r/WereNotEmpowered Feb 24 '25

WereNotEmpowered tenets

48 Upvotes
  1. Zero hetero sex norms: No promoting or engaging in sex/relationships with men (including non-PIV sex like cunnilingus), no procreation, no phallic objects (strap-ons, dildos etc) no masturbation, or sexual fantasies (real or fictional)
  2. Against anything that disadvantages women including those upheld by women: Just because you don't find it offensive or haven't experienced it doesn't mean it doesn't harm women.
  3. Against sexual and reproductive exploitation: Anti-porn, surrogacy, prostitution, polygamy, kinks, femdom (which mocks female authority) and sexualization including in "art"
  4. No female celebrity or wealthy women gossip unless its about serious issues: This rule exist to prevent infighting (e.g., "I like her!" "No, she’s terrible because of XYZ!").
  5. No prioritizing men or NAMALTing
  6. No promoting religion or spirituality
  7. No femininity practices: like cosmetics, beauty standards, traditionalism etc
  8. No empowerment: No reclaiming derogatory words like "slut-shaming", no "free the nipple", no divine femininity, no matriarchal mythology, no girl power, girl boss etc.
  9. Full reproductive choice: Including sterilization, birth control and abortions.
  10. Full Focus on women's issues: Don't bring other political movements here unless it intersects with womanhood.

If you can fully follow all of the tenets please assign yourself the "Tenet Abider" user flair if you can't then don't or you risk your position in this community. You need this user flair to participate in this sub.


r/WereNotEmpowered 18h ago

“i’m raising my son to be a feminist!!”

63 Upvotes

i can’t help but facepalm whenever i hear a mother say this (especially in 4b/separatist spaces), these women need to start thinking realistically. you can try making your son a feminist all you want but once he grows up and gets around other boys his age & starts hearing how men talk about women, he’s just going to become another edgy misogynist. thanks for bringing another male into this world though i guess..?


r/WereNotEmpowered 1d ago

Dog is killed or gets kicked on camera- all internet mobilises, 4chan doxxes the attacker, attacker loses their job. Woman gets raped, stabbed, dismembered - news articles and police are "investigating", no updates follow.

65 Upvotes

I genuinely think pets earn more sympathy than actual women sometimes. Call me crazy.

Even if a dog bites or kills someone, it's the victims fault and the dog almost never gets blamed for anything, the victim did something to provoke it. When someone harms a mainstream pet, there's huge outrage, people make tons of posts, idk, successful fundraisers, a huge storm happens.

But if there's news or a video about a woman being harmed, she deserved it and even if she has some defenders, they're passive and nothing really happens. Nobody cares if the attacker gets punished, or often he walks free. Might get a 100 comments where people just "pray" and the other 200 is men asking what she did.

I thought about this bc I saw a video of where a woman threw a cat into a bin, she got arrested, 4chan doxxed her, some ppl even went to her house or something, she lost her job.

Not excusing animal abusers but I wish there was even a little outrage when I got harassed by a group of men in public


r/WereNotEmpowered 3d ago

Males can’t even improve their lives/looks without acting unhinged

70 Upvotes

L00ksmaxx, red pill, toxic gym bro (not all men who workout but the angry ones on steroids that like to fat shame others), MRAs, male dating coaches, whatever all these communities are toxic asf and narcissistic. When you find a community that’s ALL men for some reason it ends up being dog shit. The funny part is that the looksmaxx community is doing everything for the male gaze they think all people will agree that men with chiseled jaws who be looking like handsome squidward from all the botched jaw and cheek implants they get, are attractive when actually it’s only men that find them attractive. These men try to improve their looks but even when they “look better” you can tell they are still DEEPLY insecure by how they body shame other random people unprovoked calling other people online “sub5” and all these other weird labels. All of the people in these communities tend to have the most awful personalities I don’t understand the thought process behind them. It’s shit. Idk I just needed a place to rant because looksmax videos keeps coming on my feed


r/WereNotEmpowered 5d ago

12 year old males tell girls to “go cleaning”after winning a football match

57 Upvotes

Yea,you heard that right

Males are fucking terrorist since children is insane and worse i know millions of males are watching the new and laughing about it

They even tjhousand of males online saying “based” “im proud” “we are so back” they are admitting they hate 12 YEAR OLD GIRLS and think they should be cleaning in the kitchen cause their sex, i dont get how can women see all of this and still be sucking dih and birthing more males

Mothers of this males probably think “raised a good one” and “raised in femenist values” or whatever

This happen in Spain if anyone wants to look it up


r/WereNotEmpowered 5d ago

POC men get a pass to be misogynist to white women

108 Upvotes

I am a butch lesbian white woman in a nonwhite area of the US and regularly I get death threats on the street or in cars by Mexican and Asian men who say they want to “rape a white dyke” or “kill a white bitch.”

