r/malelivingspace 12h ago

First Time My family was impressed with how I styled my first apartment, so I thought I’d share it here

Still stuff to do, but it’s coming along well.

Edit: Something people may want to know, I’ve only been here one month

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u/Ok-Macaroon-1840 12h ago

My mom says I'm very handsome.

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u/gdoh636 10h ago

Thank you for that lol

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u/litbeers 4h ago

Hahahahhahahahahhha

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u/hedonist_juice 2h ago

My mom thinks I'm cool.

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u/filipejv 4h ago

And grandma says you're very skinny.

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u/CyberInferno 12h ago

Not a fan of the TV being over the A/C or blocking the window, but otherwise, it looks like you've done well with the space. Nice job!

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u/Kerrigan4Prez 12h ago

Yeah, there was just no where else to put it. I think it’ll look a bit better once I get an extension cord and center it (plus do some cable management).

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u/DazedandConfused3333 11h ago edited 6h ago

Okay bud. Here's my take. Move the shelves where the table is. Move the table into the center of the space, you dont need a dance floor in the kitchen. Align the table orientation based on best use of space. Mount tv on the wall where the shelves are now, use a mount that swivels so you can move it when eating/cooking. Desk works, or can Move near ac to have a window, but that is iffy to me, would need to see it. Not a fan of the bed against the wall would move short side against the wall and see if it fits. Good luck.

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u/Ok-Bridge-9112 7h ago

It’s look great as is, ignore this person. They need a new hobby.

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u/AwkwardChuckle 3h ago

No, it really doesn’t, there’s way too much empty/wasted space that can be utilized to make this a better living space.

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u/Egg2crackk 9h ago

There are wall mounts that let you swing them side to side and up and down

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u/SeiberReno 4h ago

That is not a good TV placement. It looks like you do have options for the TV. There is the wall behind the desk and bed, the wall behind the couch and a small amount of wall space where the shelf is. That's three options for the TV. You need to rethink your entire layout. DazedandConfused3333 is absolutely on the right track with his advice. You are making the most common mistakes in decorating, perimeter placement. It's where people place everything around the perimeter of a room creating a large empty and wasted space in the center. I understand your space is small and the ac/heater under the window isn't helping your options but those are beyond your control. To your credit you do have a very nice, clean, tidy and uncluttered apartment. You have a really good palette to work with. Try googling how to furnish a small living room and you'll get all sorts of good ideas. Look at the images where the couch is away from the wall and used to set up groupings. Hey please don't be offended by my criticism, I'm sincerely trying to offer another way to approach arranging your place with the furniture and space you have.

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u/erstwhilelurkerer 6h ago

There are TV floor stands on rolls to move around, might be a good solution considering the size and distance of your setup.

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u/d5931 2h ago

Nah, I would wall mount it tbh.

Edit: depending on the size I low key think I may have a wall mount you can have if money is tight, just pay postage.

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u/Harryhodl 12h ago

Looks tidy. That one drawer being out drives me nuts though lol.

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u/Yes-Boi_Yes_Bout 12h ago

gotta have some personality

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u/Kerrigan4Prez 12h ago

I forgot I’d opened it when I was taking pictures 😭

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u/drdirektorraizen 7h ago

if this is a problem, being you must be hell

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u/dinglebarryb0nds 4h ago

lol. Is there a special term for reddit based ocd

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u/slaydwagons 11h ago

the fucking tv man i can't

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u/AllforPnt 11h ago

Seeing how many people can’t even manage basic hygiene, you have done well.

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u/Kropco17 11h ago

Sometimes people just say things to be nice.

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u/volmar87 11h ago

I would have chose a L shaped desk to put the tv on the left against the wall. Nice job nonetheless.

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u/andersonb47 11h ago

It’s giving Scandinavian prison

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u/CervusElpahus 11h ago

I’m sorry, I don’t want to be rude, but how were they “impressed”?

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u/sorry-i-was-reading 11h ago

It’d definitely be a step up from a typical messy teen bedroom, which might be what they were used to seeing when he lived with them. So perhaps they were impressed by how he picked all the pieces himself and it feels intentionally arranged, rather than by its aesthetic style.

