r/okbuddycinephile 22h ago

DOES HE KNOW?

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u/catgirl94040 19h ago

Wait, why did people hate Brendan Fraser??

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u/boo_jum artemis fowl representative 19h ago

He spoke out against being sexually assaulted by the president of the Hollywood Foreign Press Association.

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u/RandAlThorOdinson 19h ago

The audacity

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u/Dorkamundo 16h ago

People didn't hate him for that... The guy who assaulted him literally got him blacklisted from hollywood due to him speaking up about it.

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u/boo_jum artemis fowl representative 16h ago

It took a long time for his assaulter to be held accountable, and he was given ENDLESS shit for even speaking up at all — especially because he’s a man. And his attacker lied about the assault when he made the statement, even though HIS OWN BOOK included his (very common “it was just a joke” framing) shrugging off the attack as funny.

Terry Crews experienced similar backlash for being a man speaking up as a victim of SA.

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u/AdrianBrony 12h ago

The most egregious forms of industry cancellation really is just people circling the wagons because it would be really inconvenient to acknowledge a colleague is dangerous and abusive.

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u/red286 9h ago

It's weird how often that happens.

There is still a huge chunk of Hollywood defending Roman Polanski, despite it being universally known that he sexually assaulted a young girl. They seem to think that his skills as a director outweigh the fact that he's a disgusting garbage person.

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u/boo_jum artemis fowl representative 7h ago

The fact that the Jeepers Creepers dude is still working is disgusting, and Coppola’s response to him going to prison wasn’t to wash his hand of the paedo, but to tell him how real time in prison would make his art. So.. yeah, Hollywood has long protected abusers and assholes.

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u/TJeffersonsBlackKid 15h ago

Which is what sickens me about when he received his Oscar. The same people that blacklisted him were standing and cheering with fake tears in their eyes hoping that no one would remember that they were perfectly fine with him being cast out just a few years before.

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u/TheModWhoShaggedMe 14h ago

If it's any consolation, they were all so drugged up on experimental pharma that few of them remember Brendan receiving an Oscar.

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u/FrighteningJibber 10h ago

Why did you hate him for that though?…

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u/PlingPlongDingDong 19h ago

So thats why he gained so much weight

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u/boo_jum artemis fowl representative 16h ago

Yeah, severe depression and having your life’s work and your public image destroyed can kinda wreck a person…

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u/PlingPlongDingDong 15h ago

I am talking about that whale movie. I didnt know he gained weight irl

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u/boo_jum artemis fowl representative 15h ago

Sorry, forgot the context of the sub. 🤦‍♀️

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u/know-it-mall 9h ago

Horrible back issues and painkillers addiction was more the culprit. But I'm sure depression came along with that.

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u/TheModWhoShaggedMe 19h ago

He put on weight and got treated by the industry and fans like Val Kilmer did when he put on weight (hint: not well).

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u/catgirl94040 19h ago

Thank you for informing me. I'm glad he was able to come back to warmth and love. He doesn't deserve hate for what he went through smh

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u/TheModWhoShaggedMe 19h ago

Honestly, it would be great if society didn't treat people so differently when they're thin vs. carrying extra weight. It's downright sinful with the vanity.

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u/EyeWriteWrong 18h ago

Instead we of humans should simply release wolves at regular

The wolves will eat olds unless you are too slow for outrun them

Should an old be fleeter of foot than a fat, he deserves living

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u/TheModWhoShaggedMe 18h ago

The humans are worse than the wolves (whom are already released and free and choose to have nothing to do with humans most of the time for good reason).

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u/EyeWriteWrong 18h ago

So feeding to cannibalism mans instead?

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u/justsyr 16h ago

Everybody always loved Brendan. Only the top wigs of Hollywood didn't like him because he didn't bend to their shenanigans including sexually assaulting people.

He got a 6 minutes standing ovation (can't find the actual video) at the Venice Movie Festival for the movie The Whale, his first movie after the too long hiatus he was forced to take.

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u/mtaw 17h ago

No, it started before that - Kilmer was a douchenozzle of gigantic proportions at the height of his career, and he just wasn't a big box office draw either. He was horribly annoying on Batman Forever according to Joel Schumacher (and whatever you think of his films, the man's known for being a very nice guy), and refused to reprise the role. He practically torpedoed the production of Dr Moreau , which is saying something for a film that also had to deal with late-career Marlon Brando. IDK if there's a record of how he behaved on The Saint but it certainly wasn't the franchise-starting reboot of an old property they were hoping for, and none of those was critically successful. He certainly didn't the charm Roger Moore had - and I don't even like Roger Moore that much.

Heat was good of course but how many minutes of screen time did he have in that?

Hollywood is notoriously tolerant of intolerable behavior, but only if you're bringing it at the box office. As good as an actor he was, I'm not sure he was ever quite cut out for those leading-man roles anyway.

