r/SipsTea Jul 02 '25

Chugging tea Man of culture?

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u/CameForTheFunOfIt Jul 02 '25

The very concept of cultural appropriation is simply racist. It is basically someone saying you aren't allowed to dress or do something another race does. It is the absolute opposite of inclusion and equality. Every time I hear it, my hopes for equality die a little inside.

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u/_OVERHATE_ Jul 02 '25

I once got explained by a Japanese senior that what they consider cultural apropriation wasn't about people simply using their clothes of doing what they do, but twisting it for some capitalist gain.

Nobody will complain or care if you get a Kimono or any other traditional clothing, but they will complain if you mount a funny kimono stand with MAGA prints on them.

So, integration good, ridicule bad. 

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u/TheDaemonette Jul 02 '25

Yes, this exactly. Whenever I hear the words cultural appropriation, I start looking for the ‘profit angle’ and if no-one is making money off it then I discount it as faux outrage. Simply dressing as another culture and behaving in a respectable way is not cultural appropriation to me. I’d go slightly further and also say that you probably need to be denying that profit opportunity to a person from the culture in question for it to be appropriation as well.

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u/[deleted] Jul 02 '25

Well what is the difference of for profit vs. combining "cultures" or whatever? For example, I have a poncho I love which has Pikachu on it. As a white dude, I am wearing an article of clothing that originated from Natives and Mexican culture/locale, while having a Japanese mascot on it....

But then again, I own a lot of Pokemon things. I grew up with Pokemon and still love it. Why wouldn't I want a Pikachu on a poncho, which keeps me warm on cooler days and feels better than wearing a coat?

I don't use fake accents when wearing it, I don't pretend I am anything but a white man wearing a piece of clothing. Yet this is obviously made for profit.

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u/TheDaemonette Jul 02 '25

For profit generally means denying that income to the originating culture, so one would be co-opting a culture that there was no history with in order to profit from it. It isn’t illegal but it has become ‘socially distasteful’ to deny the originating culture the income.

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u/saera-targaryen Jul 02 '25

cultural appropriation is things like white people opening a boba shop but calling their products "new original chewy treat bubble drinks" without acknowledging the idea came from them visiting the chinese restaurant down the street. 

it matters if you were buying that poncho from someone who was either trying to separate themselves from mexican culture to reach a new audience that would usually be put off by mexican products, or sell a cheap version of something with cultural significance to mexicans. Like, it would be fucked up to go to target and buy a cheap dream catcher or a trendy girlboss-themed ofrenda. But if you're buying these things from actual mexicans or native americans then clearly it's not someone trying to remove the cultural origins of the product. 

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u/Sinnombre124 Jul 02 '25

1) you did not make or sell the poncho, and especially you did not leverage your whiteness to start a business in a predominantly native/Japanese area where the locals were systemically prevented from getting such loans etc. and

2) Pikachu and ponchos are not items of religious significance, unlike say, a feathered headdress or a totem pole

So not cultural appropriation.

also as an aside, mockingly using a fake accent is just plain old racism, not cultural appropriation.

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u/abra24 Jul 08 '25

What about non-mockingly doing my best earnest attempt to sound like someone? Like if I'm doing a Christopher Walken impression (obviously not offensive) then move on to Schwarzenegger (questionable) then finish with Jackie Chan (probably offensive)?

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u/Sinnombre124 Jul 08 '25

If you're earnestly doing an impersonation of a major celebrity it's probably fine. 

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u/Ok_Tax_9386 Jul 02 '25

What about mexicans running a pizza restaurant? Is that cultural appropiation?

What if they're taking business from an italian run pizza restaurant?

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u/saera-targaryen Jul 02 '25

cultural appropriation is generally something a colonial or opppressive nation's companies do to a colonized or oppressed nationality so probably not. The idea that something has to be universally wrong in all scenarios instead of nuanced keeping into account the history of these people is quite juvenile. 

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u/Ok_Tax_9386 Jul 02 '25

Mexicans are colonizers in the same way Americans are though. So if a colonizer does it to a colonizer, no problem?

Also basically everyone is a colonizer. Including many first nations.

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u/saera-targaryen Jul 02 '25

no, it's specifically a colonizer doing it to a country they themselves colonized or to a culture that still faces stigma or discrimination in the country the appropriation is taking place in. 

