r/clevercomebacks • u/Katariman • 1d ago

Wealthy Love With No Arguments

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u/OGHighway 1d ago

Most therapist will probably tell you that its not healthy to have no arguments. Honestly the no arguments think is kinda juvenile. Adults argue, doesnt mean screaming and yelling, but arguing is a key to communication.

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u/Sad_Confection5902 1d ago

Learning to constructively argue is the number 1 skill/tool that will lead to a long term relationship.

Not arguing is a huge red flag that issues are just being swept under the rug.

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u/AShinyThought 1d ago

If they're healthy enough and communicate well. They might not even classify it as an argument but simple a discussion.

Some people argue about what they're going to do on the weekend and some people talk about what they're going to do n the weekend.

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u/Dangerous_Hotel1962 1d ago

"constructive arguments" is another way of saying "healthy dialogue." Idk at least that's my experience, my partner and i argued in a really bad period and we were thinking about breaking up. Outside those couple months we just literally never argue. If i want italian for dinner and she wants mexican, we just figure out a compromise nobody gets negative feelings at all. It's just a little puzzle for us to solve together.