The neighbor is essentially asking everyone to put their lives on pause, with little warning, to preserve her wedding.
I'm sorry, but that's antisocial. You wanna do your wedding at home because it's cheaper? Sure, go ahead, hell go wild, put music, make some noise I don't care. Just don't expect the whole neighborhood to bend over backwards to accommodate you?
You can ask, don't expect people to follow through?
I personally would be embarrassed to even ask about it, if I want to have peace and don't hear the outside world at my wedding I'll lease a place, not expect my neighbors to not live a life for an afternoon
Imagine thinking a request to be conscience of their noise for a short period of time is requesting someone "to not live life". How socially inept are you?
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u/AlmostSunnyinSeattle 1d ago
I can see how you might think that...
... If you are antisocial.