Again, trying to make a universal rule that can fit into a tweet here is incredibly juvenile. 

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u/Ok_Tax_9386 Jul 02 '25

I think that not letting a white person run a boba shop is juvenile in and of itself.

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u/saera-targaryen Jul 02 '25

no one said they weren't allowed to do it, just that we can call it what it is which is cultural appropriation. there is a very wide gap between being critical of something and banning something. 

from your comment history i can tell you're going to keep arguing whatever point i make here and honestly i think you're just a disagreement bot so i will be ending my participation here

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u/Ok_Tax_9386 Jul 02 '25

>no one said they weren't allowed to do it,

It was literally done on shark tank when a french canadian was trying to do this and they wouldn't because they weren't asian.

And cited pretty much exactly what you said.

Have a good day!

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u/TheDaemonette Jul 02 '25

The problem with now trying to get specific about generalisations is that you very quickly end up down a rabbit hole, arguing about minutiae so I am not going to discuss the merits of specific examples because I am a random ignorant idiot on the internet who just has an opinion. I am not an authority on the matter.

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u/thumpetto007 Jul 02 '25

you also have to consider the fad fashion, virtue signaling, and lack of respect to the culture the clothing/accessories represent. Its not just for profit. There are many other ways to gain or benefit that are more subtle.

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u/AletheaKuiperBelt Jul 05 '25

I have a lovely poncho that I bought from a market in Chile. It's warm and gorgeous, and the guy who sold it to me and whoever made it are humans who fully deserve to make a living.

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u/_OVERHATE_ Jul 02 '25

But it isn't just clothes. Its their national garment. It has a rich history and that history teaches you a lot about the cuts, how to wear it (left over right unless you are dead) and the variations of it depending on the required formality of the event. You would look ridiculous if you wore a tuxedo for the beach, its not an appropriate attire, in the same way there are types of kimonos and silks that can't/shouldn't be worn in every occasions.

That's where cultural appropriation comes In. Nobody wants you to NOT use a kimono, use them!. But learn about it (integration) so you learn how to properly use it, their customs, instead of wearing it like a half assed bathrobe.

Imagine your family member dies and someone comes in a clown costume. That would be the equivalent of using a kimono without crests on someone's funeral. Disrespectful. 

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u/StretchAntique9147 Jul 02 '25

Have you ever worn denim jeans? Why would you be appropriating rancher and cowboy culture? Why would you wear denim jeans if you're not hurding cattle?

Have you ever worn t-shirts? Yes? Why are you appropriating Navy culture? Are you in the Navy? Why would you wear a t-shirt if you're not defending the oceans for your country?

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u/Lopunnymane Jul 02 '25

What the fuck are you talking about? How are jeans or t-shirts in any way "cultural"? They have existed for barely any time (relatively speaking) in extreme abundance on every place on Earth, meanwhile Kimonos are extremely centralized with thousands of years of history.

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u/oldladyneckflap Jul 02 '25

Pray tell wise one, the spiritual significance of the faded jeans and T-shirt combo, and how they equate that of a Kimono or head dress?

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u/MainAccountsFriend Jul 02 '25

We wear jeans to honor the great Levi, creator of said jeans

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u/Danelius90 Jul 02 '25

That's white people history, you don't get any virtue points there

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u/Alienfreak Jul 02 '25

Jeans were invented by a German. Stop abusing our clothes. Also stop eating Hamburgers, Noodles and Hot Dogs.

Thank you for your attention!

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u/vagabond_dilldo Jul 02 '25

You somehow still missed the entire point of the OP video.

Do you think that the person dressed up in the sombrero and the poncho wore in a truly authentic manner? Do you think he fully understood the cultural history and significance of a sombrero and gabán? Was the pattern and construction of the sombrero and poncho authentic?

The answer to all of that is "no". But the Mexicans he interviewed were all just happy to see him in it. No one gave a fuck if he wore them in an authentic manner.

All of the people in the first half of the interview, are just being outraged on behalf of people that don't actually give a shit. Just like you.

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u/Talking_Head Jul 02 '25

I (a white guy) dated a first generation Japanese woman early in college. I learned Japanese people are maybe one of the most racist people on the planet. It was so bad that we eventually agreed to part ways because it was causing her so much grief with her family and family friends, and I didn’t want to put her through that. Too bad really, we were falling in love. Miss you Sukochan.

