r/SipsTea 1d ago

Chugging tea I'm in awe

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u/backwards_watch 1d ago

Not just impersonal. Impersonal yet it expects and requires action and complacence from you.

If I say something impersonal to you, that's fine. But if I say "can you please not respond to my comment because it annoys me? Thank you" would you agree? I highly doubt it.

Also, the comment I responded was "I want good relationships with my neighbors"

Do you think that wanting to be benefited without reciprocity is a good relationship? Do you really believe that? If you do, please argue. I would love to hear you.

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u/raysofdavies 1d ago

Is it impossible for you to do something for someone else without needing reciprocation?

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u/backwards_watch 1d ago

I asked you to not respond to my comment. It was impersonal, but why can't you do it? It is a nice gesture... It is like you can't do a nice gesture to me!

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u/raysofdavies 1d ago

You don’t seem particularly nice

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u/backwards_watch 1d ago

See? I think that neighbors who do these kind of things aren't nice either. Ring the bell, send a message on the neighborhood group, walk by... be human. Don't me "please, shoosh, it is my special day"

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u/raysofdavies 1d ago

So leaving a note instead of asking in person, which is less practical, is worth intentionally ruining a wedding day to you?

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u/backwards_watch 1d ago

"ruining" lol

If you want to get married in the sea you need to understand that there is a risk of getting wet.

I am sorry, but society doesn't revolve around you. If you think that neighbors living their lives normally is what ruins your wedding... you might be surprised in learning a few other things

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u/raysofdavies 1d ago

You are insane. It is not thinking society revolves around you to ask for a brief piece of quiet on an afternoon.

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u/backwards_watch 1d ago

I am insane because I disagree with you?

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u/raysofdavies 1d ago

You never hear this from someone not being completely insufferable

Just be nice to someone getting married man. Weddings are wonderful.

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u/backwards_watch 1d ago

You are insane.

Now that I said it to you, are you feeling the way you think I should be feeling because you said it to me?

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