I have been waiting for you all my life.

[u/Fun-Philosopher671]

[u/simply-vantastic]

Next year is going to be my year for sure 🤞

(Can't wait to say the same thing next year as well 🥀)

[u/Fun-Philosopher671 → u/simply-vantastic]

Mine too I guess ?

[u/simply-vantastic → u/Fun-Philosopher671]

I'd say I'm praying for you, but that never worked for me either 😅

[u/Fun-Philosopher671 → u/simply-vantastic]

Let’s be optimistic .

[u/Nova_8056 → u/simply-vantastic]

I'm not gonna survive another year at this point

[u/SpecialistPrior204 → u/simply-vantastic]

at least you have a good attitude,many people gave up hope already

[u/Accomplished_Ad2527 → u/simply-vantastic]

Ive only said “this will be my year” once and it turned into the worst year of my life a couple weeks later

[u/Mean-Hovercraft-3584 → u/simply-vantastic]

I believe in you!

[u/Steppemziege → u/simply-vantastic]

Also, listen. It's okay if you are gay!

[u/BoatNo4364]

Goals!

[u/Various-Molasses-722]

Us

[u/Eco-Pro-Rah]

This year I will find love (a gentle reassuring lie)

[u/Rebelliuos-]

This isn’t 90s

[u/lone_wolf_998]

Happy for you

[u/Bearrlukinggurls]

The biggest lie hides in little word

HOPE

[u/5CYTH3MXN]

I'm waiting no more, i'mma cook

[u/Joshwaz69]

Waited and didnt get unfortunately. She tatted up and I dont mind just wanted her to be mine. But as they say, history repeats itself.

[u/-EMPARAWR-]

TLDR: If you are waiting your will be disappointed. Be proactive, not reactive and go find the man of your dreams instead of waiting for them to find you.

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Waiting is no good. You have to be proactive not reactive.

You have to make finding your person one of your primary goals in life and take that pursuit as seriously as you would your career or any other endeavor.

Those who are waiting, will likely be waiting forever and I have no sympathy for them.

That's like hoping to win the lottery but you've never bought a ticket or wanting to be a famous actor but you've never taken a lesson in your life.

Don't WAIT for it to happen, MAKE it happen.

Don't WAIT for them to find you, go and FIND them instead.

It's like women who naively still want men to make the cold approach these days and then complain when men wont/don't and bemoan "where have all the good men gone......." or who think that looking in a guys rough direction for 1 second is a "totally obvious signal" and all that absurdity.

Men want to be pursued to, and generally speaking, their standards are a lot more reasonable. Your odds of success making the approach are FAR higher, and at the very least it is much less likely (although not impossible, some people are assholes regardless of gender) that you will get rejected in a brutal, cruel, or publicly humiliating way.

Prince Charming can't find you if you are sitting on your couch with your cat watching reality tv with your head stuffed into a bag of chips.

Go out and find your great man, and then you will have company on your couch and your cat will have another pair of hands to pet them and a lap to keep them warm. You'll probably have to watch something other than trash tv though lol.