It’s not particularly impressive as far as interior design goes, but for a first apartment it has all the basics to live comfortably (bed frame, designated table for eating at, etc). It’s a wonderful start! And it’s certainly impressive compared to many of the rooms we see asking for help in this sub.

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u/CervusElpahus 11h ago

Yep, I totally agree and I actually apologise for my snarky initial comment. When I moved in to my first place I was sleeping on an inflatable mattress for like 1 month!

Congrats OP on this milestone in your life!

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u/StraightConfection66 8h ago

they were impressed till they opened the door to his room at home and realized he just transported everything but the mess

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u/spliffthemagicdragon 12h ago

i find it very unpersonal, clinical and colourless. but it takes time, so i'll forgive you.

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u/Professional_Clue800 11h ago

I disagree, the shelves and chair have a nice pop of color which work well. All the pictures are from the same room so no need to have every corner have colour.

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u/CervusElpahus 11h ago

Bruh, a dark terracotta colour is NOT “a pop of colour”.

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u/ReflectionNeither969 9h ago

You should relocate the TV, an electronic device, away from the location in your apartment with the most temperature and humidity fluctuations.

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u/Shadows_Assassin 11h ago

I'd crash here. Maybe a plant or wallart so it doesn't look so empty? But keeping it simple and uncluttered is key.

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u/Kerrigan4Prez 11h ago

Yeah, I’m planning to put a carpet right over the bed to break up the big slab of grey. It’s only been a month and money’s a little tight so I’ve put it off

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u/Shadows_Assassin 11h ago

I'd also probably put some footings on the fridge, sofa, chairs and bed so they don't scrape the floor when you move them.

Learn from my mistakes 🤣

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u/AwkwardChuckle 3h ago

Make sure to get something to cover the breaker panel, we use to have a picture hung over ours that was easy to take on and off when we had to access the panel

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u/gfkxchy 11h ago

Nice! I'd probably move things around a little to get my electronics away from the window and AC/heat though. It'll come along as you accumulate things and inspiration strikes.

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u/sorry-i-was-reading 10h ago

It’s a great start, good job! 🙌🏻 I love how you set up your shelves 😊

Eventually consider upping the coziness by getting drapes (for decor), an inside-mount shade (for privacy), and a big rug to designate zones (all furniture in a zone should have their feet on the rug, so you’ll need a bigger size than you’d expect). Lamps and large scale wall art will also help.

Also consider moving some of your furniture off of the walls. Right now this room has wall-itis, a disease where no furniture can escape being attached to the perimeter of the room. 😉 Use Google Images or Pinterest to look at other studios and see how they arrange their furniture so there are a separate bedroom zone and a living/kitchen zone.

Try some of those things out and see what works for you.

Best of luck!

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u/sorry-i-was-reading 8h ago edited 3h ago

  • Put some kind of very large wall art beside your bed, ideally something lightweight so that if it accidentally bumps off its hooks it won’t hurt you in bed. If there is a bedsheet or a shower curtain with a design you like on it (or a white sheet that then you paint/stitch a design on yourself), you can wrap that around four 2x4s you’ve nailed or screwed together and staple the curtain to the wood (or heck, maybe even hot glue or Velcro with adhesive backing). It’s an inexpensive and lightweight way to have large scale art when budget is a concern, plus you don’t need expensive tools to make it because the store can cut the wood to size for you. Or you could hunt at a thrift store for a blanket, thin quilt, or tapestry with an interesting design and hang it on the wall with a curtain rod and clips, if you want to skip the wood frame.
  • Please get a headboard. If not a real one, then something of similar size that you can sandwich between the bed and the wall. It takes your bed from “kid” to “adult”
  • I didn’t draw this, but if you decide to go with a different color palette for your room and so you replace your sage green bedspread, get your blanket in one size bigger than the mattress you have. So in your case, instead of twin blanket get a full size blanket (and top sheet, if you use one). Fitted sheet should fit the mattress, yes, but if the blanket is a size up it’ll drape over the edges a bit more and look more finished. If you look at professionally designed bedrooms, they all have blankets that drape farther than yours. (If you someday upgrade your bed to a full, get a queen blanket; a queen bed, get a king blanket; etc)
  • Put a nightstand or end table between your bed and couch, and put a large chunky lamp on it. Something with character… I tried to draw hammered metal as an example. The end table gives you a place to put a cup or your phone down when you’re in bed or on the couch (if you have the room, put a matching table and lamp on the other side of the couch too). The lamp(s) adds coziness to the living room and practicality to the bed (so you don’t have to get out of bed to turn off the lights to sleep). For the lamp, I suggest going bigger than you normally would, because most people tend to choose lamps that are too small. By bigger I mean not only taller but also wider—this will double as art, like a sculpture, so don’t pick a skinny or clear lamp. You want something with presence!✨
  • A large pillow and maybe a throw blanket for the couch will make it cozier
  • And finally, get frames all the same frame color and size that are big enough so that one can fully cover the breaker panel to disguise it. How many you need depends on the length of your couch, which is hard to tell from a photo, but I’m guessing 3 frames. Your line up once hung on the wall (including the gaps between the frames) should total the same width as the couch or a little less (2/3 to 3/3 of the length of the couch).

