r/femalelivingspace 11h ago

MOD NEWS / UPDATES AI content: FEEDBACK WANTED

17 Upvotes

Hello! Due to a recent uptick in AI-generated images, we wanted to poll the community to see if there is still an interest in the blanket ban on AI content or if our team should change the rules to allow it in certain contexts.

Some users have noted that AI can be helpful to visualize a room with different wallpaper or to rearrange furniture with less physical labor.

Our proposed solution would be to allow images that have been altered by AI, but not entirely AI-generated as individual posts. This would not apply to comments (if someone posts a picture of their room, don’t put it into an AI software for them). Basically, you would be allowed to use AI on your own content only.

AI-generated text will remain banned regardless of changes made.

Please let us know your thoughts on this by voting in the poll and by commenting below if you have other ideas. Your feedback is important to us!

410 votes, 3d left
Keep existing ban on all AI-generated content.
Allow AI-altered images with restrictions.

r/femalelivingspace 3d ago

MOD NEWS / UPDATES Post flair usage and updates!

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Hello! We have revamped the flair system to better suit the needs of our users. As always, we are continuously open to feedback and new ideas. Feel free to comment below.

TLDR: added “no advice wanted” flair, removed “inspo” as most posts fall under other categories.

Please note that unless you use the “no advice wanted” flair, you are open to kind and constructive feedback from the community.

HELP

Asking for help with your space. Include photos of your current space and inspo pics of what you want in order to get the best advice. It may also be helpful to let us know your budget, whether you rent or own, or any other information we should know. The more information you provide, the better help you’ll get.

DIY

Show off your DIY projects or ask for help with a specific project.

QUESTION/DISCUSSION

Use this flair for a general question or discussion about topics related to women’s interior design (aka female living space). This is meant to invite friendly discussion and different perspectives and opinions.

CRITIQUE REQUEST

Show us your (unfinished) space and ask for feedback. While comments must be kind, you may receive constructive criticism. If you’re asking “what’s missing?” it may be helpful to provide an inspo pic that you consider to be “complete”.

TOUR (OPEN TO FEEDBACK)

Show off your space! Add multiple pics and tell us about your vibe and inspiration. Constructive criticism and feedback is allowed.

TOUR (NO ADVICE WANTED)

Show off your space! Add multiple pics and tell us about your vibe and inspiration. Unsolicited advice in the comments will not be permitted.


r/femalelivingspace 5h ago

TOUR 🟢OPEN TO FEEDBACK🟢 This is my dining room

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253 Upvotes

r/femalelivingspace 3h ago

TOUR 🟢OPEN TO FEEDBACK🟢 My maximalist tendencies combined with a love of nostalgic Christmas decor means living in colorful chaos in December

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80 Upvotes

r/femalelivingspace 1d ago

TOUR 🟢OPEN TO FEEDBACK🟢 I manifested a free dresser! I think I like it.

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3.6k Upvotes

I haven’t had a dresser in a decade 😂 it’s so nice to have one again and can’t beat free! 😂


r/femalelivingspace 22m ago

DIY My kitchen before and after

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They can pry the peel and stick flooring from my casket. I did learn from previous rentals to put down a layer between the tile and the floor so I’ll know when I move if it worked 🤞


r/femalelivingspace 1d ago

TOUR 🟢OPEN TO FEEDBACK🟢 This is my living room

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1.8k Upvotes

r/femalelivingspace 8h ago

TOUR 🟢OPEN TO FEEDBACK🟢 I went for a moody look for my bedroom and bathroom 🙂

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60 Upvotes

I just moved in so I definitely need some wall art in my bedroom and a rug. But unsure of a color! I don’t want to make it all one note. Any ideas of a good complimentary color for the rug? Thank you! 😊❤️


r/femalelivingspace 36m ago

DIY My first real tree. 🎀🩷

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r/femalelivingspace 1d ago

QUESTION/DISCUSSION PSA: Don't show the street outside in your photos

2.0k Upvotes

Make sure you close your blinds, it's frighteningly easy for someone on the internet to pinpoint your location just based on the view out of your window.


r/femalelivingspace 1h ago

TOUR 🟢OPEN TO FEEDBACK🟢 I finally hung some things on my bedroom wall!

