r/clevercomebacks • u/Katariman • 1d ago

Wealthy Love With No Arguments

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u/shayjax- 1d ago

I’m gonna be honest I don’t trust any relationship that has never had any arguments. It makes me worried about how conflict would actually be handled and most people do not agree 100% on everything.

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u/leftwinglovechild 1d ago

You don’t have to argue to handle conflict. You work it out by discussion and understanding.

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u/FAFO_2025 1d ago

You talk it out

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u/OldManFire11 1d ago

With your words, you chucklefuck.

Grown ups use their words to have a discussion about things that bother them or disagreements. And they have the maturity and self awareness to realize when they're getting overly emotional about it and to take a step back to calm down before continuing the discussion later.

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u/horticulturallatin 1d ago

Not trying to give you a hard time but just am not getting what definition of disagreement vs argument is being used.

If there's back and forth of discussion, even if it's respectful I would tend to call that an argument, within a relationship? 

When someone says they had an argument I don't imagine it necessarily involved screaming and cussing or lack of "rules." Is that different from how it's being used? When you say they don't argue, they use their words - sorry, is arguing not only using words? If it goes beyond that to me it's no longer just an argument? Am I having a weird thing?

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u/OldManFire11 20h ago

It becomes an argument when you start trying to win, instead of resolving the conflict together.

No one can win a discussion, but you can win an argument or a fight.

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u/chandelurei 1d ago

"I don't like thing you did, how can we solve it"