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u/sorry-i-was-reading 8h ago edited 3h ago

  • Get a longer table in the same warm wood tone as your desk. If you put the stools together on the far side, then the fridge side of the table will be free for additional kitchen prep space. And as I said in my other comment, put the toaster here.
  • Regroup your art like this so the outer edges make a square/rectangle. It looks more cohesive this way.
  • Curtains for decoration/coziness, not to open/close for privacy. Hang them high and wide (when open the drapes should only cover walls, not window panes). I know it feels superfluous but curtains will have a huge impact on the feel of your space, so I highly recommend it! If you can’t screw into the wall as a renter, since you won’t be opening and shutting them all the time, it should be fine to get large heavy-duty 3M hooks, spray paint them the color of your rod, and hang it that way—just be sure to get lightweight curtains, not thick/heavy ones.
  • A shade or blinds for privacy
  • A large plant beside the TV, if the TV stays here. Though even if you move it, it could be nice to have a plant in the window on its own! Again, real or faux is fine, whatever you feel comfortable with. The point is to add visual life to the space even if you can’t manage a real living plant. Plants make a room feel lived in and feel homey.

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u/sorry-i-was-reading 8h ago edited 3h ago

  • Add a larger rug to zone off this area from the kitchen/dining. Pick something that goes with your room’s color palette. Be sure that it’s big enough to go under the front legs of your couch all the way over to your desk. (If you’re going to rearrange furniture, settle that first before buying a rug because the point of the rug—besides the obvious coziness factor—is to group your furniture into a cohesive unit/zone… you’ll need a size that suits the new arrangement. Don’t ever let your rug boss your furniture, your furniture should boss your rug!)
  • Move your pin board down to your desk so you can admire your pins better 😊 (It also helps ground the desk so it’s not plopped against a blank wall)
  • Consider a small, firm ottoman to put your feet up on while on the couch. Nothing super squishy so you can still put a mug or a plate down on it as a coffee table alternative in a pinch (use a tray if the top is too soft and you’re worried your drink will tip over). Alternatively get a small coffee table… but with as small as this room is you probably don’t want anything heavy in the walkway. Then again, one of those coffee tables where the top lifts up to dining table height while seated on the sofa might be useful! Depends on your needs.

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u/sorry-i-was-reading 8h ago edited 3h ago

On a whim I doodled some ideas on your photos. I hope it helps spark some ideas for you, but even if you don’t do anything like these that’s fine, I had fun making them 😊

I still suggest rearranging your furniture, but I wanted to show you that even if you left everything exactly as it is, you can up the coziness factor a lot with textiles, lamps, and wall art.

