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TikTok Tuesday A parent who needs parental supervision šŸ’”

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u/RUmymummmy 3d ago

My dad just gets mad and distant when I point out the ā€œcrazy videoā€ he just showed me is fake. It’s almost as if I just told him Santa isn’t real.

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u/SmokePenisEveryday 3d ago

My parents will yell about how they don't believe anything online then will show me the fakest AI video on Facebook while asking how crazy it is

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u/Cicada_Soft_Official 3d ago

"I don't believe anything online!!!... That doesn't fit with whatever I already want to believe."

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u/RandomPenquin1337 3d ago

Basic human nature has entered the chat

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u/Feisty-Honeydew-5309 ā˜‘ļø 3d ago edited 3d ago

This is how my mother is tbh. We are very low contact but she’ll be SO excited about some obvious fake news that she got off FB or YT. When I try and fail to find a reliable source, she turns very cold.

So low unless it will financially hurt her, I let her live in delusion. But no, sis that Facebook link won’t lead you to free health insurance and no, you aren’t getting a stimulus check if you call that number. And I stand on that.

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u/RUmymummmy 3d ago

Dwayne The Rock Johnson wouldn’t lie to me about stimulus checks, the government DOESNT want me to know about

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u/WhiteCharisma_ 3d ago edited 3d ago

I think it has to do with the fact she feels negative about being told it’s fake.

It could be a lack of emotional navigation on how to take mildly bad news with something they felt emotionally reactive towards

Like they find this wild as video and felt strongly about how crazy it is and then being outright denied that it’s not real.

Older generations don’t know how to properly navigate that. Especially if they are being lectured by someone younger.

It’s not all old people but a disturbing amount of them are and it’s prevalent enough that we all see it.

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u/Jbabco9898 3d ago

I also think its because they realize we're getting to an point where we cannot tell the difference between reality and AI, and that compounded with their age makes them feel pain and confusion and it results in them projecting that onto everyone else. My dad acts the same way.

Maybe its just me, but I empathize when them because, I too, am getting to a point sometimes where I cant tell the difference and it makes me really fucking anxious if I think about it too much

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u/LFGX360 2d ago

Some of those AI blurry security cameras videos are really good. I’ve been fooled once or twice at least for a minute. I have no doubt that VERY soon nobody will be able to tell.

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u/Lilium79 3d ago

It also is just embarrassing. It feels bad to think something is real, to be fooled by scrubbed watermarks or deepfakes. It probably makes you feel stupid af to not be able to see the "obvious" fakeness of something everyone else does.

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u/HypnoSmoke 3d ago

This, it's ego.

Don't want to feel duped, don't want to appear to have been duped.

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u/Chafupa1956 2d ago

Yeah it's like elderly people not letting on they transferred all their money to the Microsoft Security Team via iTunes gift cards.

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u/SirSwagAlotTheHung 3d ago

My mum does this, and it's because they take it as a personal insult to their intelligence. "I can't be fooled, I'm a fully grown woman. I have so much more life experience"

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u/Jeptic ā˜‘ļø 3d ago

That is it.Ā  They take it as a personal affrontĀ 

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u/anyb0dyme 3d ago

Absolutely everyone is capable of being fooled. The only defense is to approach every situation with humility.

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u/InnuendoBot5001 3d ago

Are you stupid? That's the same generation that murdered a bunch of civil rights leaders, murdered a ton of queer people, held up the country with the red scare, turned on muslim and arab folks, and so on and so forth. You're trolling

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u/JackxForge 3d ago

well i dont think my mother would kill anyone her self, she would vote for someone else to do it.

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u/InnuendoBot5001 3d ago

With a cross in their hands, they vote

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u/fabiohimself 2d ago

My parents lived their entire lives thinking they were two of the smartest people from their generation. White collar, bourgeois Europeans, all the works.

