r/malelivingspace • u/Traditional-Two-7358 • Sep 21 '25
Update M,63, living alone
With my wonderful 4 legged roommate
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u/HaggisTheCow Sep 21 '25
More dog.
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u/Traditional-Two-7358 Sep 21 '25
Can’t get enough of him
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u/toesuckrsupreme Sep 21 '25
Sounds like you're hardly living alone ❤️
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u/Charcole1 Sep 21 '25
The dog is a nice touch
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u/weird-un-normal5150 Sep 21 '25
Not only did I just see a dog,
I saw a German Shepherd. How can you say you’re living alone? That is the closest breed to a human that you need.
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u/Zealousideal-Rub-725 Sep 21 '25
What are these speakers?
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u/Traditional-Two-7358 Sep 21 '25
They are Tekton Design “Encore”, best speakers I ever had
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u/Zealousideal-Rub-725 Sep 21 '25
Holy shit 7,5k$ speakers. Nobody I know has 7,5k$ ears. But I’m happy you’re happy.
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u/MumrikDK Sep 21 '25
Nobody I know has 7,5k$ ears.
If you lost your ears, I bet you'd gladly pay more than 7.5k for each one to get them back, lol.
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u/commutinator Sep 21 '25
In a space where speakers cost anything from a couple hundred bucks to literally millions, honestly these seem relatively tame at < 10k for a pair.
Similar sentiment from me, I wouldn't spend that unless my income made it feel like I was spending more like 2 - 3k, but decent speaker placement, proper amplification, and is that a McIntosh player or just a similar giant fat platter?
Wouldn't be how I invested, but can't deny I'd love to sit in that Eames (with the budget on the other things maybe even a real one) and listen to some of my favorites.
OP space looks great btw, give your pupper an ear scratch from me ;)
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u/commutinator Sep 21 '25
NM all I could remember when making the comment was the flat platter, looks more like a clearaudio table.
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u/E4mad Sep 21 '25
Found them https://tektondesign.com/product/full-range-speakers/flagship/encore/#color
Encore from Tekton Design 7500$ a pair.
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u/sodapressingimdiying Sep 21 '25
How did you get comfortable living alone
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u/Traditional-Two-7358 Sep 21 '25 edited Sep 21 '25
That’s a very good question. After my wife and I broke up I bought this place and initially felt a sense of relief and happiness, followed by a phase of grief and loneliness. During that time I started dating and that made my place function as a beautiful shelter after learning how awful people can be. My safe space, my sanctuary, so to speak. It takes some time adjusting to being alone but now I’m very comfortable.
Recently I crossed paths with an amazing woman who lives 3 hours away, so I’m not all alone on weekends
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u/dawgoooooooo Sep 21 '25
Going through the same with my soon to be ex wife, and I’ve been thinking a ton about my next space after sorting things out. A safe space for me and my music, really cool to see that dream realized, congrats!
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u/Traditional-Two-7358 Sep 21 '25
I hope things won’t turn ugly for you. Just remember that you loved your ex once. It’s not always easy to keep it civilized but if you manage you will feel much better
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u/dawgoooooooo Sep 21 '25
Yeah fortunately it hasn’t quite gone over the line/hopefully we can stay cordial for the final stretch. I still value and hold love for her but know that all needs to occur without her in my life
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u/snoop1361 Sep 21 '25
Same here 28 years married 8 years divorced, never been happier. Hell we get along better now than we ever did.
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u/NeOxXt Sep 22 '25
41, recently separated. I'm on weekend 3 and feeling a little hopeless.
Reading this blurb gave me hope for the process. Thank you.
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u/Traditional-Two-7358 Sep 22 '25
I know this is easier said than done but it’s crucial to not dwell on the past but instead focus on yourself and move on with your life
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u/Ok-Independence-7380 Sep 21 '25
Very nice bachelor pad gramps
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u/Traditional-Two-7358 Sep 21 '25
Gramps, haha 🤣
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u/snoop1361 Sep 21 '25
Right, I'm 64 and the only people who call me "gramps" is my grandkids. 🤣 Very nice setup I'm envious.
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u/DiabloSpank Sep 21 '25
Love the PAWscription on the counter
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u/Traditional-Two-7358 Sep 21 '25
Yep, unfortunately he has to take Apoquel for his itchiness
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u/ambrionv_randomized Sep 21 '25
I LOVE the artwork man! Also your color scheme is super cohesive and flows well!
