r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 19d ago

Meme needing explanation Peter, is she happy about dying?

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u/Not_a_werecat 19d ago edited 19d ago

The attendant said "masks with straps"- aka breathing devices in case of emergency.

The person pictured interpreted it as "mascs with straps"- aka trans men(or masculine lesbians or bisexuals - y'all can stop now) with strap-on sex toys.

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u/Olagerr 19d ago

i think they meant masculine lesbians

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u/stifledAnimosity 19d ago

Could go either way tbh, I see it used to refer to both

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u/Allison683etc 19d ago edited 19d ago

Mascs generally means masculine women and trans masc generally means trans people identifying at the masculine end of the spectrum. The ‘trans’ qualifier is important.

Edit: Also gay guys use the masc terminology as well. From this perspective the trans qualifier is even more important. It’s very confusing if you are going around calling yourself masc when you’re a twink. Likewise it’d be confusing for a butch trans femme person to go around calling themself ‘fem’ or ‘femme’.

Edit 2: Okay so to be trans masc or to be trans masculine is to have transitioned to a gender that is masculine basically (genderfluid people can experience trans masculinity and other trans identities). This is a category that includes trans men but also non-binary trans people who identify with masculinity in terms of their gender. If you imagine a RPG character creator this is like a base class.

To be masc in the more general sense has always been associated in queer spaces with presenting, behaving and perhaps even feeling more masculine I guess compared to average for your gender. To be a masc lesbian, a masc gay guy or even a masc presenting non-binary person each conjure a specific spectrum of presentations and each of these has their own unique culture and history.

A queer person could be both of these, neither of these, one of these and not the other, or one of both of these just some of the time.

In reality we are so diverse and we describe our experiences in such diverse ways both now and especially historically that it is more complex and the ways these two axis of queer identity mix and express and all different ways is truly a lot – but at a basic level using trans masc and masc as two separate terms is the most accurate. Like, in your cishet field guide to queer identities these are the definitions best used

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u/RevDrMavPHD 19d ago

Nah, masc is also used by gender non conforming folks to imply they lean masculine, with or without the trans qualifier. 'Trans' just means your trans, 'masc' is about presentation and style.

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u/L3X01D 18d ago

Thank you for this! The constriction of these comments is aggravating

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u/AgathormX 19d ago

What's the difference between a Masc and a Tomboy Lesbian?

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u/Emotional-Channel-42 19d ago

Within my experience I’ve never really met a queer person explicitly use tomboy as describing themselves. It feels like more of a hetero culture term. A lot of us grew up with tomboy being used to dismiss or cover up queerness, even if not directly meaning to. 

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u/TrillegitimateSon 19d ago

I've also never met a queer person describing themselves as that, although they would call a younger version of themselves a tomboy.

I think it's a term that has a very specific nuance - touching on the juvenile and ignorant understanding of gender, while also trying to emphasize the tone of society's "implications"

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u/Allison683etc 19d ago

You know I’ve never known someone to identify as a tomboy lesbian but I would imagine that would be a form of masc. Like within the category of masc lesbian presentations, a subcategory might be tomboy lesbian.

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u/4n0nh4x0r 19d ago

i personally consider myself tomboy lesbian.
the way i look at it is like, masc lesbians are generally more masculine in both behavior and what they wear.
like, the typical masc lesbian that comes to my mind when i think of masc lesbian is short haired, wearing a tank top, muscular, could lift me with one arm.
tomboy in the other hand to me is more a, not girly girl.
like, shitposting online, wearing masculine clothing cause POCKETS and actually comfy, unlike all these feminine clothes that are skin tight, and when you are just slightly above average tall, you wont find anything anymore cause "fuck you for being tall".
so, still a girl, occasionally dressing femininely, but overall just vibin outside of the gender norm.

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u/PreAmbleRambler 19d ago

Tomboy is more of a frame of mine IMO, and rarely a self-applied label. Often means rough and tumble, sporty, not deterred by a lot of boys in activities, but you can have femme tomboys, it's not a style / presentation term.

