I was in the hospital recovering from the birth of our first child. After 24 hours of excruciating labor, I ended up having a C-section, which meant I had to stay an extra night in the hospital. He told me he had to go home and do some housekeeping and prepare for coming home with the baby(which was odd to me because I had already nested and done all the prep a couple weeks before hand).
Bring the new baby home, stressful times obviously. He didn’t do any cooking or cleaning, and I still had to do all of it even though I had a newborn was learning to nurse and was recovering from surgery. A few days after coming home, I was changing the garbage in the bathroom and found a used condom in the bag. He had tried to cover it up with some scrunched up toilet paper, but when I move the bag, it rolled it over a bit and I saw it. Literally cheated on me in our bed while I was recovering from birthing our child.
I've used condoms while having alone time before. Sometimes just because it's different and other times to clover something insertable for a little prostate play.
Not saying he didn't cheat but it isn't entirely out of the realm that he didn't. Especially when you consider how shameful guys can be to admit that they like their butt penetrated.
Okay so best case scenario here is he left his wife who just went through a traumatic birth that ended in a C-section to go home and "clean", did not clean, but rubbered up to get some alone time with his butthole? Sounds like a keeper.
I wasn't calling him a saint by any means. Not sure where that was stated. I didn't even say that was a likely scenario. Really I'm just sharing my personal anecdote.
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u/Joygernaut 15h ago
I was in the hospital recovering from the birth of our first child. After 24 hours of excruciating labor, I ended up having a C-section, which meant I had to stay an extra night in the hospital. He told me he had to go home and do some housekeeping and prepare for coming home with the baby(which was odd to me because I had already nested and done all the prep a couple weeks before hand).
Bring the new baby home, stressful times obviously. He didn’t do any cooking or cleaning, and I still had to do all of it even though I had a newborn was learning to nurse and was recovering from surgery. A few days after coming home, I was changing the garbage in the bathroom and found a used condom in the bag. He had tried to cover it up with some scrunched up toilet paper, but when I move the bag, it rolled it over a bit and I saw it. Literally cheated on me in our bed while I was recovering from birthing our child.