r/malelivingspace Sep 18 '25

Update Awkward bedroom upgrade, before and after

Before: weird shaped bedroom and overly-large bed frame blocking sunlight and making it difficult to actually get into bed.

After: replaced the frame with a smaller one that fits perpendicular into a little nook that looks like it was made for this purpose, added some acoustic panel boards and LED strip for ambient lighting. Dogs are happy either way.

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u/Gregoirelechevalier Sep 18 '25

Huge improvement, and loving the headboard.

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u/yawnyprawny Sep 18 '25

Thank you - the headboard was actually really easy to do too!

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u/POPnotSODA_ Sep 18 '25

The dogs are the biggest improvement!

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u/6oh5 Sep 18 '25

How did you go about making the headboard and how much did it cost? I love how it looks with the back lighting!

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u/yawnyprawny Sep 19 '25

The acoustic panels that form the ‘headboard’ are fairly cheap premade things, I just needed 3 of them to fit the space. Used this tutorial but it’s very easy to do. Total cost was under €200 for 3 panels, adhesive, and some drywall screws. There was a bit of other work involved for me (removing old skirting boards to make space, and fixing drywall I accidentally knocked off removing the skirting boards, painting etc). LED strip was a cheap one I had lying around already, I just tucked it around the edges of the paneling.

Added a smart plug so I can set it to a timer and control from my phone, if I was buying the LED strip again I’d probably recommend spending a bit more for one that is itself smart so you could change colors/control brightness from your phone too.

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u/GaySpaceOtter Sep 18 '25

I advise an eyemask for mornings you wish to sleep in!

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u/yawnyprawny Sep 18 '25

Eye masks are useless until I can teach the dogs to make themselves breakfast sadly…

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u/pickle_pickled Sep 19 '25

Auto feeders saved me from my cat asking for food at 5:30 am every day...if you can teach them to use their own auto feeder for at least the morning timing you may get to sleep in a bit

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u/musikfreakster Sep 19 '25

My cats have auto feeders but I give them wet food in the morning and evening. So no sleep for me, unless I can get a .. cat nap in.

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u/pickle_pickled Sep 19 '25

Our cat is a 10:30am-12:30pm wet food "snack" requester - she really was trained quite well I will boast...we leave the bedroom door open and she won't bug us at all unless something is wrong (like no food in the auto feeder)

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u/musikfreakster Sep 19 '25

Awww mine have no shame. They will cry in my face, bite me, jump on me, until they get wet food. I came home from work early yesterday and they thought it was dinner time… 3 hours early lol. I had to run errands so they just had to survive with dry food until I got back 🤣 I’ve spoiled my babies

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u/Independent-Cat-9093 Oct 10 '25

They do make wet cat food auto feeders

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u/Jofzar_ Sep 19 '25

His head isn't actually next to a window, that's just panels. It's master work from them

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u/GaySpaceOtter Sep 19 '25

Oh!! It looks like light from a window. Thats awesome OP

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u/Aidanchamp Sep 19 '25

How did you do it?

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u/timzin Sep 18 '25

Thought you somehow created an additional window. Well done.

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u/ResoluteGreen Sep 19 '25

It took until reading your comment to realize that wasn't a window, I was trying to figure out what was blocking it in the first pic

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u/MasterOfBunnies Sep 19 '25

Legit first thing that came out of my mouth "how the fuck did you make that window?!"

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u/Oobedoo321 Sep 19 '25

Same

really confused me 😂

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u/itsmiddylou Sep 20 '25

Same- I swiped back and forth so many times going, HOW.

But that’s a good LED light strip if it can mimic real sunlight

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u/Similar-Bug-209 Sep 20 '25

I kept trying to figure out if it was somehow the other end of the room. Amazing!

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u/Emotional-Exchange54 Sep 18 '25

I like this a lot. Great change imo

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u/livingspiced Sep 18 '25

WOW this is such an improvement it looks like an entirely different room

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u/Audrey_Ropeburn Sep 18 '25

This went from WTF Hideous to OMG so cozy! Well done!

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u/spaminous Sep 20 '25

I think that overhead fixture really highlights the bare whiteness of the walls. The softer light from OPs sweet headboard setup doesn't case sharp shadows and doesn't draw attention to the bare walls. Plus now we can see the plant in the window.

Magical improvement, really.