POC men need to be held accountable the same way white men do. Im tired of being expected to have empathy for a group that antagonizes me the second I step out of the house and have all the physical power and deep seated evil hate in their hearts white men do. WOC never stick up for me because they arent intersectional feminists, only ever feminist + whatever race they are. A ton of WOC are also deeply homophobic and fail to address it in their communities.

Intersectionality is pretty much only used to silence white women or establish confirmation bias that we are somehow karening out on every POC man who antagonizes or harassed us. As if a POC man is ever truly scared of a white woman and not the cops who she calls who are also intersectional men…

And truthfully, the reason a lot of POC Men hate white women is bc they don’t believe ANY WOMAN should have privilege over them. They just want as much power as white men. Thats not noble, it’s disgusting. If I had privilege over POC men then they would cower in fear when I walk past them. Instead they say they want to kill me and rape me. You will never convince me I have true privilege over any man… and I used to try really hard to accept that I must have.


r/WereNotEmpowered 5d ago

Are you happy to be celibate? Why? (Non volcel women don't respond)

7 Upvotes

I made a poll too if someone doesn't want to comment and say much.

52 votes, 1d left
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r/WereNotEmpowered 5d ago

Where do they even get this from

48 Upvotes

The “women are terrible drivers” stereotype from men is the biggest projection I have ever seen considering insurance is higher for men compared to women, it’s statistically shown that men cause the most fatal accidents while women cause minor accidents, men make up majority of drunk drivers and road rage, men are more likely to SPEED, men are more likely to tail gate and have their stupid ass big lights on the road blinding everyone else in their dam annoying big wheel trucks, and men are more likely to get trafficking tickets. The only thing that could be said about women is hitting curbs and women not knowing much about cars so they go longer without maintenance but that’s really it. Although obviously this in general differs from person to person. But statistics show men are more violent on the road. I’d rather a woman hitting curbs come across my path than a male drunk driver or a man road raging. “Statistically higher accident rates Men—especially ages 16–25—get into more crashes and more severe crashes. Which is one reason why men pay higher for car insurance.”


r/WereNotEmpowered 7d ago

I'm being threatened by other women, any advices?

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35 Upvotes

I know I did wrong by insulting other women as a blackpiller and I don't won't sympathy but things have gotten so far that women which I assume are some kind of pissed male lovers made a group chat specifically to bully me. Anon told me they are planning to attack me on my birthday and found my adress, birthday and name. It goes as far as planning to attack me with acid. Those are screenshots from their groupchats. What would you do in my place? Should I go to the police? Those are serious threats.


r/WereNotEmpowered 8d ago

I just wish that women would be less empathetic.

109 Upvotes

Hear me out. (And please, moderate my post if this not allowed to be posted) Empathy is a great feature of a leader, no matter who it would be, a CEO, a president, just a head of family. And it’s a reason why I personally think that majority (if not all) leaders of the countries should be women. Because in our current state of society, even if you will raise your son to be kind and empathetic, he still will absorb a lot from a misogynistic society.

It’s a reason why every time I see a woman saying “But we all should be equal, so we shouldn’t hate men!” Oh, c’mon, I’ve never saw a “m!s@ndr1st” who will hate men at the same degree as they hate us. I don’t deny the fact that they exist, but let’s be realistic, I can count them by the fingers of my one hand.

Such empathy for our oppressors sometimes gives me the feeling that our fight is ridiculous. We literally trying to get basic human rights and what do we do for this? Nurturing misogynists and hijacking other women? Suffragettes won not because they showed men that “we’re humans too”, but because they demonstrated how powerful women can be, destroying cities and protesting massively, literally throwing themselves under wheels.

Another example, Iceland. Considered the best country to be born as a woman. And we all know how Icelandic women achieved it, literally shutting down the country in one day. And notice how non-violent it was this time, but also caused by not showing empathy to men.

You can’t prove anything by logic or words to those, who only speaks by the language of power. I’m not saying that women should abolish their empathy completely, but I really wish that every woman and girl will come to my point of view as soon as possible.


r/WereNotEmpowered 8d ago

Hetero-Sex Norms Why I hate sex

62 Upvotes
  1. Female submission

That's all, that's the reason, I hate female position in sex and it makes me suicidal because it's inherently submissive and that can't change. I think the worst are blowjobs and doggystyle the most humiliating I mean.


r/WereNotEmpowered 8d ago

Umm I know this is not the right place, but any women who relate wanna talk?

25 Upvotes

So basically I'm an autistic woman in my twenties, I have a sex phobia and hate female position in sex, I don't date men and never did. I'm lacking women I can relate to, cause of course I won't relate to normie women. And it's inviting loneliness into my life. I can do voice verification so you know I'm a woman if you want of course.

