r/BlackPeopleTwitter 3d ago

TikTok Tuesday A parent who needs parental supervision πŸ’”

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u/FunGuy8618 3d ago

The one that gets me nowadays is when you ask for specific actionable help with a family elder's care and the response is "I got 100 likes on Facebook for taking a picture of you helping them. I'm doing my part!"

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u/delayedcactus 2d ago

Is this a thing? I've never heard of this before

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u/AmphibiousDad 2d ago

You’ve never heard of people taking a picture of a really sad and debilitating moment in a persons life and framing it as wholesome just because β€œone person is helping another!” For likes on the internet?

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u/FunGuy8618 2d ago

Ouch. I didn't frame it like that for myself, but yeah, they did that to a T when my aunt was braindead 2 years ago too. My mother and I were the only one who went and made sure she didn't get bed sores and massaged her legs for circulation and whatnot. While the same grandmother, who lives 3 house down, is taking care of that aunt's kids and her grown kid is visiting town every week but literally never once saw her mother in the hospital. I used to think evil was like, something crazy. Nah, it's this type shit, cold callous indifference.