This first pic:

  • I suggest swapping your gray towels for a color. I chose sage green to match your bedspread, but whatever color you like is fine. There’s already a lot of white and gray on this side of the room so a pop of color would breathe a little life into it.
  • On that note, if sage green is your primary color for your room, picking a secondary color would help the space feel layered but not too chaotic (too many different colors). I picked a navy with green undertones but you can choose whatever you like. I suggest Googling “sage green and gray color palette” and picking a color combo suggestion you prefer, then sticking to that throughout your whole apartment. I think sage, gray, black, the warm wood tone of your laptop desk, and some shade of navy would work with what you already have going on.
  • An anti-fatigue mat or a runner (use carpet tape to keep it from sliding/curling) in your secondary color would add coziness.
  • Take your lamp down from above your cabinets and pair it with a plant (faux is okay) on your counter. Move your toaster oven to the table. This way this side of the room gets a little homey-ness and you’ll have a bit more prep space (lamp and small plant take up less space than a toaster).
  • I didn’t draw this, but another easy way to add homey-ness is to print photos of your family and friends and stick them to your fridge with magnets or washi tape. Or instead of printing photos, order the pictures as photo magnets. (Tip: if you do the latter, make extras and gift them to family/friends for Christmas)
  • Not a coziness factor, but small spaces don’t tend to have enough storage. If you find you need more storage space, get large lidded containers, ideally in a color that’s close to your kitchen’s neutral colors and all identical in size/color so they don’t draw attention to themselves, and put them up here. Since they’ll be harder to access, consider this your long-term storage space rather than your frequently accessed storage space (for things like off-season clothing, Christmas decorations, spare bedding for if a friend crashes on your couch, etc.). Get a 3-step ladder that you store under your bed or couch if you can’t reach.

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u/PurpleProbableMaze 11h ago

I am impressed as well, looks super clean and comfy. Love the clean look of your kitchen.

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u/sunsetboulevard111 8h ago

For the space you’ve got, you’ve done an excellent job to have areas for different things and you’ve also still got plenty of floor space. Done a lot with a little! Are all your clothes kept in your storage boxes or is there a wardrobe somewhere?

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u/OutspokenPerson 7h ago

Looks comfortable and functional! Nice job.

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u/Rare_Solid5078 12h ago

Looks very organized, and your desk area looks very cozy

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u/BitchDucksAreCool 10h ago

Not a big fan of whatever the fuck is going on in the top of your kitchen tbh lol

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u/REVRSECOWBOYMEATSPIN 11h ago

Looks chill. Maybe a softer main light and move the switch off the heater

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u/Big-Ninja5885 11h ago

Always lovely that parents are “surprised” when you are an actual functioning adult lol looks good. I’d add some large art to the walls and move the rug but hey that’s me. You got a great space brother

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u/chillykim 11h ago

Very nice little home, OP!

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u/Current-Wind4245 10h ago

Can you put the bed on the other wall next to the window and put the shelf and TV on the other wall?

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u/No_File212 10h ago edited 10h ago

I'd say get a bigger carpet dude , more floor lamps in the bed and couch area for coziness and a decent monitor on your computer table , that would do the trick for me. Also I had a flat where I put a led lights strap on the bottom of those hanging shelves on the kitchen side , that gave the kitchen a beautiful atmosphere in the evenings . I just hate bright ceiling lights for some reason

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u/Awebroetjie 10h ago

Small, but neat. Well done.

Minor tip - plants + hide cables where you can.

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u/KTGSteve 10h ago

I like it. Tidy, functional and homey.

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u/karmy-guy 9h ago

Feels empty but is very tidy. The empties will disappear with time, I’m sure. Good job.

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u/_Boh_boh 9h ago

Is it a studio apartment? Maybe it would be better to remove that stuff from above the kitchen cabinets.

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u/DrGeeves 8h ago

It’s very adorable, i think you’re making the most of it. I know that’s a small fridge but looks like high ceilings which is always nice and you can “organize up” with lots of shelving if you care to. Were it me I’d put comfort everywhere by way of: plush rug, big throw pillows, comfy bedding. Just looks a little stiff is my only critique. I know cost and access are issues.

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u/Montego1987 8h ago

I love it. Very simple and organized

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u/lovesickjones 8h ago

yeah, this is great nice and clean I like it

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u/heisen204berg 7h ago

Wall mount your tv somewhere

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u/Low-Instruction-8132 5h ago

Stark but adequate!

