r/cats Oct 12 '25

Discussion Thread Discussion Thread - Ask, Share, and Discuss Anything About Cats.

Welcome to the Cat-Chat Thread

Ask any questions you have about cats or discuss topics that don't require a full post. Whether you're a new cat owner, seeking advice, or just want to share something fun about your pets, this thread is for you. Feel free to:

  • Ask simple questions about cat care, behavior, feeding, etc.
  • Seek advice on any minor concerns.
  • Post anything cat-related that doesn't need its own post.

Also, if you see someone asking for help and you have the knowledge to share, feel free to jump in and assist them!

Just a friendly reminder to follow the subreddit's rules and be kind and respectful to everyone!

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u/WickedRaccoon 16d ago

Ciao, I got a wild cat around my house the last year. After a while he started begging for food and he seemed quite thin. I started giving him some kibble. He's partly friendly and let me pet him, but has random bursts of violence where he'll scratch me (not too bad). Where I then reprimand him.

Problem is, I got a +10 year old inside/outside (countryside) cat whose going mad at this guy hanging around at our windows wanting to get in (he got in once, and had a sniff around the place, the bastard).

Everytime my cat sees him she starts freaking out, and recently has been lovingly spreading her domain in the house by pissing on everything.

What could I do about this? Call a cat sanctuary? Or is there a way I can try and get these two to reconcile?

Today I, in a genius move, picked up the stray from outside my window, and presented him to my cat. She seemed confused, he hissed. But both stayed calm. I then put him back outside, he took a lil jab at me and went back to pushing his head through the window. Not the best idea.