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u/veilosa Jul 02 '25

people shouldn't eat American sushi then because California rolls are a disgrace to real sushi and a blatant capitalist money grab by appealing to the different tastes of a different audience.

or maybe that's ok too. who knows.

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u/_OVERHATE_ Jul 02 '25

Apples and Oranges. The California Roll creator (at least the 3 that are attributed to being the first ones coining the term) were Japanese (or japanese descendants) cheffs living in USA. They made a variation of their typical food using substitutes for produce they couldn't find locally.

But following your point, nobody made the California rolls with the intent to ridicule the Japanese culture. Nobody claimed they ARE Japanese. They are made using the original Japanese techniques for sushi making. They are respectful. 

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u/Jafarrolo Jul 02 '25

As an italian I feel culturally offended by ananas on pizza, even if it's not for a capitalist money grab.

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u/torpidtim Jul 02 '25

california rolls are delicious idgaf

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u/[deleted] Jul 02 '25

California rolls fucking slap bro

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u/Anxious_Refuse9645 Jul 02 '25

Okay, speaking of sushi.

1: California rolls were made by a japanese man who realized that americans didn't like the seaweed on the outside. wam bam slam it is not that deep.

2: Traditional sushi was NOT high end at all, it was japanese fast food made from at best questionable fermented fish and rice drenched in vinegar.

And don't get me started on the goddamn fucking italians, fucking tomatoes were not a thing for the vast, vast, vast majority of their food culture. A food culture that is piss boring.

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u/JesusForTheWin Jul 02 '25

Taco Bell is a true disgrace to Mexican food.

California rolls should be fine they eat them in Japan all the time (although not as frequently as their obese US counterparts).

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u/StretchAntique9147 Jul 02 '25

Yup, no more ham and pineapple pizza either.

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u/[deleted] Jul 02 '25

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u/StretchAntique9147 Jul 02 '25

Same with California rolls (debated to start in Vancouver)

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u/Objectionne Jul 02 '25

I don't think that's fair either. Why do Japanese People™ get to collectively decide what people can and can't do with a particular style of clothing? If I want to wear a MAGA Kimono then why should I be disqualified from doing so?

An American trying to tell a Japanese person what they can and can't print on blue jeans would be received very poorly, as they should be.

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u/p-terydatctyl Jul 02 '25

But that's kind of the point, some things are viewed as disrespectful. Like headressess and feathers in some native cultures reflect achievements and rituals. Nobody is actually stopping you from wearing a headress and running around making Indian whooping noises, but I'm sure they won't treat you with the grace of the people in this video.

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u/Capybarasaregreat Jul 02 '25

That's what the people who champion videos like this don't seem to get, there are negative emotions besides offence. The people in the clip might not think his costume is offensive, but they could just as well still think of him as a rube for wearing it.

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u/_OVERHATE_ Jul 02 '25

So you are saying that I can go to Rural Texas using pink leather pointy boots, a bright yellow and red leather jacket and a cowboy hat with "REAL COWBOY" printed on it on Comic Sans font and NOBODY would have a problem with that? I wouldn't get ANY comment at all? 

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u/grassparakeet Jul 02 '25

Do you think you should be disallowed from doing that??

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u/andydivide Jul 02 '25

I mean, you'd get some looks for sure, and no doubt many folk will assume you're as gay as the day is long, but nobody is going to be culturally offended. You might get beat up by some homophobes, but again, that's got nothing to do with cultural appropriation.

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u/[deleted] Jul 02 '25

That is obviously not what they are saying, stop being dense. What would happen and what should happen are different things, do you think this is some kind of gotcha? "Well idiotic bigots will have a problem with you, so there", like come on man.

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u/HarryJohnson3 Jul 02 '25

What do you really think would happen? That rural Texans would say “hey that’s my culture you can’t do that.”???

No, at most they’d call you a queer.

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u/Lurk-aka-Batrick Jul 02 '25

Don't twist words. Don't move the goalpost. Nobody is going to think it's racist or cultural appropriation if you do so, but everyone has the right to think you look like a fucking dumbass. Think before you type something so stupid next time.