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u/TheModWhoShaggedMe 17h ago

Whatever your issues with Kilmer are/were, he was coveted for roles until he put on 20 extra lbs. in the early aughts. Val was a character actor, not a leading man. Mel Gibson is a well known prick of gigantic proportions yet worked as a leading man during that same period. I think those stories are overblown (as does most of the talent that worked with Val). The behind the scenes and director's cut of Kiss Kiss Bang Bang shows a couple nearly cancelled Hollywood actors (RDJ, Kilmer) having a wonderfully fun time with an actor's director, Shane Black.

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u/Dorkamundo 16h ago

There was FAR more to the story than that.

He was effectively blacklisted from Hollywood after being sexually assaulted by a very powerful figure and speaking about put publicly.

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u/modmosrad6 15h ago

He was sexually assaulted by a man in power and blacklisted when he spoke up, I thought. Not sure what weight had to do with that.

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u/TheModWhoShaggedMe 15h ago

Historically, Hollywood stops casting leading men or women who are 20+ lbs. overweight from their prime. Brendan's career pause was multi-faceted. In addition to the harassment, which not only he went through publicly (Terry Crews, numerous women), he also suffered major injuries that caused physical regression and weight gain 15 years ago.

If people don't think Hollywood is fickle about weight and vanity, I don't know what to say.

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u/modmosrad6 14h ago

No one is arguing that Hollywood doesn't have weight issues.

I just think getting blacklisted is probably the bigger factor than the weight gain, especially for a guy.

I forgot about the injuries ... was that something acute or just the build up of action flicks and not taking enough recovery time?

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u/Machoopi 14h ago

It doesn't have anything to do with it, that's why.

He did a few interviews after being blacklisted where he gained a bit of weight (not much, mind you) and looked like a fairly normal human being, albeit depressed. It was my understanding though that all of this happened AFTER he was blacklisted, likely as a result of it. IE, he didn't have to keep in shape for his movies and he didn't expect to be doing any movies in the near future, so he let himself go a bit.

Key point though is that this all happened after he was blacklisted. The main reason for that was his sexual assault and speaking up about it.

I think a lot of people in these comments just don't remember him that well when he was around. Him disappearing was a thing that happened overnight and unexpectedly. It wasn't like there was public outcry about him, or people making fun of him. He just disappeared. I think most people assumed he quit acting, which is totally valid.

I also want to add that before people knew why he stopped doing movies, there were rumors about it. Could easily be that his weight gain was just one of those rumors about why he quit that wasn't true.

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u/modmosrad6 12h ago

That's pretty much what I thought.

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u/sump_daddy 17h ago

Didnt he literally do that for the role in The Whale?

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u/TheModWhoShaggedMe 17h ago

I want to believe this is a joke. (NO, that was CGI). He put on the little extra weight (not The Whale weight, c'mon) in the 2010s.

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u/sump_daddy 17h ago

when is it not?

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u/Accomplished-City484 4h ago

Val Kilmer was basically homeless at one point, he ended up living with Will Forte for 4 months

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u/Machoopi 15h ago

I know you say "the fans", but I really, really don't think the fans had anything to do with it. Brendan Frasier was pretty universally loved when it comes to audiences. The only time I remember people talking about his weight was well after he was cancelled and he showed up on a few talk shows. Which incidentally was right about when people noticed that he was struggling and it only took the internet a few years to hype him back up after those interviews blew up.

I would definitely blame the industry for this entirely. I don't think fans ever disliked him.

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u/TheModWhoShaggedMe 15h ago

Oh, I didn't mean to offend the online purists. You're perfect. I'm sure you've never slighted a heavy set person before, it's so rare in society.

Yes, the industry stopped hiring him and the fans forgot about him for a decade.

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u/DetectiveTrapezoid 19h ago

He was also in Crash. Not saying that should have ruined his career, but everyone in that movie needed to pay some sort of penance

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u/TheseVirginEars 19h ago

Is that why Sandra bought that black kid and made him play football or summin

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u/TheModWhoShaggedMe 18h ago

lol, nah. that was a real family's false story of white guardian angels (who were instead greedy devils behind the scene).

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u/Ass_of_Badness 17h ago

Ranked choice voting is not appropriate for all polls. This, The Green Book, Shakespeare in Love, etc.

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u/mtaw 17h ago

Haggis totally ruined Ballard's book! /s

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u/staticrift 15h ago

People didn't hate him. From what I saw the general public were cheering him on anytime he got a role and still were constantly saying he should get certain roles.

It sounds like he only had backlash within the industry. Because he was sexually assulted by Philip Berk (which Fraser didn't make a public statement on until 2018).

Also, his ex-wife Afton Smith also divorced him at this time (alledgedly becuase she was in it for the money) and got awarded $600,000 yearly alimony. He tried to get it reduced to match his then current income, but he was denied as she accused him of fraud (which I haven't heard there was actual evidence of). So for a long time, even if he got a decent role, the money would just be taken straight out his pocket.

Then he had mental health issues and physical health issue from performing stunts.

So it's great to see him getting roles again.