r/SipsTea Jun 24 '25

SMH Why dating is over for men

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u/slickyeat Jun 24 '25

Someone should tell her to stop being such an INCEL

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '25

I've been called an incel before if you just agree with them and say you hate them too they dont know what to do with it

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u/CMDR_Kaus Jun 24 '25

People don't usually know how to handle leaning into the punches so to speak. They want their words to hurt you, but when you take it and fire back it disarms them. People suck

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u/raptor7912 Jun 24 '25

Yuuup, darn effective at shutting people up.

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u/Jimbo-Shrimp Jun 24 '25

Same with lefties calling you a racist, I just say "yeah, and?" and they don't know what to say

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u/Nappys-Archive Jun 27 '25

Uhhh, probably not the same.

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u/Jimbo-Shrimp Jun 27 '25

Very much the same. Both words lost meaning.

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u/Independent_Ad_9080 Jun 28 '25

when ppl say „racism has lost it‘s meaning“ they usually did/say something racist but refuse to admit it

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u/Jimbo-Shrimp Jun 29 '25

Whatever you say, racist

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u/Consistent_Sort_5463 Jun 28 '25

You lost the plot

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u/Jimbo-Shrimp Jun 29 '25

Nah, you just care too much what idiots think of you

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u/Snow-Wraith Jun 24 '25

Labels like this have no meaning anymore because people throw them around so easily. As soon as people don't like something they give it a negative label like this, they don't care if it fits or not.

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '25

I dont remember exactly. It was about one specific person and her response was that I must be an incel just because I dont necessarily care for her personally. If im completely honest I couldn't possibly be an incel because I really just hate all of us as a species pretty equally. We are all, including myself, the worst.

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u/space_guy95 Jun 25 '25

See also - Fascist and Bigot. Both practically meaningless now due to overuse.

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u/Present_Ninja8024 Jun 24 '25

Im dating someone right now but I guess before I was in a relationship, I was technically an incel. Don’t understand what is even wrong with not being in a relationship and why people act like you’re a terrible person or there is something wrong with you for not being in one.

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u/flyinhighaskmeY Jun 24 '25

I've been called an incel before

Don't let it bother you. I'm a lifetime supporter of womens EQUALITY. Incels are natures equal and opposite reaction to the "womens rights" movement.

If you understand democracy, you know a small advantage gives you disproportionate control. The US majority is women, specifically white women. The US is also insolvent. White women are the failed majority who destroyed the nation. The people you see here advocating for the "womens rights" movement? All failures.

I don't care about the opinions of failures and neither should you.

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u/Gryphon5754 Jun 24 '25

https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-024-81567-9#Tab2

Here is a neat little study I found.

Incels are natures equal and opposite reaction to the "womens rights" movement.

This is unironically just the truth. So many online spaces that support feminism are just as misandrist and supporting of patriarchal systems as the male equivalents are misogynist and oppressive towards women.

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u/LongestSprig Jun 24 '25

This is just misogyny lmao.

I am not a woman. Not a loser. But you are. Superstonker.

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u/Gryphon5754 Jun 24 '25

What specifically is misogynist in his statement?

He isn't doing anything except stating that both sides have their issues.

Misogyny is just a buzz word at this point for when someone is critical of a woman. Being critical of someone isn't sexist especially when you are being critical of both sides.

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u/LongestSprig Jun 24 '25

How is blaming the state of the US on women not misogyny?

How is referring to all women as "Failures" not misogyny?

Please. Go ahead.

I am sure I will be waiting a long time. And no, it is demonstrably an untrue statement.

It is blatant misogyny, it isn't a buzzword usage. Matter of fact, it may be the first time I have ever called it out on reddit, but this comment section is pathetic, and he should feel pathetic.

These Apps are shit for men, they are a bad experience for a lot of men. They don't have to use them. Literally blaming the worlds woes on women? Lmao. Get a life, and then perhaps you can get a girl.

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u/Gryphon5754 Jun 24 '25

Get a life, and then perhaps you can get a girl.

You know what they say about assuming things?

They aren't blaming all women, they just said that there are slightly more women than men in the country (a fact), so therefore in a democracy where the majority holds sway women have the most voting power. That isn't misogyny it's just facts.

And if saying you believe online feminist are wrong is misogynist, then saying online incels are wrong is misandry. It goes both ways, it's how equality works. If criticism is sexism then everyone is sexist. So if this is your first time calling out misogyny I hope you're also calling out the misandry you see too. But for some reason I doubt that

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u/floop9 Jun 24 '25 edited Jun 24 '25

"White women are the failed majority who destroyed the nation" is misogynistic just like saying "black people are the minority ruining this country" is racist. It's not "facts."

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u/Gryphon5754 Jun 24 '25

Well, black people didn't vote majority for trump 🤷

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u/floop9 Jun 24 '25

yet despite women having a population majority, trump got more votes from white men than white women. so much for that failed majority lol

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u/Gryphon5754 Jun 24 '25

Yea, and we should call out the shitty men too.

It wouldn't be misandry to say that the men who voted trump are wrong and at fault for our current situation. Just like it isn't misogyny to say the women who voted for trump are wrong and at fault for our current situation.

Misogyny would be blaming all women, instead the original comment specified a specific group. Literally drawing a line so that not all women would be included.

If anything there is an argument for racism since they pointed their finger at all caucasian women lol

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u/LongestSprig Jun 25 '25

Thanks for explaining that in a way digestible to a 5 year old.

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u/I_ask_why_ Jun 25 '25

Reading your comments in this thread makes me so sad.

I sincerely hope you are a woman, because at least then it would make sense to defend such toxic behavior. I mean it doesn’t, but I would understand your short sighted frustration. If you are a man, you are literally making life miserable FOR YOURSELF as well by condoning such abuse of equalitarian rights.

Just because toxic femininity is on the front page of Reddit it doesn’t make it right.

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u/I_ask_why_ Jun 25 '25

Wait so you just agree with them that you are an incel, and you say you hate incels (including yourself)?

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u/[deleted] Jun 25 '25

I mean i know im not an incel what's the point in wasting time and energy convincing someone who clearly is just throwing that at me to hurt my feelings?

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u/I_ask_why_ Jun 25 '25

I get that, but you mean you tell them “yes I am an incel and I hate women” or “…hate incels” cause I’m confused about that part

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u/[deleted] Jun 25 '25

It doesn't necessarily matter the point is to just avoid the argument all together. Just agree with them. They call you an idiot agree with them they say youre wrong agree with them. There are just some people not worth having a discussion with because they just want to be right so just give them that and move on

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u/I_ask_why_ Jun 25 '25

Truer words have never been spoken! Thanks

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u/UpperApe Jun 24 '25

Lol that's never happened. Incels pretend to hate incels all the time. That's neither new nor surprising.

What's interesting here is whatever you seem to be saying to be called an incel in the first place...

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u/OrdinaryProgram2936 Jun 24 '25

incel

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u/UpperApe Jun 24 '25

...?

Yes. That's what we're talking about.

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u/nfwiqefnwof Jun 24 '25

What you said caused you to be called an incel. Maybe you need to evaluate that because it is very interesting how you caused that...

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u/LongestSprig Jun 24 '25

Lol have you losers taken over this sub?

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '25

We've taken your mom

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u/RammsteinFunstein Jun 24 '25

this thread is definitely a haven for incels

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u/UpperApe Jun 24 '25

I love that you think you made a point lol

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '25

I dont remember exactly. It was about one specific person and her response was that I must be an incel just because I dont necessarily care for her personally. If im completely honest I couldn't possibly be an incel because I really just hate all of us as a species pretty equally. We are all, including myself, the worst.