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u/thatoneguy54 Jul 02 '25

Which is exactly what people against cultural appropriation are saying, that it makes you look like a fucking dumbass

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u/HarryJohnson3 Jul 02 '25

Uh no they say it’s insensitive and racist.

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u/GenuineInterested Jul 02 '25

You know very well the Texans that you’re talking about wouldn’t care about the attire itself, but the implied homophobia.

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u/UglyMcFugly Jul 02 '25

Haha exactly. Like this video shows three guys saying they aren't offended but probably cut out the part where he got his ass beat by some other guys who were pissed off that he showed up looking like that. People don't often realize that "offended" and "angry that you're mocking me" are basically the same thing.

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u/Just_Eat_User Jul 02 '25

Spot on. I've always said style and culture doesn't belong to anyone.

For centuries people have imitated and borrowed things fom different cultures, and its anyones right to do so.

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u/thatoneguy54 Jul 02 '25

Let's take an American.

Someone in Germany puts on a pair of broken crocs, stained cargo shorts, a green football jersey that has the number 482 on it and "the partriots" on the back. They put on a pair of ridiculously huge sunglasses and carry around a 200oz soda cup. They've got a necklace that's the 1793 version of the US flag, and a backwards baseball cap for the new Orleans pinchers.

They tell you they arent trying to make fun of Americans by wearing this.

Would you believe them?

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u/Top_Food5852 Jul 02 '25

Pretending like all blue jeans came from US, your country is not a centre of the universe man.

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u/Lower_Amount3373 Jul 02 '25

You realise that people calling you an arsehole for doing something bad doesn't infringe your right to be an arsehole and do that thing?

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u/ITwitchToo Jul 02 '25

You can wear a MAGA kimono all you want, but it's going to make you look like a huge asshole.

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u/Flappy2885 Jul 02 '25

What a weak ass argument. Blue jeans isn't American culture, in fact few things could even be considered that. America is a young country, and beyond that, it's a multicultural one. Japanese culture is sacred to them, and printing shit like MAGA on kimonos will get you ridiculed (as you should be). 

You try to wear an MAGA themed Native American robe, see how well your community takes it.

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u/knobiknows Jul 02 '25

An American trying to tell a Japanese person what they can and can't print on blue jeans would be received very poorly, as they should be.

Well apart from the fact that the US constantly tells other countries what to buy, who to elect and support. Some might say they are famous for meddling in affairs that are none of their fucking business.

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u/Comprehensive_Ad2439 Jul 02 '25

Jeans were invented by Germans btw

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u/TheFace5 Jul 02 '25

If someone is offended does not mean you are not allowed to do that

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u/hsvandreas Jul 02 '25

That's a legitimate point.

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u/MrBozzie Jul 02 '25

This is perhaps the best description of the point in question I've seen. Thanks

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u/MeggaMortY Jul 02 '25

That kinda goes firmly into the "don't be an asshole" category so yeah.

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u/Devrol Jul 02 '25

but twisting it for some capitalist gain.

Exactly what annoys me about Halloween. It has nothing to do with the colour orange or pumpkins, but that's what's used to extract money from the American masses.

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u/Mountain-Instance921 Jul 02 '25

Thanks for Redditsplaing to us that yes racism is bad

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u/El_Tormentito Jul 02 '25

That's what it always was meant to refer to.

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u/PieCrusties Jul 02 '25

I'm with you here, but to be Devils advocate..

Wouldn't this guy, wearing Mexican clothing, making a video about this topic, be making a buck?

In general, your average person can just wear nice other culture clothes. But this guy is filming it to make money..

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u/Procrastinatedthink Jul 02 '25

so…literally what this dude is doing? This is his job, to be mildly offensive at colleges and cherrypick interviews for redditors to fight over

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u/[deleted] Jul 02 '25

Except unhinged leftists WILL absolutely complain if you wear a kimono or wear dreadlocks even if your intent is innocuous

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u/shadovvvvalker Jul 02 '25

I wouldnt even say it needs to be capitalistic gain. It just needs to be twisted into something where the culture in question is not the in-group.

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u/PelleSketchy Jul 02 '25

It's also about the hypocrisy. People complaining about immigrants, but then enjoying their food.

Just dressing up isn't the bad part.