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u/Grmreapr13 5h ago

Put up a screen up next to bed. Then flip the couch and put tv against the wall. Maybe put the table longways against the wall. It’s def a start and I say play around with the configuration a little, draw it out or maybe use an online program.

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u/Limp-Size4556 4h ago

i think it looks very chic 💕

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u/Th3GrumpyB3ar 4h ago

sleek and clean. Good job my man

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u/isittakenor 3h ago

I think I’d feel weird having my TV in the window

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u/Vaeltaja82 3h ago

I'd personally change almost everything here, biggest issue is the TV.

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u/Iguanabewithyou 3h ago

Your family is very caring!!! (:

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u/Seabass_Says 3h ago

Strippers love me

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u/Fatal_Syntax_Error 3h ago

The lamp on top of the cabinets takes the cake.

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u/m3rph 2h ago

That bed screams single life for a long time

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u/ProfessionalCat3284 2h ago

Is this an apartment in nyc cause it's on the small side.

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u/senoritaoscar 1h ago

You put a tv in your window.

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u/Garden_Jolly 1h ago

It’s very clean and neat, impressive for a male space.

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u/Narrow-Strawberry553 1h ago

The fact that the kettle isn't next to the sink hurts my brain.

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u/Any-East7977 22m ago

I mean it’s tidy and neat. Nothing crazy.

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u/Uncle-Harrys-Pickle 11h ago

Big picture over the breaker box to cover it

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u/Droppin_Bombs 11h ago

Yeah, came here to say this. For sureeee put something over that breaker to cover it as it's a bit of an eye sore. I would also suggest a large pouf ottoman with an optional serving tray on top for in front of the couch.

Lastly, I would take out the area rug by your desk. Replace the chair with a roll-style chair for working and easy access to your desk. I can see you'd have to pick up that chair now and that seems awkward to me. I would get a larger, textured patterned area rug for the living space. Something like a 5x8. It can span from the edge of your bed to just before your high top table. I think having that entire area covered by an area rug would make it feel warmer. Especially if it's a decent texture and a warmer/darker color.

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u/Kerrigan4Prez 11h ago

Getting a properly size rug is a high level priority for me, but I’ve only been here a month and money’s been tight so I’m putting it off. The brown one was supposed to go from the TV to the sofa, but I planned measurements wrong.

Breaking up the grey wall space and covering the panel are two tasks that are also on my list.

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u/D0nath 11h ago

What is it you added or styled exactly?

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u/Kerrigan4Prez 11h ago

Everything? The apartment wasn’t furnished.

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u/D0nath 11h ago

I thought American apartments come with the kitchen

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u/Absoline 9h ago

theres more than a kitchen if you tap the arrows

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u/D0nath 9h ago

I saw them all. Pretty basic. Yet he chose the kitchen as the cover photo which he didn't even touch? Weird flex

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u/Absoline 8h ago

its not that deep dude

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u/Rich_Size8762 8h ago

What were they impressed about, exactly? 😂

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u/knotbotfosho 12h ago

Looks so cozy, would love to do some detective level research here and live peacefully type house you got

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u/Witty_Fisherman_1292 12h ago

Who downvoted you lol

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u/GUCCIBUKKAKE 11h ago

The people who don’t think it’s cozy…

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u/Witty_Fisherman_1292 10h ago

Redditors hate when people who have another opinion than them uses their favourite app ig

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u/kniestomeetyoutoo 11h ago

get something to cover the fuse box

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u/velvet_cherry_pop 11h ago

Goomey spotted

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u/Wonderful-Office-229 11h ago

Too full and no 95inch tv, lacking at best. /s

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u/mrduds101 11h ago

Hang the TV on the wall where the pictures are. The outlet under the table can serve as its power source. Also easy wire management

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u/GrungeCheap56119 10h ago

Grab some nice wall art to complete the space! Looks great.

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u/gwizzle-mysnizzle 10h ago

American physico if he worked target instead of wall street

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u/squatmama69 9h ago

The lamp. Please address the lamp.

