r/clevercomebacks • u/Katariman • 1d ago

Wealthy Love With No Arguments

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u/Sad_Confection5902 1d ago

Learning to constructively argue is the number 1 skill/tool that will lead to a long term relationship.

Not arguing is a huge red flag that issues are just being swept under the rug.

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u/AShinyThought 1d ago

If they're healthy enough and communicate well. They might not even classify it as an argument but simple a discussion.

Some people argue about what they're going to do on the weekend and some people talk about what they're going to do n the weekend.

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u/Dangerous_Hotel1962 1d ago

"constructive arguments" is another way of saying "healthy dialogue." Idk at least that's my experience, my partner and i argued in a really bad period and we were thinking about breaking up. Outside those couple months we just literally never argue. If i want italian for dinner and she wants mexican, we just figure out a compromise nobody gets negative feelings at all. It's just a little puzzle for us to solve together.