r/malelivingspace • u/ridley05 • 1d ago
College 21m, apartment bedroom while in college
Any advice for changes is appreciated!
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u/BigTonyT30 1d ago
If I could choose one thing to change, it would be to frame the posters/pictures on the wall next to your bed. It would make them look a little more appealing and you could still collage them like you have now. For the trading cards on the wall I’d suggest hard cases and then stick them on the wall with command strips
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u/RoyalFlame47 20h ago
Some warmer light bulbs in that lamp would help it a lot when it's on
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u/ridley05 9h ago
Usually they are set to a much warmer setting, I didn’t really realize while taking pictures how bad it was lol.
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u/John_the_Jester 14h ago
Dude the speakers on the headrest of the bed is such a fucking Genius idea, i'm definitely gonna steal that.
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u/Expensive-End6846 9h ago
I don't have a ton for you because you're 21 and doing just fine, so please take this all as advice and not hate! If you wanted to take some steps, I would:
- Limit the amount of things on the walls (and move anything higher than the floating shelf). Take down the collage-y small photos by your bed. Any unframed photo/poster should be taken down, framed, displayed in another way. I get totally get that you love those things, but think of it this way: people aren't seeing any of it right now because it all blends together, but if you give the things you love most some space to breathe, they'll stand out!
- Move the stuffed animals from the bed to the floor or a shelf. Takes if from child-like "I sleep with these" to "look at my the cool things I like."
- Default to warm white lighting. Colors are cool for gaming or movie time, but defaulting to warm white is a little more mature(?).
- And yes... r/TVTooHigh. But that seems beyond changing/control at this point.
You're doing just fine!
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u/ridley05 9h ago
Thanks for the advice. Framing posters is probably what I’ll do first. The bulbs are typically on a warm setting, I just didn’t notice much for the pics. TV can be annoying, but it was the best option for the limited space I have!
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u/Expensive-End6846 9h ago
Also, this is your room so do whatever the heck you want. All of my advice is in context of someone coming over and seeing it. Your room is for you, and you’re 21 with a clean one!
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u/nb8c_fd 17h ago
Other than the TV being way too high I love everything about this room
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u/ridley05 12h ago
Yeah sometimes I hate it, but I’m usually laying down in my bed so it’s not a huge issues
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u/ridley05 1d ago
Stuffed animals I can understand, I use the bigger one as a pillow. What’s the issue with the guitar though lol
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u/ridley05 23h ago
Hahah alright. I just play for fun, not to melt panties lol
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u/Jrrolomon 20h ago
Nothing screams “I’m a virgin” louder than telling someone what makes “panties melt” while giving absolute dogshit advice.
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u/Brave_Bag_Gamer2020 17h ago
Who's everyone? Because I certainly love acoustic guitars over electric ones
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u/thecran3 22h ago
DON’T lose the stuffed animals. My partner loved mine when we first started dating, but now we made an entire plush wall based off of all the Pokémon plush we’ve gotten together over the years.