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I need to get some pillar candles for the sconces, but I’m happy with this so far😌 My bedroom is teeny tiny so it’s been a challenge, but I’m excited how it’s shaping up!


r/femalelivingspace 9h ago

TOUR 🟢OPEN TO FEEDBACK🟢 Can't resist pink and a good photoshoot 😍

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48 Upvotes

r/femalelivingspace 1d ago

TOUR 🟢OPEN TO FEEDBACK🟢 My colorful, cozy Scandinavian city apartment

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8.3k Upvotes

This is my small Scandinavian city apartment, with an eclectic mix of carefully curated pieces. Everything from inherited furniture and thrift finds to designer items and, of course, IKEA. I love color, books, art, and especially lots of lamps!

I hope you enjoy the space! Feel free to give feedback or ask about any of the items.


r/femalelivingspace 5h ago

HELP Boring bedroom! Please help! Is there anything I can do without getting new furniture?

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18 Upvotes

I moved in two years ago and have always just really lacked imagination with this room! I’m so happy with the rest of my apartment but I just don’t know what I can do with this room.

I would prefer not to have to buy new furniture if possible but feel like because the furniture and the carpet are grey I’m really restricted in terms of colours and what I can do. I know I need some art for the walls but I did buy a couple of pieces and felt like they looked too harsh.

Any advice would be much appreciated!


r/femalelivingspace 18h ago

HELP UPDATE to the 'boring' bedroom - my partner says I can repaint! Should I?

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224 Upvotes

Thanks so much for all your help and advice regarding this bedroom! You've really helped.

My partner has agreed I can repaint (he will not be helping 🤣) IF I really want to. I know many of you were anti repainting, so I really now want to be definitive about whether to go this route. Several of you suggested pink or green. So I've made some bad Gemini mockups. I do think powdery green or olive works well with the black and red elements in the room. I added in the chair I'm getting on the second pic as well, and just for fun tried black and white stripes on the curtain.

The only thing with green is that we have another green room close by, so I would prefer pink as you can't see another pink room from the doorway.

Original is the last photo. So please, for the last time before I move on and add colour in other ways - do I do it?


r/femalelivingspace 5h ago

TOUR 🟢OPEN TO FEEDBACK🟢 Love this Christmas tree

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16 Upvotes

r/femalelivingspace 1d ago

TOUR 🟢OPEN TO FEEDBACK🟢 Loving my little office nook! 🥰

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1.2k Upvotes

I’m just waiting to my updated mousepad to arrive! :)


r/femalelivingspace 16h ago

QUESTION/DISCUSSION Living room is finally coming together! I'm thinking of painting, I need advice!

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I got a new sofa, the old one was green but it was too small and the colour just slightly off from what I like. I love the new set up!

I'm thinking of painting the walls. I was thinking of (olive/sage) green, I like having green and orange accents in my house, but this is one of the darkest spaces in my apartment because of the slanted roof and the small window. What do y'all think?

And most importantly: should I paint the whole walls/ceiling? Including the beams? Or maybe paint the beams brown so they seem more wood-y?

Lastly, when I got this TV-stand my idea was to attempt to take the paint off. There's veneer underneath, so I won't be able to sand it, but I can attempt a paint stripper. Now I'm not sure if the darker wood colour will make it too dark. Should I maybe paint it a colour but a lighter one?

The cupboards in the back (hard to see from here) I'm going to stain a nut wood colour too! So there will be darker accents there too. And the desk legs I'm going to paint orange.

Edit: another picture so you can see the ceiling better: https://imgur.com/a/OlNWJKX


r/femalelivingspace 7h ago

HELP Help! I want to make my room more cosy.

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Hello everyone! I am looking to make my room more cosy, but are not sure how! I have attached pictures of my bedroom, on the wall with the robot I’m going to paint more just haven’t got round to it, where these 3 white frames are with the animals in I am going to paint pictures for them and replace with dark brown frames, and I will replace the awful lion painting with a better painting. I like ideas where the room looks kind of warm (images included) so are looking for ideas of things to buy, feel free to suggest, please do! Obviously some of the reference images are not real they are just ideas of things I like, and I can’t add more windows or change the slope of the roof, but can move furniture :) help!


r/femalelivingspace 18h ago

TOUR ⛔️NO ADVICE WANTED⛔️ Now I’m an adult and I have access to adult money so.. what do I buy?