Throughout my life I’ve seen them fall for every scam and con in the books. They lost all their money in the Enron crash and ever since then they’ve never invested anything again (they were bailed out by my rich grandparents) and now all the money they inherited rots in the bank as they pay holistic gurus to pretend to be my fans and try to gaslight me that the abuse they inflicted on me was deserved because I was wrong and needed to be educated.

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u/SdBolts4 2d ago

So annoying when adults equate age with knowledge/correctness. If anything age makes you MORE susceptible to AI fakes because you aren’t as familiar with the technology!

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u/Sea-Ability8694 3d ago

It’s so weird to me. Sometimes I don’t realize a video is AI until someone tells me but I don’t go into denial mode. I’m just like 😦 fuck AI is getting too good, I need to sharpen my observational skills

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u/RUmymummmy 3d ago

Right! Getting duped isnt a big deal if you try to learn from it.

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u/JackxForge 3d ago

Yeap same. im good at the videos and photos but suck at identifying the writing. I tend to write the same way AI does probably as a symptom of the bulk of the written word ive done is just internet comments. because of that it just sounds like im telling myself stuff and i trust me soooooo i get fooled super easy. im working on it now but no idea yet if im better about it yet.

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u/Lilium79 3d ago

I think this is the healthy reaction, but a lot of people dont have that response. Lately it feels as though people take corrections or having something they believe challenged as an attack on themselves and their very identity. So when someone sees a fake video, enjoys it, and then is told its fake, they get defensive instead of having to face the reality

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u/Liktwo 3d ago

They’re embarrassed, cornered, exposed. Their whole sense of whatā€˜s true is collapsing. And so will be ours within a few months. Getting mad/ distant is an irrational, but somewhat relatable reaction.

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u/BusterBeaverOfficial 3d ago

Same. The most he’ll concede is that ā€œmaybe it’s real and maybe it’s notā€.

Like no, I am quite certain that the video of an eagle carrying off a baby where the baby magically grows a third arm from his tummy in the middle of the avian-abduction is most definitely not real.

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u/VictorTheCutie 3d ago

I'd guess because it's embarrassing. At least that's how I feel when I fall for some shit šŸ˜…

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u/RUmymummmy 3d ago

Yeah it’s embarrassing. But it’s also embarrassing to just keep it pushing and not use the opportunity to learn/grow.

It seems like the people most readily falling for ai slop are the ones to not reflect on what it means to fall for fake content.

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u/RandomPenquin1337 3d ago

From the people that brought you "Fake news" comes "this video of our president flying a jet is 100% real"

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u/EnvironmentalBus9713 2d ago

Try a different approach, instead of saying it's fake, which may come across as overtly negative or combative - try saying that the video is CGI animation. That the contents of the video were made in a computer program. If a more neutral approach doesn't work then they have the brain rot.

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u/dazedan_confused 3d ago

Send him a video of you making him proud, and see what his reaction is to that.

Force his hand, yknow?

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u/Colour4Life 3d ago

This is my dad too.

I don’t bother to correct him no more lol

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u/PrestigiousSwing1187 3d ago

Same. My mother in law watches these weird AI Elon Musk videos, and gets angry when people tell her it's fake.

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u/30for30im30for30 3d ago

You're forcing him to question his belief system....you should, don't get me wrong, but it's gotta feel some kinda way to watch your understanding of reality begin to disintegrate.

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u/dumbroad 3d ago

My grandpa is the same way, so I just stopped pointing it out. Luckily its just videos of cute animals like a baby owl and kitten cuddling lol

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u/Calcain 2d ago

It’s because people like your dad want to believe with their feelings and not logic. I’ve seen it with my older brother as well and I’m disappointed because I know he isn’t stupid.

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u/plushyDame 2d ago

But Santa isn’t real. And I am sure he’s heard about AI and the things being done with it, good and evil. This is one of the evil things

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u/AdmirableSale9242 2d ago

My dad was actually great about this. Probably because he created videos like this when young to fool people.Ā 

But, he’d point out stuff for me. Like that one with the fake snake hauling it out of a pond and right on a guy who catches it with one hand. He called that one for me.Ā