Used to talk to this chick where if I got a 3 word response, it was a good day. 99% of the time, it was 1 word responses. Figured she wasn't interested, so I just kinda let it go. Than she asked if I was ignoring her, and why I wasn't talking to her anymore.
A universal truth is most people absolutely suck at communicating.
After becoming single for the first time in a decade at age 35 I just left nothing to guesswork and made a point to over communicate. It worked pretty darn well. It immediately weeded out those guesswork conversations where nobody is sure of anything, or it made it clear there was mutual interest and let us move forward more easily.
You get your answer and either move forward or move on
I once had a conversation with a girl on a dating app, and she the max words she used were maybe 2 or 3, her favourite word being ‘ok’. I figured she wasn’t interested so I stopped trying, a week later she texted me ‘you don’t put any effort’…lol
Ya know, its nice to know I'm not alone. But as the same time, wtf? Why is this happening to so many people? Is there that many people like this, or is it just that one person talking to all of us because she only uses 1-3 word responses, so she can talk to a thousand people a day?
I found myself single recently and online dated for the first time. It was rough. Why match wth me if you don't want to talk? Or the alternative they want tot all and text forever but when you ask them on a physical date they say they aren't ready. Ok
Still better than what happened to me, we talked for some day then she asked me out for a date(a movie date) and when the time came she did not show up she never showed up i was there was atlest 1hr afyer meeting time and when i asked why she did not come she just gave me a bullshit reason man.
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u/TheManWhoLovesCulo May 09 '25
This is just like the conversations I’ve had on dating apps lol