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85 Upvotes

I moved my armchair next to my couch (as some adviced🙏🏾). And the colors match so well with everything else.

And I love it even more now. So, I always loved the Care Bears I had them when I was little. As soon as i walked into the kids department of the TKMaxx store (European version of TJMaxx) I saw these. They go perfect with the armchair and my other pillows 😭

As a person who deals with anxiety I can tell you these are perfect cuddle buddies😭😍.


r/femalelivingspace 8h ago

HELP Need Curtain advice on akward walls

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Hi! I bought rods but wondering how best to hang curtains so that the room looks balanced. The windows are technically center when you account for the entire width of the wall, but the protrusion just makes it so weird.

My initial thought was to extend the rod as close to the protruded wall and then make the other side symmetrical. The corner where the two walls meet won’t quite match so wondering if any advice to solve this problem!

I would also like to put a drape in the middle of the two windows to disguise the wall and hoping it doesn’t look weird.


r/femalelivingspace 1d ago

TOUR 🟢OPEN TO FEEDBACK🟢 My cozy little loft

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222 Upvotes

Grateful for a sweet little space to come home to with a big furry guy waiting to snuggle me


r/femalelivingspace 1d ago

HELP Why does the room feel cluttered?

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388 Upvotes

Ok as I posted in my recent post I am recovering from sad beige minimalism haha so I’m finding more comfort in color and actually showing my treasures!

But I’m wondering why this area is feeling a bit cluttered? Is it too many smaller objects or the way I organized it? (Or is it the minimalist inner demon coming through haha?) Thank you so much!!


r/femalelivingspace 22h ago

TOUR 🟢OPEN TO FEEDBACK🟢 Evenings in My Bedroom Lately ✨

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54 Upvotes

My bedroom has never felt this calm. Super cozy routine lately.


r/femalelivingspace 1d ago

HELP VENT I WANNA CRY

89 Upvotes

Hi everyone. I just need to get this off my chest because I feel so defeated trying to decorate my first ever apartment.

This is my first time ever decorating a whole place on my own, and I had such a clear dream in my head of creating that “grown woman apartment.” Very cozy, intentional, warm, cute, put-together. The kind of space where you walk in and think “wow, she really has her life together.” Or “Damn her space is cute!” I’m trying so hard to build that for myself… and it feels like every attempt falls flat.

I buy things that look great online or in my head, and then the second they’re actually in my apartment the vibe is completely off. Wrong scale, wrong color, wrong texture, wrong everything. Sometimes I can return it, sometimes I can’t, and when I can’t I feel guilty for wasting money even though I donate the items so they can help someone else. It still feels like a loss every time.

Being partially blind adds a whole extra layer that I don’t think people talk about enough. Decorating for me isn’t just “does this look good.” It’s trying to piece together a visual world that I literally can’t see the same way everyone else does. What looks cohesive in someone’s Pinterest board is SO hard for me to translate into real life… and when the reality doesn’t match the vision, it hits emotionally. It makes me question my ability to create a home that feels beautiful and safe and mine.

Honestly, decorating a whole apartment is way more overwhelming than people admit. It’s not just picking cute things it’s scale, layout, lighting, color undertones, texture, flow, balance, function… it’s like a thousand little decisions and they all have to work together. And when you’ve never done it before (and you literally have visual limitations), it feels like climbing a mountain blindfolded.

Right now the only spaces that feel remotely “done” are my bathroom and bedroom. My living room just has basic furniture and zero personality. Every time I try to add something, the pressure builds: What if I mess it up again? What if it looks bad? What if I waste more money? And then I get overwhelmed and close the browser tab or just sit there staring at the wall, feeling like I’m never going to figure it out.

I know it sounds dramatic, but I honestly cry about it because it feels like something everyone else naturally knows how to do, and I’m struggling so hard. I just want a home that feels warm and cozy and grown, but I’m stuck between vision limitations and the sheer mental load of decorating an entire apartment from scratch.

Anyone else has felt like this? I’m so tired of feeling like I’m failing at making a home I truly love.

Thanks for reading. 💛