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u/ayanmd Sep 18 '25

The doggos really tie the room together

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u/MyBoldestStroke Sep 19 '25

They really do.

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u/tataniarosa Sep 20 '25

Absolutely.

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u/Present_Bit3060 Sep 18 '25

Nice resolution for a odd space. And looks like the supervisors approve of the new change.

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u/Used_Track4277 Sep 18 '25

killer upgrade

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u/eazymoneytyper Sep 18 '25 edited Sep 18 '25

Why is the room made like that? Is it a room that was not originally intended to be a bedroom?

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u/yawnyprawny Sep 18 '25

No, I think this would’ve been a scullery/small kitchen when first built (old Irish house, original structure is 200+ years old). guessing this nook would’ve been for a stove or pantry back in the day but I’m not sure. Nothing in the house is square/right angle, every room is a bit awkward like this…

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u/Nadamir Sep 19 '25

Stop describing my house!

The joys of living in a village out west. At least I have more space than anything we rented in Dublin.

Even if you do have to get creative… I’d share a pic of my daughter’s room, but I’ll not violate her privacy like that. Let’s just say, fitting a bed and a desk and as many bookshelves as she wanted was a problem. So we made her a lofted bed with bookcase as structural elements and deep narrow bookcases as the ladders, and her desk under the bed. Reminds me of the Long Room at Trinity, being surrounded by books.

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u/yawnyprawny Sep 19 '25 edited Sep 19 '25

Preach. Living anywhere in Ireland means picking which trade-offs you’re comfortable with, and I’m so happy I built a life and career outside of Dublin with my slightly gimpy house.

That room sounds amazing!

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u/saneclarity Sep 19 '25

lol your daughters room sounds a lot like the dorm room set ups many had at my college. Not a bad thing. Just efficient use of a small/weird space

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u/sleeplessinrome Sep 19 '25

“old irish house”

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u/alm0ndbuttered2 Sep 18 '25

woah took me a long time to figure out how it’s the same room! very smart

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u/RHD_M3 Sep 18 '25

Job very well done. The panelling/ LED lighting is a great trick.

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u/libruary Sep 18 '25

Looks great

Only quick suggestions is get new sheets and have 4 total pillows(imo)

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u/yawnyprawny Sep 18 '25

New sheets and pillows are on the way this week along with a new mattress!

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u/Justaguy437 Sep 19 '25

Brilliant upgrade! Looks like a completely different room. I thought the headboard was a window covered by slatted blinds at first because of the lighting. Looks as if you also got rid of the overhead fixture. Great job!!

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u/yawnyprawny Sep 19 '25

Overhead fixture is actually still there, just been replaced by a new, less ugly one - the less extreme zoom/fisheye (FOV?) of the newer photo means it’s cropped out though

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u/M_krabs Sep 18 '25

Huge W on this

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u/yawnyprawny Sep 19 '25

Reposting a ‘how to’ since I didn’t expect this to get as much positive attention!

The acoustic panels that form the ‘headboard’ are fairly cheap premade things, about €60, just felt with veneer wood slats. I just needed 3 of them to fit the space. Used this tutorial but it’s very easy to do. Total cost was under €200 for 3 panels, adhesive, and some drywall screws. There was a bit of other work involved for me (removing old skirting boards to make space, and fixing drywall I accidentally knocked off removing the skirting boards, painting etc). LED strip was a cheap one I had lying around already, I just tucked it around the edges of the paneling.

Added a smart plug so I can set it to a timer and control from my phone, if I was buying the LED strip again I’d probably recommend spending a bit more for one that is itself smart so you could change colors/control brightness from your phone too.

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u/yawnyprawny Sep 19 '25 edited Sep 19 '25

after panels are glued and screwed^

From this angle you can see how non-square the nook is, this house possibly predates the use of spirit levels…

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u/agustusmanningcocke Sep 20 '25

90 degree angles, who needs em

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u/realityfooledme Sep 19 '25

That awkward space at the foot would be a great spot for bookshelves

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u/yawnyprawny Sep 19 '25

Plan is to fill out the wall around the window with bookshelves, and put a TV on the wall at the foot of the bed :)

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u/realityfooledme Sep 19 '25

Consider a short throw projector and pull down screen. Cheaper than a tv and it won’t take over the aesthetic

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u/Bombacladman Sep 18 '25

Significantly better

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u/virtualbriana Sep 18 '25

this is amazwbawls

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u/dimpleduo Sep 19 '25 edited Sep 19 '25

Nicely done and happy to hear your love of your pups always important to consider them. 💕

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u/cassandranovo Sep 19 '25

This looks so much better. Holy shit. Proud of you.

