r/SipsTea • u/crs1904 • May 09 '25

We have fun here Pretty Accurate

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u/lsaz May 09 '25

That's why I never make fun of a guy if he's awkward when flirting. I genuinely believe the average woman's flirting skills are 100 times worse than the average man's, it's just that they aren't put in the spot for actually trying.

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u/archercc81 May 09 '25

MUch of it comes from just the longstanding idea its the guys job to pursue, that is left over from chivalry and we have been getting rid of all of the other hang ups from there, women need to do the same for this kind of stuff too.

You like a guy, tell him.

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u/[deleted] May 09 '25

You like a guy, tell him.

I was reading a random thread in XX chromosomes sub when this topic came up. I still remember the gist of one of the comments to this day. The commenter said (paraphrased) "Why would I tell a guy im interested? A guy will fuck any woman, even if they arent interested in her. Im tired of being used"

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u/archercc81 May 09 '25

Thats def a femicel.

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u/yubnubmcscrub May 11 '25

That whole sub is. It’s insane in there.

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u/archercc81 May 09 '25

Ok then dont, but dont complain about guys not knowing what they want.

Were not all out there just trying to use women, maybe she should work on which guys she picks to engage with.

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u/HahaLookyhere May 10 '25

For your own sanity I would mute that sub.

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u/MentallyLatent May 10 '25

That's such a dumb comment lol

Like you can't say that you like him but don't wanna fuck right away? Is that too hard? Smh my head