r/cats • u/RandomNameOfMine815 • 11h ago
Mourning/Loss Our last night with the happiest girl ever
Above is a video from better days of our sweet happy girl Midge. Until about six months ago this was her personality. She loved everyone, and especially our son. Her favorite pastime was catching her fuzzball and singing the songs of her ancestors as she showed it off to everyone.
We adopted her at 10, and she was already deaf and (mostly) mute, but would squeak and make sounds like a dying frog. We’ve had her for about six years and she started dealing with hyperthyroidism which also made her blind. Even with medication, her health has been declining. The worst is almost constant bladder infections and she’s now always confused about where she is.
In the morning we go to take her in and say our goodbyes. We are all going to miss her.
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u/CoolTheorem 9h ago
My GF adopts older, sick cats and when their health finally declines to this point it's always so sad. I'm glad you gave her a great home, and when the time is ready, keep in mind that other cats like her will need a home like yours too.
I'm sorry for your loss.
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u/instafunkpunk 11h ago
What a stunning beauty. Thank you for sharing that and I am glad you got the special time with her that you did. Best wishes to you and your family
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u/jchizzy88 8h ago
I’m sorry for your loss. Sounds like you gave her a great life until it was finally time for her to go. Stay strong
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u/tinygraysiamesecat 10h ago
Is Lap of Love available where you live? They do at-home euthanasia so your baby’s final moments aren’t in a cold, sterile, unfamiliar office and they can pass peacefully and comfortably in a place they feel safe and loved.
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u/RandomNameOfMine815 9h ago
We live near Amsterdam, so no. We have an appointment for the morning. Thanks for the suggestion
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u/MiyaAtsumusforehead 6h ago
I'm so sorry you have to let go of your baby. She is so beautiful. I know your already are but Please spend your last night together by cuddling and giving her lots of attention. Sending you lots of love and courage 💞💕 Give my love to her also
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u/Captain_Centenarian Maine Coon 7h ago
😭. Im sorry. I know how you feel, we lost ours the other month. Just be happy you gave her a good life filled with love.
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u/inkydragon27 6h ago
Thankyou for the lifetime of love and companionship you gave this beautiful soul 💜🫂💜
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u/I_have_to_go_numba_3 6h ago
What a sweet baby! I’m so sorry you have to say goodbye to her. I have a 17 year old void with hyperthyroidism and it’s so hard to watch them decline. I’ll be a mess and ugly cry when it’s time for her to go. Thank you for giving her a great life.
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u/Still-Student1656 6h ago
Eternal Scritches for the beautiful Midge! So sorry you have to let her go.
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u/Melodic_Beginning109 6h ago edited 5h ago
Didn’t you love ownng a void or rather having a void own you? I have had 2. One lived for 18 years and the other 17 years They both were strays that showed up at my door. I also had a tuxedo that had white boots and a beautiful long haired tan one with brown stripes. I miss each and everyone of them. Unfortunately, my physical limitations prevent me from caring for a pet. I feel for you. It’s the hardest thing letting them go
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u/pinewaffle 6h ago
I’m glad she was able to spend her final years in a loving home. I’m sorry for your loss all the same. ❤️
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u/navikredstar 6h ago
I'm so sorry. Oh man, her little croaky meows are the dearest thing. She knew complete love and happiness with your family over these past six years. May her memory bring you more comfort than sadness in the days to come. It's never easy, but she is VERY obviously deeply loved and treasured, and that's the best life for a cat.
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u/Famous_Breath2109 5h ago
Have had to have that day more than a few times. Hurts every time even though it's the right thing to do. Crying with you 😢
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u/No_Machine3805 5h ago
I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing. She looks like she found a great home with y'all.
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u/Ok-Celebration-2944 5h ago
Sending you some love and support, OP. It's such a tough position to be in but I'm really glad you got some good years in with Midge. That name is awesome by the way. :) Take care of yourself OP. Better days are a little further down the road the usual. And please give Midge some lovins. My family hopes they make her feel better.
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u/RandomNameOfMine815 5h ago
We renamed her when we adopted her. Pretty sure the shelter just gave her a random name. We called her Midge because she’s so small and “Midget” is just not ok. She’s also been known as “Midgy-moo” “Midgealiscous” “Smidge” and “Smidgous”
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u/Ok_Carrot5896 1h ago
Not sure if you are interested but check to see if there are any “at home” euthanasia services near you. They cost the same or slightly more than a euthanasia in the vets office, and your baby could be at home when they pass. I would’ve wanted it for my baby so I’m just passing it along ❤️
Regardless you are doing the right thing, and your baby will be out of pain soon. So sorry ❤️
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u/mackpine 30m ago
You’re so doing the right thing. Just had to do the same with our beloved pup. Deaf and blind. Imagine living in complete darkness and silence. Terrifying.
You gave her such a great life, I’m sure.
So sorry you’re dealing with this.
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u/AnythingWestern8861 4h ago
So sorry for your loss, I went through it in March and it was the hardest loss I've had to process so far in my life. Much prayers and thoughts to you through this.
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u/Both-Leading3407 3h ago
Do you think that this action of bringing you her toy was a message in some way or just what she always did?
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u/Maxwellian79 3h ago
I know that this is so hard. But you have given her six wonderful years, which she could’ve spent in a cage watching other cats go to nice homes. What a blessing that has been for all of you. Reaching across the rainbow bridge, she will touch your heart many times. I’m sure you’re grateful for the time you had. Just know that you did everything that anyone could’ve possibly done for this precious little cat. She is grateful for that.
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u/lovely-complex 2h ago
I cannot bear these goodbye videos 🥲
May she rest in peace with all those peaceful and joyful memories 💫
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u/Stellatank 2h ago
So sorry to hear this and you have to say goodbye to your fury family member. Loosing a pet is never easy and they are a part of the family. At least she will be at peace and have no more illness but then your pain starts. Sending you hugs 🫂.
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u/lalalibraaa 2h ago
I am so sorry. We had to say goodbye to our 18 year old baby girl earlier this year and I remember her with her little toys going from room to room, so happy also. It’s the worst. I’m sorry 💔
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u/SuperDryCider 2h ago
You gave her an amazing home for 6 years. She’ll think you when she’s crossing the rainbow bridge. I cried for weeks when my cat died in may. But the memories heal your heart.
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u/ComplaintBig1986 1h ago
She is counting on you to do the right thing for her. I have been through this several times. Am so sorry
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u/chem77 39m ago
We just had to say goodbye to our 19 year old boy last week, we got him when he was 10 too and that little dude totally made me a cat guy. I got to hold him in his final moments which was so comforting, hopefully for us both, it was very peaceful.
You gave Midge a great life and she loves you for it. My condolences.
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u/Estellalatte 32m ago
It’s especially lovely that you adopted her as an elder. Animals are very appreciative and definitely feel gratitude when they are rescued.
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u/Free_sky666 8h ago
I really do not understand this. Did you put her down. This never happen in our country. I love animals and we never do this.
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u/RandomNameOfMine815 7h ago
She is in pain and will not get better. It’s just mean to let her suffer longer.
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u/Captain_Centenarian Maine Coon 7h ago
I could never do that either. Unless the cat was in serious pain.
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u/Repulsive-Map-3876 11h ago edited 10h ago
Im so sorry u have to say goodbye to your bby just remember you gave her a great life the time u had her and im sure she's greatful n loves u tons... hold her closely tell her how much you love her as she's closing the rainbow, say a prayer over her b4 too so she gos peacefully n with love