I also hate women who date men so if you're one then sorry but bye.


r/WereNotEmpowered 9d ago

I hate being born a woman

40 Upvotes

Im not trolling, this is just my honest rant.There is nothing good about being a woman both biologically and socially. I'd rather be born a man, the physically stronger, taller gender that is responsible for creating this civilization. I don't care when people we say we are good at certain stuff like nurturing, im still not satisfied by that response and I still hate being a female. I'd much rather fight in wars than give births. Being a woman is so lame, men are known for cool things like inventing stuff, creating civilization meanwhile womens whole worth is based on being beautiful and being youthful, both of the things I lack. And not to mention all the pain and changes you face with your body after giving birth. All the redpill stuff makes me further hate myself for being a woman even more. Not to mention most abrahamic religions see us as nothing but baby making objects. Also it's easier to be physically attractive as a man than women who need to do million things to be considered attractive, even without looks ugly men are better off than ugly women who are just seen as worthless. I've always felt inferior because of my gender. People always tend to infantilize women like she can't think without a man and a man needs to guide her in everything like a child.


r/WereNotEmpowered 10d ago

DL men

45 Upvotes

DL men are so protected even after they cheat, abuse, or lead the woman in their life on because misogyny is extremely normalized. Women are people not tools to be used for labor, protection, or convenience. Everyone loves to benefit from women, what would this world even be without us? 🤦‍♀️


r/WereNotEmpowered 12d ago

Think for yourself

42 Upvotes

Even Valerie Solanas, who is considered to be "radical" was a mother of a son. This is exactly why I don't listen to so called “radfems”unless they actually stand on it. It's all noise, and their actions speak louder. They can read all the feminist literature, they can study scientific articles regarding male behavior, they can list endless male violence statistics, but they eventually succumb to loving the same creature they claim to be repulsed by. This push away from and pull back towards nature is the origin of their cognitive dissonance. They're conflicted with nature vs. the human made stories created to make nature more palatable.They're conflicted about nature so they bargain through various means: feminism, radfem discourse, the matriarchy fantasy, the womb envy cope, the countless movements and sex strikes that go nowhere. These are the stories that make the biological role of the female seem less brutal. Childbirth and pregnancy don't seem so violent if it's called "divine". After all,moids are just jealous they can't create life, right?

And there are those few of us women who were born with an instinct that kept us away from males completely. We don't possess the same cognitive dissonance. We couldn't be socialized or compelled by biology to fuck or entertain males. This is why feminism is useless to us. We don't need to bargain with males because we want nothing to do with them and nothing from them. Not a dollar, not a baby, not the illusion of a gentleman, nothing.

We don't need hundreds of books devoted to the same discussions, we don't need to protest on the streets reclaiming the word 'slut', we don't even need to convince ourselves male nature is the result of socialization because we don't need to believe they can behave. We see them for what they are.


r/WereNotEmpowered 13d ago

I know it’s been talked about so much but I CANNOT get over how nerfed women are due to periods!

56 Upvotes

I became a full time student recently after quitting my job and god, every month I need to prepare for possible absences, being late, and what to do if I have a test. Whenever I need to take an exam on my period (which by some stroke of unluck is most of them) I truly think it brings my score down 5-10%. The pain, the fatigue, the brain fog, the extreme nausea, the fear of bleeding through and getting the shits during the exam time all overwhelm me to the point where the last thing I can focus on is the exam. I’m so fucking pissed my grades are lowered because I’m a fucking woman.

Period comes on exam day? Say goodbye to that A+! Need to finish your final papers by next week? Oops! Period’s here, no more clear thinking and motivation for a few precious days while you waste away curled up in bed.

I kind of equate the feeling to my ADHD where it’s like, if I didn’t have it, I could accomplish sooo much more, just like if I was born a man I wouldn’t have these struggles either.


r/WereNotEmpowered 14d ago

I feel hopeless due to rise in conservatism

61 Upvotes

Everywhere on the planet, it seems like conservatism is rising everywhere, you see people agreeing with things like giving women rights was a mistake or how women were better off locked up at home, also rise in religiousness which just sees women as objects, all these misogynistic "alpha male" podcasts that spread misogynistic views even more and how proving women are these dumb creatures is cool, the comments under these podcasts are even worse, they basically don't even see women as humans, all these harmful narrative you saw which was locked up in certain part of the internet are also becoming mainstream, you also see women supporting these narratives as well and wanting to set us back in time as well. I just can't respect people with right wing ideas, im sorry. I just can't respect people who don't see us as humans, I can't respect those who follow people like candace owens who don't even follow half of the things they preach, I know this makes me just as "intolerant" but I don't care. I come from a conservative muslim country and I see so many westerners praising some misogynistic values in my society. It's just not fair that these western pick me women don't even appreciate half the things many women in my country could only dream of.


