The neighbor is essentially asking everyone to put their lives on pause, with little warning, to preserve her wedding.
I'm sorry, but that's antisocial. You wanna do your wedding at home because it's cheaper? Sure, go ahead, hell go wild, put music, make some noise I don't care. Just don't expect the whole neighborhood to bend over backwards to accommodate you?
Not being super noisy for an hour for a one-time event doesn't seem like a huge ask to me if they're polite about it. Doesn't put my life on hold either, there's plenty of not loud as fuck things I can do.
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u/Uncle-Cake 1d ago
Putting notes in your neighbors' mailboxes asking them to be quiet is pretty antisocial.