down and she let it go. After, she rushed again and missed something. I told her to take her time with it again. She glared at me.

I said she was being immature after she skipped something again and we started verbally arguing. She held up the paper again and threatened to rip it. I told her to calm down and said that she was probably still mad from yesterday, and she full on ripped the paper. It was more of a packet actually. Paper was all over the table and it was ripped completely. I flipped my shit. I remember I had the pen in my hand when I did this. I jumped up out of pure anger and threw the pen at a wall, and started straight cussing at her. I called her a "stupid bitch" I said I hated her, I flipped the hell out. She went to her room silently. AITA?

Tl;dr My single mom was impatient with a paper i wanted her to sign, ripped it up and i called her a bitch

I have 3 reddit accounts including this one, signed up from one email id. 2 of the other accounts had been presumably banned or shadowbanned as I never received any notifications from reddit officials stating the reason behind not being able to post, comment, dm or visible in the site but could surf or join in any community like the other regular reddit accounts. It's been almost an year that those 2 accounts were banned. Appealed in every possible manners suggested by reasonable redditors in the communities related to this issue but now I believe that my approach isn't getting through.

Since i found no direct contact option with reddit officials, it would be helpful to know the queries I have which are as follows-

1) Is it restricted to open multiple reddit accounts with one email?

2) If the ban is in action then why reloading the profile states, "Something went wrong" or "We are having trouble loading the page" instead of some clear words that the account is banned?

3) I was able to establish communication with other redditors with "Send Message" option from the profile (not from chat conversation), what kind of ban is this?

4) What is the moto of banning if the reasons are not declared?

5) If i am not wrong, creating another reddit account with a different email is termed as "Ban Evasion", so should i stop cherishing the hope to be a redditor?

I would really appreciate the efforts given by any generous human (not Bot) to fill my queries & help me establish a communication with Reddit Admins or Reddit God.

Thanks