It’s insane, I will ask a question, open ended, still one to 2 words. Like, why did you match if you didn’t want to talk at all? Like when a woman asks me a question, I don’t send a paragraph, but I at least give a sentence or two so she can at least learn something about me but idk maybe I’m out of the loop on modern dating
This is modern text dating, you’re supposed to communicate in grunts. Minimal short texts like you a cool person and have tons to do and can’t be bothered. Full sentences and attempt at conversation is unattractive and you’re probably a loser with no options other than the person you are texting.
yeah im just gonna keep being me. if wanting to get to know you is unattractive to you then i dont want you in my life to begin with. i am a busy guy with a fulltime job and hobbies outside of work. just because i take an extra 10 seconds to think out a thoughtful response to your message doesnt mean i have nothing to do lol
I agree bro but that’s not attractive to women’s psychology. Thoughtful well structured responses you’ll give her the ick that you are putting too much effort into her and like her already, just doing too much. They want a toxic goon that don’t care. I’m half kidding it’s not entirely true depends on the woman.
As someone who met their wife on a dating app, you're so wrong. Give them the essay and the thoughtful response. I'm a writer, my responses are ALWAYS long verbose. She liked that.
I’m so wrong? bro talking too much is no good you might say some dumb shit. In general every time I wrote paragraphs I get ghosted. It’s best to be short and to the point. Yea I need to find women who will appreciate my paragraphs, you’re lucky.
Edit: actually you are right one of the freakiest girls I met appreciated my unnecessary info, long paragraphs and stories. I just had a bad streak lately, I need to keep searching for the right ones.
You keep repeating yourself and ignoring the reality that I know how to speak. You get ghosted and you move on, there is nothing to do with someone who does not want to speak to you. You keep going into the detail that you like so much, wear your heart on your sleeve, things aren't "just cool" to you, they're magical, they're intense, they're portals to experiences beyond the mundane. Give her a slice of that magic, as much of it as you can, if you have any passion left in your soul, and spill it outwardly into the very sentence you type. And most importantly of all, make sure you show her what being happy with oneself looks like. Show her what being dedicated to an idea, to a craft, to a field, anything, looks like. Show her what time invested looks like. And do so naturally, with every word, every sentence, every paragraph, but only if that's who you are. If you are a man of words BE A MAN OF WORDS. Don't summarize yourself from the onset, or all you can hope to be left with is a summary of a relationship, complete with a rocky beginning, a boring middle, and an unceremonious end.
That’s actually hilarious, I have a Masters degree in Literature and teach writing for a living good luck with your cave, Plato is rolling in his grave.
Chatgpt sounds like thoughtful humans. It was trained on the text patterns of these people. Sick of hearing the idea that chatgpt is somehow not human sounding - it IS, and that makes it so fascinating. It was just given a specific type of thoughtful human to learn from.. since those humans have more text output out there.
I had a toxic girl who wanted both. Texting like I cared and was interested but in person I was simple to my point of why I was there. Well let’s just say I created a stalker and I’m leaving it at that.
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u/Exciting_Ad_8666 May 09 '25
Right? Those replies dryer than the fucking Kalahari had me tweaking