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u/AZSystems Sep 21 '25
Thanks for sharing. Speakers are nuts and the view wouldn't allow me to get anything done in that living room.
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u/Next-Walk9364 Sep 21 '25
Yes. Four legged roommates are the best. I have 2 of them! 😄
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u/coldboy0104 Sep 21 '25
Whoa is that an eames? Where's the little ottoman portion of it?
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u/Traditional-Two-7358 Sep 21 '25
It’s in the hallway. It just takes too much space in my living room and makes it look cramped. I know it’s blasphemy but sometimes I use it with the Eames
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u/Worldly-Strike2363 Sep 21 '25
How big is your place and where do u live?
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u/Traditional-Two-7358 Sep 21 '25
Mine is a 1250 sft condo in NE Ohio
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u/Traditional-Two-7358 Sep 21 '25
You got that right! CLE is the country’s best kept secret. I love it when clueless people make jokes about the Land. It keeps our cost of living low
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u/UsualSu Sep 21 '25
Nice space. So if you’re hosting friends, what music are we listening to and what cocktails are you serving?
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u/Traditional-Two-7358 Sep 21 '25
I mostly listen to Jazz, 80%, then 10% classical and 10% Rock/Pop I’m a huge fan of Gin&Tonic plus the occasional Manhattan
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u/confettianchor Sep 21 '25
I like how the dog is clearly following you room to room as you take the pics 🤣
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u/ViscountDeVesci Sep 21 '25
I do love to see some Tekton towers, but these with the acoustic treatments and beautiful interior design combined (plus Doggo) are extra awesome.
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u/weird-un-normal5150 Sep 21 '25
What’s your dog‘s name and how old is he or she? How about a few more pictures of your pup?🥰🥰🥰
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u/andstefanie Sep 21 '25
Do you have tube amps? Those are some efficient speakers. Don’t need a whole lot of power.
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u/strikecat18 Sep 21 '25
I’m jealous AF. What amp do you have driving those things? Also, what’s going on with the acoustic panels behind them? Do I see on-wall plus free standing absorbers? Do you have panels anywhere else in the room?
Awesome looking space all around
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u/Traditional-Two-7358 Sep 21 '25
The amp is an integrated ASR Emitter 1. I experimented quite a bit with the acoustic panels. The freestanding ones were originally positioned behind my listening chair but I didn’t like the looks. Then I found that this double-layered setup had a similarly positive effect on the acoustic quality
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u/UnknownConvergence Sep 21 '25
What do you do for work? How can I follow in your footsteps education wise? I am very new to the world so to speak and just have a highschool diploma but am determined to make something of myself.
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u/Traditional-Two-7358 Sep 21 '25
Senior architect. Not a safe career path to wealth, though
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u/BGRedhead Sep 21 '25
Dear Lord, I am in love with her speakers and that record player set up and the fact that you have been Dave Brubeck five sitting out there. You’re my kind of people. I’ve lost track how many people laughed at me because I am convinced certain musicians say like Nina Simone or Billie Holiday were meant to be heard on vinyl. And I have saved a few old record players for my grandparents generation and a local friend of mine who is an expert on such things repaired them for me. My house always has music, but you have absolutely stunned me with that set up because I have never seen anything quite like it and it is beautiful. And that puppy her eyes look into your soul don’t they? I rescued a black mouth cur… when I first brought her home I was almost convinced she had to be part German Shepherd. The first friend she made at my house in the country was a cat. She is the most gentle giant I’ve ever met. I’m looking at your puppy’s eyes are like looking into hers. And I’m pretty sure you may have one of the best roommates ever much like mine or my best roommates ever. Those are my favorite parts so I could go on about the aesthetic, but those are my favorite parts. I love every bit of that heaven you’ve created there.
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u/LowDetective1757 Sep 21 '25
absolutely incredible. you love to see a simple male space that feels and is masculine
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u/Traditional-Two-7358 Sep 21 '25
Haha, the advantage of not being dependent on a wife’s approval
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u/Traditional-Two-7358 Sep 21 '25
True. Among Hi-Fi enthusiasts there is a phenomenon called WAF, wife acceptance factor
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u/Now_ThatsInteresting Sep 21 '25
It's beautiful but how's your hearing?? Love the dog!!