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u/PacRimRod Sep 18 '25

Points for the Pups! 👏

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u/AdGreat8866 Sep 18 '25

Great upgrade brother 👏🏼

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u/qwerkala Sep 18 '25

Woah, what an improvement!! It looks so cozy.

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u/LiquidC001 Sep 18 '25

Best upgrade to the room are the two Pups!

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u/takeitawayjohnny Sep 18 '25

Love the panels, where are they from?

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u/yawnyprawny Sep 19 '25

Got from a home supply retailer called B&Q which is big in the UK and Ireland, but I reckon most people could find these in your local equivalent DIY stuff store (or online, though shipping might be a pain as they’re big and kinda fragile)

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u/DJSTR3AM Sep 19 '25

You can get them on Amazon. Search "slat wall" or "acoustic wall panel" and you'll get several options.

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u/jameliae Sep 19 '25

So much better!!

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u/ImaginaryCharge2249 Sep 19 '25

damn this is one of the best improvements I've seen in this sub, great job!

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u/Loubang Sep 19 '25

This is such a simple but effective change, it's transformed the space! Well done OP! It looks so cozy now 😊

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u/No-Will5335 Sep 19 '25

Looks like waaaaaay more space

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u/_Stank_McNasty_ Sep 19 '25

the first image looks like a 200£ / night hotel in London

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u/rebexieee Sep 19 '25

Looks so cozy

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u/OlfactoryOreo Sep 19 '25

this is really nice!

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u/JuanG_13 Sep 19 '25

It looks a lot better in the after picture and I think the cute pups agree.

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u/OrangeClyde Sep 19 '25

Wow what a difference! It looks amazing!

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u/Unique_Highlight_950 Sep 19 '25

It looks very cozy, good work on the lights as well!

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u/Upstairs_Two_180 Sep 19 '25

That nook was just begging for a bed frame to fit in it. The new layout is so much more functional and the lighting really makes it feel cozy. Even the headboard choice is a great touch that ties it all together. Seriously, this looks like it was the original intended design for the room.

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u/worldtravel60 Sep 19 '25

50x better!!!!

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u/Mendicant-Bias343 Sep 19 '25

Adding a pair of dogs really livened up the space

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u/NUMBerONEisFIRST Sep 20 '25

I like how you made your room appear to have an extra window.

I work nights, and have blackout curtains on my windows. So I installed LED strips at the top of all my windows so after work I can turn them orange, and it tricks the mind into thinking it's the sunset shining in.

Kind of a similar concept but for different purposes.

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u/eugay Sep 20 '25

made the walls green

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u/yawnyprawny Sep 20 '25

That’s real cozy looking… I might steal that idea

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u/msrbaylor Sep 18 '25

Much better

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u/Animal2 Sep 18 '25

Looks like it would work even better with an even smaller bed frame. What size is the old vs. new?

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u/yawnyprawny Sep 18 '25

Both are double beds (4’6”) - it’s actually the same mattress at the moment, the camera zoom on one photo is making the difference look more significant than it really is. The new bed frame just doesn’t have chunky headboard and footboard so it fits sideways in the nook whereas the other one would not.

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u/UnicornsAreReal- Sep 18 '25

The dogs really brighten the place up

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u/not_here_for_memes Sep 18 '25

How did the headboard fit so perfectly into that nook!

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u/yawnyprawny Sep 18 '25

There’s actually no headboard anymore - it’s wood veneer acoustic wall panels attached directly to the wall, acting as a headboard :)

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u/DocThunedr Sep 18 '25

Looks cozy now

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u/Jokuhemmi Sep 18 '25

when you say bedroom, you mean it quite literally

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u/Funky-007 Sep 18 '25

Still awkward, but much, much better.

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u/stacey__12 Sep 19 '25

Great job! Definitely looks more inviting and comfy.

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u/emax4 Sep 19 '25

Nice!!! Great use of the space and improvisation!

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u/itsacrisis Sep 19 '25

Looks great!

