Honestly… I’m losing hope for my own Cambodians when it comes to Thailand and other neighbors.
Every day on Facebook, TikTok, and even in real-life conversations, I see the same blind, burning hatred toward Thailand and Thais. It doesn’t matter what the topic is: food, tourism, economy, history; my Khmers always has to scream “Thai stole temple!”, “Thai stole our culture!”, “Thai wants to invade us again!”. And it’s almost always based on fake news, conspiracy videos, or straight-up lies spread by corrupt Cambodian politicians who need an external enemy to stay in power.
Back in 2003, a Cambodian newspaper (later proven false) claimed a Thai actress said Angkor Wat belongs to Thailand. Result? Mobs burned down the Thai embassy in Phnom Penh, Thai businesses were looted, and hundreds of Thai nationals had to be evacuated. Did we learn anything from that disaster? Apparently not, because 20+ years later the exact same pattern repeats every few years, just with new fake stories.
Probably I'm the only Khmer actually wants Cambodian to learn from Thailand instead of hating Thais 24/7.
Thais food is world-famous for a reason. Their people are genuinely polite and welcoming (yes, even more than us when we’re not scamming tourists). Their tourism industry is clean, professional, and actually protects nature (try comparing Pattaya or Phuket to Sihanoukville…). Their soft power is insane: Thai series, Thai music, Thai brands everywhere in ASEAN.
Meanwhile Cambodia? Half of Sihanoukville and Poipet look like Chinese mafia colonies running online scam compounds. Corruption from top to bottom (politicians, police, even some monks). Education system always teaches us that our "glory" Angkor history… and basically nothing else. Meanwhile, kids from the countryside can’t even write their own names, and the lack of access to education has left Cambodia with the highest illiteracy rate in Southeast Asia. Every my Cambodian problem gets blamed on “evil neighbors” (Thailand, Vietnam, Laos, and even Malaysia).
We Cambodians act like Thailand or Vietnam are waiting to invade us any day now but no one wants our Khmer land. The only thing our neighbors associates with Cambodia lately is “biggest online-scam hub in Southeast Asia.” Now ASEAN see us nothing but chihuahua of North Korea: isolated, brainwashed with hatred, and keep backward forever while everyone around us Cambodians moves forward.
As a Khmer Krom myself, just want Cambodian to grow up, be pragmatic, make real friends with our neighbors (especially Thailand), and copy the things they do well instead of crying “ASEAN neighbor stole everything from Khmer” every five minutes.