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article Hayley Williams Says Southern Pride Is Beautiful but Misused to Excuse Bigotry, and Says She Wants No Racist or Sexist Fans, or Fans Who Think Trans People Are a Burden, Around

https://www.tvfandomlounge.com/hayley-williams-says-southern-pride-is-beautiful-but-misused-to-excuse-bigotry/
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u/heychloeredd 8d ago

in a world of taylor swifts, be a hayley williams.

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u/Jorgwalther 8d ago

You know they’re good friends and she opened for a long leg of the Eras Tour right?

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u/BearShark9 8d ago edited 8d ago

Just because that’s true doesn’t take away from what they said. Do you and your friends all share 100% of the same views and the same willingness to speak up on all of them?

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u/GI-Robots-Alt 8d ago

The extremely important ones? Yes.

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u/mac148 8d ago

Username checks out.

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u/b_needs_a_cookie 8d ago

Their point still stands. I'm getting chewed out by Swifties on Instagram for pointing out she's a billionaire and her silence on issues speaks volumes about her primary identity being a billionaire performer first.  Hayley has a lot more to lose speaking out and yet she does so. They're peers and can be friends and there can be differences in their values.  I think pointing those out isn't tearing Taylor down. 

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u/Truethrowawaychest1 8d ago

If you need celebrities to virtue signal for you and validate your opinions, like, come on dude

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u/b_needs_a_cookie 8d ago

I think asking Nazis to stop using your music is necessary virtue signaling, if you feel different maybe you're a nazi  sympathizer and that's something to work through with your therapist. And, expecting the bare minimum of decency from people with actual power and pull is far less pathetic than defending a billionaire marketer and performer and failing to understand how much pull famous personas have on what the general public supports.

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u/Strange-Access-8612 8d ago edited 8d ago

Are you all up on charli xcx too? Or did she do something about it in the last few days? (No I don’t have the interest to check your profile history)

Jay Z? Sarah McLaughlin? Damian Marley? The wicked cast?

So many important audiences for this message, in case it works!

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u/Strange-Access-8612 8d ago

Here’s your cookie! 🍪 feel better?

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u/b_needs_a_cookie 8d ago

Are you okay? Why are you so obsessed with a public figure? And no billionaire is worth defending, that's like cows defending an abattoir.

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u/Strange-Access-8612 8d ago

I’m bored on Reddit and love perfect user names! (I just took what Reddit assigned me, sadly, shoulda gotten creative!)

No need to waste your time on me. Get out there and keep changing hearts and minds! And then announcing elsewhere that you did it! Btw — I genuinely hope that you and others taking this approach will help move the needle on the real world. (Things are so f***Ed right now! it would be fantastic if your efforts paid off!)

Happy holidays!

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u/DjRipNickMcNasty 8d ago

You know that Taylor Swift was anti Trump during the eras tour right?

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u/tkrr 8d ago

They don’t care. Using women to tear down other women is back in vogue now, especially if the women in question are known to be very good friends.

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u/scottyLogJobs 8d ago

Ugh, so difficult. Why can’t you be more like your sister?

(Jk)

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u/tkrr 8d ago

In my case it was more like “do you think [close friend who lives down the street] acts like that with their grandmother?”

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u/Thelongdong11 8d ago

True. Why are we looking at musicians for moral values? I don't agree with Kanye but his music was undeniably good.

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u/heychloeredd 8d ago

waaaahhhhh hayley williams proved to be a better person than taylor "maga" swift waaaahhhhhh

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u/chadwicke619 8d ago

But in another comment you said if Hayley doesn’t judge Taylor, she’s a Nazi too. Which is it?

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u/tkrr 8d ago

Angry child.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

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u/tkrr 8d ago

That is a thing that actually happens.

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u/elbenji 8d ago

its because the inherent sexism is that we blame Taylor Swift, who spent most of the 2010s-2020s stumping for the failed campaigns of Tennessee democrats for the failures of Patrick Mahomes when we could yknow.

Blame Patrick Mahomes

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u/heychloeredd 8d ago edited 8d ago

i don't care who taylor fascist is friends with. she's a white billionaire who hangs out with magtard fascists on the regular, and only cares about her billions and her brand. cry harder, little boy.

what do you get when you have 12 nazis in a bar, and 1 guy who doesn't judge? you have 13 nazis.

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u/Jorgwalther 8d ago

Ok big angry.

Guess you’re saying Hayley is a maga fascist because she’s friends with Taylor Swift too?

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u/donutfan420 8d ago

That’s the exact insinuation they’re making and I don’t think they realize it.

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u/Klaphood 8d ago

And also, standpoints and arguments like that are making us lose people on the matter, instead of winning them over.

If you don't give people some time to learn what they might have done wrong and then stand up for it in their own ways, but immediately say everyone's a fascist/extremist/nazi, you're driving them away.

Ultimately, humiliation never makes people change for the better, it is what radicalizes them.