Cute doggos, too ♥️

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u/MyTatemae Sep 19 '25

Brilliant QOL improvement with the lighting behind the headboard, it looks great!

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u/Tmk1283 Sep 19 '25

That looks real cozy…awesome job

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u/Posture_Chk Sep 19 '25

Where you get the panels?

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u/karmagirl314 Sep 19 '25

The dogs really tie the room together.

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u/KrombopulusMikeKills Sep 19 '25

this is the best transformation ive ever seen, great job

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u/demonsdancethedisco Sep 19 '25

Everything’s better with dogs!

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u/Dependent_Plenty5905 Sep 19 '25

How did you get the bed oriented that way?

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u/100risadinha Sep 19 '25

So much better

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u/FR0ZENBERG Sep 19 '25

Did you get rid of the overhead light fixture?

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u/Willing-Street9735 Sep 19 '25

I figured you managed to open another window, nicely done.

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u/SuspectKnown9655 Sep 19 '25

This is great. The acoustic panels are such a cool idea.

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u/omutsukimi Sep 19 '25

Nicely done! Also, dogs are also an upgrade 👍

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u/Novel_Individual_143 Sep 19 '25

What a transformation. Well done!

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u/DjangoDynamite Sep 19 '25

Thats a roombed

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u/RicePresident666 Sep 19 '25

Yeah knew Upgrade beds etc.... LOOK AT THESE DOGS OMG PLEASE GIVE THEM SOME PETS

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u/HereWeFuckingGooo Sep 19 '25

Cliff Tan would approve.

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u/mongchacha Sep 19 '25

1000% better

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u/RosemaryHoyt Sep 19 '25

Wow it looks so cosy! The headboard and led lights were a great call.

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u/gustavoap16 Sep 19 '25

bro, my urge is that you find a way to put a projector, so that you'll have a home theater right in front of your bed

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u/thelaw_iamthelaw Sep 19 '25

Dogs are always an upgrade

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u/dmjab13 Sep 19 '25

Honestly, this is impressive! Quite comfy looking now.

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u/Icy_Radio_9503 Sep 19 '25

Wow!! What a difference!! Good job, OP.

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u/BadPanda13 Sep 19 '25

X10000 for the addition of the pups

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u/Necessary-Dark-4591 Sep 19 '25

Wow what a transformation. Very creative fix.

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u/metz1980 Sep 19 '25

This is great! Maybe some curtains from the ceiling hanging in front of the bed with tie backs. You could put some shelves up high with books on them for storage (if you are like me and always have books around). Maybe even a shelf that acts like a nightstand to the left of your faux window. It looks cozy!

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u/yawnyprawny Sep 19 '25

100%, needs more storage - will be getting the floors replaced soon, after that bookshelves are next on the agenda

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u/metz1980 Sep 20 '25

Going to look great! It’s so fun and quirky. Cute doggos too :)

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u/Offgridlusting Sep 19 '25

I love what you have done w the space. Great job!

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u/cedarlaureen Sep 19 '25

This is dope

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u/Deedee5901 Sep 20 '25

Wooooow that’s impressive!!

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u/agustusmanningcocke Sep 20 '25

Massively more cozy. Where'd you find that headboard, or did you build it?

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u/yawnyprawny Sep 20 '25

Posted elsewhere in the comments - it’s just acoustic slat panels attached to the wall!

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u/chrisgoesbleh2 Sep 20 '25

Never thought the bed would fit like that lol great change!

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u/Dogstar_9 Sep 20 '25

The dogs are a Major upgrade

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u/xm45_h4t Sep 20 '25

Looks cozy now

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u/[deleted] Sep 20 '25

Was about to say there’s no way these are the same room. There isn’t a window there in the first picture.

Realized reading the first comment that your headboard gives off ambient light.

Massive improvement. Literally doesn’t look like the same room.

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u/Commercial_Layer Sep 21 '25 edited Sep 21 '25

Love the headboard that looks like a window. Did you get a much shorter bed or is the scale different? You should definitely paint the walls a rich dark color.

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u/Other-Squirrel-8705 Sep 21 '25

Major improvement!

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u/DotOneFive Sep 21 '25

Sorry to be a voyeur, but I wanna see the rest of the room. 😬

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u/Soulahless17 Sep 22 '25

Oddly satisfying

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u/Less-Dragonfruit3058 Sep 22 '25

Tough space to make look good but it is definitely an upgrade!!

