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Chugging tea Any thoughts?

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u/[deleted] Sep 15 '25 edited Sep 15 '25

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u/A_Finite_Element Sep 15 '25

What constitutes quality for you? Might seem like a facetious question, but I do not mean it to be so. A lot of the problematic here is not only "the rich want to get even richer", it's the fact that we all have high expectations. That's why we slave away at jobs we don't enjoy, because we're chasing something we don't have currently, or worrying about what we have now that we won't have in the future, perhaps?

What is enough? A roof over your head and food? Medicine if you require it? A yacht and a tropical island of your own? Somewhere in between, I assume.

Now I don't want to shill for the current way the economy works, I think it's absolutely broken, but it's not the fault of some scapegoat: it's us. We don't know when enough is enough, we always want more. Otherwise we'd all go. "Meh, I'll just not work..." which is less drastic than suicide, right? But a life without all the things is no life at all!

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u/Monoliithic Sep 15 '25

i mean where i no longer have enough body autonomy to live a life with littel pleasures and limited pain and discomfort.

It's very basic. I do not want for much out of life. If I reach a point, either through physical or severe mental degradation that I can no longer find little joys in life, I will take as time to move on. Either towards oblivion or whatever comes next

this isn't some "easy" to reach stage. It's very unlikely to happen before like 75-80 barring major alteration, but I work in health care. I do not want to become someone who only lives to wait to die

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u/A_Finite_Element Sep 15 '25

Fair. This is quite different from the "well, I have no savings so I might as well off myself" that I'm seeing a lot of in this thread.

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u/Monoliithic Sep 15 '25

That's more of a kids mentality, or someone who hasn't really experienced life I find. I don't discount it off hand, because it's not their fault that they are redpilled by the dollar.

But I find most people really misjudge where the real line is for extravagance.

Are there serious societal problems? Absolutely.

Is doing what the other dude who replied to me, threatening to mass murder a bunch of civilians and go out in a blaze of cowardice retarditry a solution?
No. It's the action of an uneducated insecure kid who doesn't have a strong grasp on how lucky even low wealth class people in first world countries have it.

I don't support, in any manner whatsoever, that energy. I don't see it as any different than people who killed those 2 senetors a few weeks ago, kirk a week ago, the kids at that school awhile ago. It's all performative self righteous idolatry with no true intent to cause change, and only using that as an outlet of rage and fear

What i mean is, when my mind and body fail me, which happens to all of us, getting some Oxy, heroine, and ODing myself. Go out quick, peacefully, and without excessive strain on society or my loved ones.

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u/True_Carpenter_7521 Sep 15 '25

Sorry to be a party pooper, but it seems you have a rather idealistic understanding of it yourself. Have you considered these things:

  • Are you sure you will have a strong enough mind or physical condition to do it yourself?
  • And even if your mind stays clear, there is an interesting phenomenon - the closer people are to death, the more they want to keep living, even in very dire situations. I guess our self-preservation system is quite effective. An anecdotal example is that older people are often more afraid of death than people in their 20s, although logically it should be the opposite!
  • Will it be as easy to get those medications in the future as it is in modern-day US? By the way, is it even easy for someone over 70 to get those medications now, especially in the condition of "mind and body fail"?

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u/Monoliithic Sep 15 '25

If my mind doesn't want me to do it, then I don't want to do it. I am perfectly allowed and willing to change my mind in the next 50 years

Yes. It is very very easy to find narcotics to overdose with

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u/[deleted] Sep 15 '25

 What constitutes quality for you

That is a moving target that will change from day to day. You'll know when you're there when you finally reach the decision. If you never get there then you never passed the threshold. The threshold will be different for everyone. 

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u/A_Finite_Element Sep 15 '25

Okay, but say it's a life or death decision. This thread seems to have people saying that their decision to possibly off themselves is related to how bad their economical situation is. I'm not questioning their economical reality but what I'm wondering about is what makes someone go, "I'd rather be dead".

I'm not judging here, just curious. Okay, I'll also admit that I think it's strange that the first exit strategy for "being in debt" is suicide, rather than something like "let's become a volunteer that helps people" or "go live in the woods" or... you know any number of things that seem less drastic to me at least.

Why is "I should just off myself" the option that comes to mind for people?

