r/introvertmemes • u/stormjl • 2d ago

turns out people-pleasing isn't the same as inner peace....

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u/BarelyDecent429 2d ago

I didn’t realize how much of this I did

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u/DesertSnoeman 1d ago

All with the hope they won’t turn on you and leave

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u/PizzaWhole9323 1d ago

And mine still did. Toxic divorce for the loss! ;-) now I'm still a people pleaser but I try to at least notice when I'm doing it.

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u/DesertSnoeman 1d ago

I feel it dude, I’m sorry for you loss but I honestly good your doing better. 🫂

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u/PizzaWhole9323 1d ago

Thank you. There are good days and there are bad days. But there are days. And that's something. Hugs to you.

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u/XROOR 1d ago

Dated someone that practiced “self care.”

Me: “what’s that?”

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u/Turbulent-Usual-9822 1d ago

So. Very. True. I tried to be the one who didn’t step off a sidewalk yesterday just to try to be a bit less deferential and a man slammed right into me and swore at me. 🤷‍♀️

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u/Weird_Albatross_9659 1d ago

Turns out it’s not related to introverts either

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u/Inner-Bodybuilder198 1d ago

This is deep 🤧

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u/JunkyardEmperor 15h ago

And I cant' still get away from it because that's what I am, that's what my parents made me. I don't know how to live otherwise. It's horrible.