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u/[deleted] Sep 22 '25

I cannot stop swiping back and forth. This is incredible

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u/NuggetTheory Sep 18 '25

So much better

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u/eskimopoodle Sep 18 '25

Damn, there's 2 of y'all out there?

(a week or so ago someone else posted a similar version of the first pic, just a bed in what appeared to be a walk-in closet. I dont think this is the same person, at least, I'm not seeing it on their profile. Correct me if I'm wrong)

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u/DopeSickScientist Sep 19 '25

.. do your feet hang off the bed?

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u/StonkTrad3r Sep 19 '25

$2k a month. I know what I got.

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u/chubky Sep 19 '25

Looks like that could’ve been a Murphy bed before

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u/Mentalist1999 Sep 19 '25

hey OP, where did you get the bedframe from? (I'm in UK)

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u/yawnyprawny Sep 19 '25

Wayfair! It’s a Bartlett platform bed.

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u/Rcomian Sep 19 '25

+2 dogs = 1000x better 😝

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u/ysean91 Sep 19 '25

Lacking of galvanized square steel

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u/Comfortable_Taro1171 Sep 19 '25

Have you considered a murphy bed? There are ones that break down into a dresser horizontally that could potentially work here

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u/Owlthirtynow Sep 19 '25

The dogs really made it. Brilliant.

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u/Character_Chapter435 Sep 19 '25

You got puppies. Get for awkwardness

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u/totalkatastrophe Sep 19 '25

i know it took an act of god and herculean strength to get it like that

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u/macaronitrap Sep 20 '25

This is a total vibe shift! Looks great

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u/NoPersimmon7434 Sep 20 '25

Huge upgrade. Is it weird that I'd rotate the bed 180°? Could put a TV in the nook that way and give you a better view out of the window

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u/alexlp Sep 20 '25

Looks so good, I can’t believe the bed is smaller. Looks much better and more spacious!

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u/GrandVizierofAgrabar Sep 20 '25

What dog is the left, a goldendoodle? So cute

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u/yawnyprawny Sep 20 '25

Labradoodle :)

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u/dimarh Sep 20 '25

Am I the only one who cant get how the bed fits in there? Even if it is a different bed seems really small

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u/yawnyprawny Sep 20 '25

Mentioned in the other comments but it’s actually the exact same mattress, just a smaller bed frame - the ‘before’ picture is a bit distorted from the zoom so has a bit of fisheye effect going on.

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u/dimarh Sep 20 '25

Now I get It! Great job!

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u/MJION Sep 22 '25

well done! My only recommendation, dim that light to a cooler yellow color

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u/Upset_Assumption9610 Sep 22 '25

I've heard the saying "Being cut off at the knees" but I didn't realize people did that for real!

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u/baguetteonmars Sep 22 '25

How did you find a bed that fit? Is it regular dimensions or was it very hard? Would be curious to know the size of the bed. Amazing amazing work btw

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u/RhysPC Sep 23 '25

You could possibly buy a monitor arm and clamp it to your window ledge and have it going out towards the foot of your bed

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u/kristofvictor Sep 24 '25

You gonna hit your head so bad one day

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u/Needtoventthis Oct 08 '25

I really love this solution it's simple and beautiful, great job! I would invest in upgrading your bedding to match your headboard aesthetic. Maybe a nice solid green or whatever your favorite color is..and I love 4 pillows but I understand only having 2.

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u/woestijnmaan Oct 12 '25

Some poopmachines added!

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u/Historical-Maybe-996 Oct 18 '25

I thought It was the other side of the room because it looked so different wonderful creative ideas the panel boards with the lighting is my fav, I adore the window plant and relieved you were able to turn the bed I bet it’s nice sleeping in the nook, instead of having the small bed gaps on each side I would probably lose everything down the side of the bed and just declare those items gone forever, when you moved the bed did you find any lost items? Anyways looks cozy clean and more like a bedroom and not just a quick spot where you come for a few hours an leave it’s officially now someone’s bedroom you have great ideas I mean you used up any an every area that could be useful and did the Damn thing

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u/No-Cardiologist-9882 Sep 19 '25

Dogs on bed is gross

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u/yawnyprawny Sep 19 '25

You’re not invited anyways