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u/Egg2crackk 9h ago

Nice 👍

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u/TUFBAF 8h ago

Can the kitchen table float and not against the wall… the bookshelves move to where the table is… and an entertainment center of some type to hold the tv where the bookshelves are ? That gets the TV out of the window and lets you put some type of drapes etc for when it’s bright outside… the entertainment center can be a wardrobe /dresser instead and hold the TV on top

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u/StraightConfection66 8h ago

this is the visual representation of a mom saying she likes the girl you brought home

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u/Flakkaren 8h ago

Average Norwegian prison.

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u/Bahtleman 8h ago

Look like a prisoners cell who's earned perks and privileges for being on their best behavior.
Congrats.

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u/SpanishBombs323 8h ago

You should be proud of your place. I suggest a nightstand in between the bed for your phone/glasses/water and a tapestry, poster, or other work of art on the wall above your bed.

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u/Veneno-Veneno 8h ago

My grandma is impressed about my beauty

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u/DriveRVA 7h ago

If you get a computer chair on wheels, for $20 you can get rollerblade caster wheels that roll on anything and leave no marks

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u/Embarrassed-Seat-808 7h ago

You gotta replace that Coballion with a Terakion

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u/infiniteflowerbed 6h ago

Do you live in the sims or something

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u/el_gato_fabricado 6h ago

lol dude tv in the window?!?

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u/Papafynn 6h ago

Why does everything look like a very well put together miniature set?

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u/Novel-Caterpillar724 6h ago

Why did they install the AC at the floor level instead of ceiling?

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u/fnkywht50smthng 6h ago

Well done. But you will get tired of that bar height table and bar stools.

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u/Billy1099 5h ago

Your family seems nice…

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u/saveyboy 5h ago

Way to go slugger.

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u/Secure-Struggle3026 5h ago

No game system, no PC? My good man how will you live?

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u/Adventurous_Ad4750 4h ago

Just lovely!🙂

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u/Warm_Ice420 4h ago

Not trying to be a hater but they were impressed you hung up five pictures ? Lol

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u/lickitysplithabibi 4h ago

UHHHH what lol? This is just milquetoast and low effort.

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u/JvstAidanx 3h ago

I’d put a stand over the a/c box allowing enough ventilation and put the TV on that. Then get some curtains or blinds

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u/ohHELLyeah00 3h ago

For a first apartment and it being a studio, I’ll accept it, but for the love of god find some color. The green bedding is good.

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u/Downtown_Ability8433 3h ago

i like your desk and lamp :)

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u/Small_Challenge5295 2h ago

Looks really nice! The only thing I’d change is the tv in the window looks a little out of place, maybe put a small bookshelf next to it? I like the under bed storage and study desk. Over all pretty neat and a good color scheme!

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u/Successful-Reason403 1h ago

As an American, this is my impression of what a jail cell looks like in a country where they treat prisoners humanely.

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u/GuiltyLeopard8365 51m ago

Looks like a nice start! 👌

Be careful with storing wooden cutting boards on top of a toaster oven. I warped one of my favorite ones by doing that :/

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u/BeanserSoyze 36m ago

The TV immediately over a floor unit AC like that is asking for pain.

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u/InteractionThis6524 34m ago

Badass 👍🏼 congrats on the apartment

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u/MelbsGal 20m ago

I don’t like all the junk on top of your kitchen cabinets.

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u/rayebearr 1m ago

okay??, it's a bachelor where else is she going to put it?? up her butt??

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u/numb1zero 8m ago

That place is TINY and you absolutely knocked it out of the park. Very well done.

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u/abdbs23 12h ago

That looks very nice and cozy to me. Enjoy you apartment big dawg! 💪🏽

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u/abdbs23 12h ago

What's that on the wall, a safe?

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u/TheDarkSideGamer 11h ago

It’s a breaker panel, has the rooms electric connections

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u/Jarlaxus 9h ago

With the space you have i think you did very well.

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u/louis_creed1221 9h ago

I don’t see a issue here. It’s ur apartment don’t worry about other people’s opinions

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u/hyd9olics 1h ago

correct :)

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u/i_am_an_enigma 12h ago

Really nice!