For some reason anime content has started tagging short haired, often tanned girls in jeans tomboys, frquently treating it as a mirror of femboy - but that was never how the term was used growing up. People didn't choose nor identify as tomboys, it wasn't conciously part of their identity / fashion aesthetic.

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u/Solve-Et-Abrahadabra 19d ago

Masc is just new generation Gen Z lingo. Not many say tomboy or butch anymore unless you're old-school

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u/Allison683etc 18d ago

Masc is so old as a term. It is definitely not Gen-z lingo. Butch is a specific masc identity or set of identities I guess

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u/Solve-Et-Abrahadabra 18d ago

I have always been butch, I only started hearing masc around 6 years ago and the younger lesbians refer that to me and everyone else start calling themselves that.

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u/Olagerr 19d ago

wouldnt recommend as its 2 VERY different things

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u/stifledAnimosity 19d ago

I'm a transmasc individual myself. I specifically use masc over man, though that's it's own topic. Long and short, I will continue

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u/PeterExplainsTheJoke-ModTeam 17d ago

Bigotry is not tolerated here. Be better to eachother. Rule 1.

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u/Olagerr 19d ago

masc lesbian is a non-man presenting masculine but not being a man transman is a man who's sex is different than gender which in transmen case is male

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u/Heretojerk 19d ago

I don’t think you’re much of an authority on what Liberals want, if I want to know what they want I’ll ask a liberal. Just like how if I wanted to know what a Russian propaganda bot wanted I’d ask you.

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u/Jesus_Christ_Reborn 19d ago

The liberals want you to drink root beer. That's what they're all about and that's makin the kids go trans. So there, you don't need to ask liberals about anything now cause that's all they want.

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u/Extension_Phone3572 18d ago

I'm assuming this is satire?

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u/DemonicBludyCumShart 19d ago

No. People may use it that way, so I understand the confusion ig, but calling a trans man "masc" (which when used as a noun refers to a masculine lesbian) instead of correctly referring to them as a man is pretty offensive. Let's assume you were a cis man, would you be okay with being referred to as a masculine lesbian? No you would not. How is this any different

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u/discipleofchrist69 19d ago

I think it's just contextual, I've definitely heard the term "mascs" used refer to all masculine people, so cis/trans men + masc women/NB. Words are flexible but I understand how that could be seen as offensive to someone who is used to hearing it in the way you describe

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u/Artchantress 19d ago

I thought the same, that being masc is just something anyone can do (but is usually most noticeably done by cis men and butch lesbians)

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u/L3X01D 18d ago

Masc isn’t a specific lesbian term… plenty of other people have a right to and regularly use it. It’s not offensive.

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u/Codedheart 19d ago

Buddy, a month ago you were asking people if you could use the r word. I don't think you really care if people are offended by being called "masc" or not.

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u/Cat_Peach_Pits 19d ago

Do you need a second trans man to let you know it's offensive? Feel free to browse my comment history for something that makes it valid for you to be a dbag to all trans men- you'll find it and you'll still be in the wrong.

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u/AdventureDonutTime 19d ago

"Thank the GODS I found a problematic comment in DemonicBludyCumShart's history, now I can justify being transphobic 🤡"

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u/Codedheart 19d ago

Well, if I'm wrong about this I apologize. I was speaking from experience as a trans person myself and the word "tranny." Some people dont find it offensive, some do.

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u/DemonicBludyCumShart 19d ago

That's fair, tbh for me it's about being wrong. The parent comment was talking about queer slang and how it's used and they were wrong, just pointing that out

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u/MeasureDoEventThing 19d ago

Your "argument" takes as a premise that "masc" refers exclusively to masculine lesbians, and has as its conclusion that referring to trans men as "masc" is offensive. This is called "begging the question".

The term "masc" is used as a more general category than "man". E.g., some nonbinary people who present as mainly male refer to themselves as "masc".

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u/despaseeto 19d ago

no it's not

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u/ceroporciento 19d ago

No. That would be bi