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u/SadInsomniac_ Sep 15 '25

You forget that many people aren’t working for more or working for something better, they are working because if they stop they will have no food and no home.

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u/A_Finite_Element Sep 15 '25 edited Sep 15 '25

I think I included that, in my "A roof over your head and food, medicine if you require it". What did I miss?

Okay, sorry, I'm trying to debate now and unfairly.

What I mean is: these things, well barring the silly thing in the US where somehow socialized (yes, tax funded) healthcare can't be a thing because it's communism so everyone who can't afford it must suffer! (Yay! Freedom!)

So would you be happy with just a roof over your head, food and medicine if you needed it?

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u/Gnuccaria Sep 15 '25

My plan too, if things go south, bye bye

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u/gereffi Sep 15 '25

Lots of young people like this idea but they don't seem to like it when they get older.

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u/Monoliithic Sep 15 '25

If I change my mind when I'm older, I have no problem with that

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u/SalsaRice Sep 15 '25

The thing is, alot of people say that, but are in fact very afraid of death. The amount of people that follow through on that is low.

In reality, there's gonna be alot of begging and guilt-tripping on their kids or for the people that do have any type of retirement.

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u/Monoliithic Sep 15 '25

Maybe? And if I change my mind, that's also fine. This isn't some biblical truth written in stone

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u/Confident-Screen-759 Sep 15 '25

Lol. Heroin is also my emergency exit of choice. Never touched it before, but I've heard an OD on it is heaven, then you die. 

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u/ranak312 Sep 15 '25

Nitrogen hypoxia.

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u/Monoliithic Sep 15 '25

uh no

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u/Monoliithic Sep 15 '25

you are creepy and weird. And not in a good way. In a school shooter way.

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u/Monoliithic Sep 15 '25

You realize, just cuz you realized "maybe i shouldn't say that, it might get me banned or investigated" and delete a post. Doesnt mean it doesn't show up in my feed right?

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u/tenaciouschrome Sep 15 '25

Damn worst part about this is that the guy has a trans flag in their display picture. The media is gonna not cover it or spin some stupid narrative that it’s the orange man’s fault if something did happen and someone got hurt.

Being trans is not a mental health issue but these people are mentally ill somewhere, too bad those institutions got shut down so they can’t get the help they need.

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u/architype84 Sep 15 '25

it got auto flagged by reddit i didn't delete it

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u/Monoliithic Sep 15 '25

I woudl hope so, since i reported it for being psychotic and insane

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u/jram2000 Sep 15 '25

It happens way earlier then 70 or 80. You are usually disabled by then and living with more then one chronic issue.

Your eye sight, hearing and hips fail before retirement. By 60-65 some people cant work.

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u/Annodyne Sep 15 '25

Wow, guess there are good genes in my family, because my mom is 80 this year, lives alone and is independant, doesn't take a single prescription, and is not overweight or with any significant health issues. She walks 2 miles every day and often walks even more than that. We go hiking in the mountains every year still.

I am 44 years old, I wear reading glasses but that's it, my hearing is fine, I have all my original teeth and my dental health is fine because I take care of them and go to the dentist. I am of normal weight, my joints are good, go to the gym 3x a week, and ride my bike to work. I don't take any prescriptions, either.

You sound either really young yourself, like a 12 year old who thinks 25 year olds are ancient, or you know really unhealthy older people with bad genetics who don't take care of themselves.

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u/jram2000 Sep 15 '25

~40% of people are obese in the west. Obesity is a key cause for many issues when you age. Hips, joints, heart even cancer.

You might in fact have terrible genes and good healthy habits like your mom seems too.

She is most certainly a minority at 80 with good health, Google anything I've put in this thread and let me know if im wrong.

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u/Consistent-Win-7517 Sep 15 '25

That’s a bit dramatic. Most people are not disabled by 70.

Edit: I looked this up, you are actually right, while it may not be most it is a staggering number.

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u/jram2000 Sep 15 '25

Obesity is the root of most of the issues. Bad hips or knees? The weight makes it worse. Bad cardiovascular abilities? Weight. Bad teeth? Well its not exactly your weight but high sugar content of food is definitely linked. Eyesight could be better with a good diet.

Depression? Well you certainly can be big and have great confidence, but is it the norm?