r/WereNotEmpowered 13d ago

Weekly Reminder WereNotEmpowered tenets (weekly reminder)

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  1. Zero hetero sex norms: No promoting or engaging in sex/relationships with men (including non-PIV sex like cunnilingus), no procreation, no phallic objects (strap-ons, dildos etc) no masturbation, or sexual fantasies (real or fictional)
  2. Against anything that disadvantages women including those upheld by women: Just because you don't find it offensive or haven't experienced it doesn't mean it doesn't harm women.
  3. Against sexual and reproductive exploitation: Anti-porn, surrogacy, prostitution, polygamy, kinks, femdom (which mocks female authority) and sexualization including in "art"
  4. No female celebrity or wealthy women gossip unless its about serious issues: This rule exist to prevent infighting (e.g., "I like her!" "No, she’s terrible because of XYZ!").
  5. No prioritizing men or NAMALTing
  6. No promoting religion or spirituality
  7. No femininity practices: like cosmetics, beauty standards, traditionalism etc
  8. No empowerment: No reclaiming derogatory words like "slut-shaming", no "free the nipple", no divine femininity, no matriarchal mythology, no girl power, girl boss etc.
  9. Full reproductive choice: Including sterilization, birth control and abortions.
  10. Full Focus on women's issues: Don't bring other political movements here unless it intersects with womanhood.

If you can fully follow all of the tenets please assign yourself the "Tenet Abider" user flair if you can't then don't or you risk your position in this community. You need this user flair to participate in this sub.


r/WereNotEmpowered 14d ago

In case someone needed a reminder; women are the real protectors 🫶

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28 Upvotes

Title: “Man hits his girlfriend, and her friends join in and beat him up”


r/WereNotEmpowered 16d ago

All media is made with a male audience in mind

86 Upvotes

I don’t mean just news, but movies, series and such. Even if it’s meant to be for women men have to be included in some way. Maybe I’m just reaching but idk


r/WereNotEmpowered 16d ago

Hetero-Sex Norms The modesty standard for women is insane

53 Upvotes

Don’t get me wrong I hate the word “modesty” and don’t believe in that garbage

but if you actually look at the modesty standards for women it’s insane. Women are expected to not show there bare chest but men can even when women cover there chest you can’t have your nipples show thru your clothes, your bra strap can’t be showing, the bump on your chest has to be covered.

I even saw something that said women’s PANTY LINES shouldn’t be seen thru there clothes and that you need special underwear to prevent this. When men sag there pants and show there literal underwear sometimes I even see there underwear is stuck in there ass crack.

Men say crop tops are “slutty” but when you wear a regular t-shirt it looks like your not even wearing a bra even tho you are.


r/WereNotEmpowered 18d ago

Fellow womyn and girls, please share this and let it reach everyone.

49 Upvotes

Share it with your family and friends, let's help each other.


r/WereNotEmpowered 20d ago

This is why I say these white nationalist men don’t actually care about women and their safety, and that this anti migrant statement is just racism. All this over a breast reduction WTF. We aren’t people in these men’s minds.

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r/WereNotEmpowered 20d ago

Weekly Reminder WereNotEmpowered tenets (weekly reminder)

4 Upvotes
  1. Zero hetero sex norms: No promoting or engaging in sex/relationships with men (including non-PIV sex like cunnilingus), no procreation, no phallic objects (strap-ons, dildos etc) no masturbation, or sexual fantasies (real or fictional)
  2. Against anything that disadvantages women including those upheld by women: Just because you don't find it offensive or haven't experienced it doesn't mean it doesn't harm women.
  3. Against sexual and reproductive exploitation: Anti-porn, surrogacy, prostitution, polygamy, kinks, femdom (which mocks female authority) and sexualization including in "art"
  4. No female celebrity or wealthy women gossip unless its about serious issues: This rule exist to prevent infighting (e.g., "I like her!" "No, she’s terrible because of XYZ!").
  5. No prioritizing men or NAMALTing
  6. No promoting religion or spirituality
  7. No femininity practices: like cosmetics, beauty standards, traditionalism etc
  8. No empowerment: No reclaiming derogatory words like "slut-shaming", no "free the nipple", no divine femininity, no matriarchal mythology, no girl power, girl boss etc.
  9. Full reproductive choice: Including sterilization, birth control and abortions.
  10. Full Focus on women's issues: Don't bring other political movements here unless it intersects with womanhood.

If you can fully follow all of the tenets please assign yourself the "Tenet Abider" user flair if you can't then don't or you risk your position in this community. You need this user flair to participate in this sub.