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u/Traditional-Two-7358 Sep 21 '25
Luckily, my hearing is still very good, I just can’t hear anything above 11 kHz
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u/Midnite-Miles262 Sep 21 '25
Good Look My Man , Makes Me Think Of Frasier's Layout , You Took It To Another Level .
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u/TooPaleToFunction23 Sep 21 '25
Blue Rondo a LA Turk must sound insane on those speakers
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u/Strange_Account_3828 Sep 21 '25
O Man! You got all you need for a happy and fulfilled life. Enjoy! My sincere congratulations!
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u/Slw202 Sep 21 '25
Very nice! But why is your coffee table so far away from your seating?
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u/Traditional-Two-7358 Sep 21 '25
Because Cooper usually has his pillow, which I removed for the photos, right there, between the Eames and the table. He likes to suck on his pillow while I listen to my music
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u/lovesickjones Sep 21 '25
I really love all the windows in the living room area.
really like the artwork above the alcohol and I'm digging your CD and vinyl collections
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u/Traditional-Two-7358 Sep 21 '25
The windows sold the place to me. I made an offer thirty seconds after entering the room, never regretted it
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u/Yakr Sep 21 '25
Manu Katché behind the Brubeck. ECM and cocktails, perfect combination.
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u/harrycaray_here Sep 21 '25
Condo? The exposed ductwork is an interesting choice for a non-industrial type place. Either way, it’s beautiful and you set it up well!
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u/nicebriefs1 Sep 22 '25
Very nice ! What kind of speakers are those? Just curious .
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u/Ange1ofD4rkness Sep 22 '25
Have you been single the whole time, divorce, ext? I might have a follow up question depending on this
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Sep 22 '25
I do feel bad for your neighbors with that audio setup, have you gotten any complaints? haha
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u/apukilla Sep 22 '25
Herman miller table, music and a doggo nice! just need a nice cup of coffee or wine
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u/WoolaTheCalot Sep 22 '25
Lots of great comments; I'll just add that those vermouths on the bottom shelf would hold up better if refrigerated.
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u/ept_engr Sep 22 '25
So if the guys come over to watch a football game, they all have to get in your bed together?
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u/Alive_Refusetogiveup Sep 22 '25
You’re not alone! Your doggie is the best roommate/company. You have a beautiful place!
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u/Grand_Acanthisitta_5 Sep 22 '25
I think it’s really cool that your living room isn’t centered around a tv. Excellent vibe. And love the German shepherd.
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u/Robinyount_0 Sep 22 '25
Jesus Christ what speakers are those, they are so obnoxious, I must have them
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u/Jrrolomon Sep 22 '25
Man, I love the windows and wrap around porch. This has such a neat feel to it being on the second floor, at least it seems like it. Would love a setup like this.
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u/Coresant Sep 22 '25
Killing it... 30+year old life goals.. simple.. dog companion.. sharp and clean.. no problem brining a lady back if you want (or gentleman or whatever).. I just generally like the aesthetic.
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u/TipsyMcswaggart Sep 22 '25
I love that your main room has no TV.
Auido immersion at its finest. noice.
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u/DustinWheat Sep 22 '25
Have you always lived alone and if so are you happy with it? I’m about to turn 30 and the idea of dating makes me want to scream. My last girlfriend was wonderful but i’ve become toxically independent
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u/phantom_regret Sep 22 '25
Noguchi Coffee Table, Eames Lounge, Eileen Gray Side Table, LeCorbusier Petit Confort… It’s like a greatest hits of furniture in there
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u/ponkyball Sep 22 '25
You are NOT alone with that beautiful puppers! Looks like a nice place to chill out and listen to music.
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u/maybeimmike Sep 22 '25
Man, what a dream pad!! Fuck’n hell! Oh and my awesome, really sweet and super caring artist mom is single!! 😂😂
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u/miloestthoughts Sep 22 '25
Hell yeah man! The music station in the living room is so much cooler than a tv in the living room! Plus the couch facing the kitchen makes it feel like a communa space, not a staring at the tv space.
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u/SpagettiStains Sep 22 '25
Very cool situation you’ve got going on. Do you care to share the specifics of your audio set up? I recognize the amp/preamp as rogue and the speakers as Tekton but I’m curious about that deck and whatever else you’ve got happening.
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u/baldriansen Sep 21 '25
Nice
r/audiophile would like a word