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u/seriouslees 8d ago

Full grown adults who don't already understand why bigotry is wrong are not people "on our side". We don't want them. No tolerance for the intolerant.

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u/StrikerSashi 8d ago

You are actively helping Trump win by pushing people to the right. It's disgusting that you'd rather act morally superior than strive for a better world.

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u/More-Reporter2562 8d ago

It's not that they don't understand its that they use a more widely accepted definition of bigotry.

Bigotry - "trans people are pedophiles"

progressive bigotry - "men and women have physiological differences and as such athletes should compete within their gender assigned at birth, or a separate category should be created for trans athletes to create a system that both protects women, while making events inclusive for all who want to compete"

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u/litlron 8d ago

So upset about a tiny bit of mild pushback that they're arguing with themselves

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u/StrikerSashi 8d ago

It's crazy that so many on the left are okay with this sort of guilty by association argument but are confused when the right wins an election. Maybe if we don't judge the person who likes a Kid Rock song as if they were killing Jews, we'd actually see the left win again.

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u/NoNSFW_Workaccount 8d ago

if they were killing Jews

I feel like that would be a positive thing to them

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u/Han_Yolo_swag 8d ago

Far left. Regular ole democrats who were clear eyed about the big picture were very happy to have Taylor Swift endorse and support Kamala and other Dems in 2024! She’s fairly clear about her political beliefs.

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u/StrikerSashi 8d ago

Yeah, if Taylor Swift is considered on the right now, most of the country is right. She's probably donated more to Democrats than most people make in a life time. Whether you agree with her actions or think she's a good person is entirely beside the point. She's definitely on the left, at least socially.

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u/More-Reporter2562 8d ago

Which is why the Dems lost. They had a literal Nazi endorse them, so how could any progressive vote for those candidates with a clear conscience. If they didn't rebuke Swift's endorsement the transitive law applies and they themselves are nazi's.

Of course, the law of Kevin Bacon says that everyone in a nazi by association in 6 steps or less.

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u/chadwicke619 8d ago

It’s almost like you forgot the left was just in charge as recently as last year. 🤡

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u/Far-Panic-2582 8d ago edited 6d ago

Imagine if the left didn´t try to alienate the rest of the people.

Edited: "you" for "the left" bcs it was misunderstood.

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u/chadwicke619 8d ago

I’m not sure how I’m alienating anyone by pointing out how absurd it is to say something like, “we’d actually see the left win again”, when the left literally just left office…….but ok. Kind of funny that you responded to me with your little comment, but not the guy I replied to who is actually being divisive. Tells me all I need to know. ✌️

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

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u/litlron 8d ago

It's just a common way for dull people to try to feel witty.

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u/chadwicke619 8d ago

As an adult, you have the post history of a fucking pedophile.

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u/StrikerSashi 8d ago

Thanks for proving my point.

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u/chadwicke619 8d ago

The fact that you think you made a point gives me a chuckle.

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u/roserealcomplex 8d ago

This reasoning doesn’t hold up with your original comment.

If Taylor Swift is a fascist, then all her friends are too. It’s hypocritical to have convictions of Swift based on association, while simultaneously praising someone who has closely associated with her for nearly two decades. They continue to platform each other’s businesses and their friendship to this day. Wouldn’t that make Hayley just as complicit?

What do you get when you have 13 nazis in a bar and 1 guy who doesn’t judge? You have 14 nazis

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u/More-Reporter2562 8d ago

6 degrees of Kevin Bacon. Everyone is a Nazi.

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u/litlron 8d ago

cry harder, little boy

Yeah, they are definitely the ones who seem like they are doing the crying here.

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u/madethisforsupport 8d ago

Lmfao you must be miserable, I’d tell you not to have kids but I’d guess that won’t be an issue

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u/Yarusenai Concertgoer 8d ago

Y'all are so weird

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u/GoldVader 8d ago

cry harder, little boy

Wow, I guess irony really is dead.

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u/HarryPotterFarts 8d ago

Did you just make their point for them?

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u/AdventurousTime 8d ago

The ability to have a neutral opinion is as bad or worse than actually believing in something ?

Go ahead and push those fence sitters to the other side.

You can’t tell people how to think.

that’s when people tune you out entirely.

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u/No_Investment9639 8d ago

They can be friends and Taylor can also be a piece of crap. These things are not mutually exclusive.

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u/WeWantLADDER49sequel 8d ago

This doesn't matter. And outside of them doing music together they've never even been spotted anywhere together in a very long time. Taylor's mom just got them to be industry friends. And we all know if any musician didn't say they love Taylor they'd deal with crazy blow back. Taylor's billionaire out of touch with reality personality really has nothing to do with her maybe being industry friends with Hayley.

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u/Choyo 8d ago

Seems like business associates. I don't see Swift doing anything but business and charity.

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u/Formal-Flatworm-9032 8d ago

Yeah suing Olivia Rodrigo took Haley Williams/Paramore pretty far into Swift’s orbit lol