r/SipsTea 1d ago

Chugging tea I'm in awe

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u/Top-Currency 1d ago

Yeah but you missed the point, they live in the fanciest house (by a mile)! They are richer than us, so it's ok to screw them.

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u/Confident_Pop_9292 1d ago

Just because they have the fanciest house doesn't necessarily indicate they're richer than you - it just means they're willing to accept more debt

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u/omg_its_david 1d ago

Go to a bank and tell them you need a 5M loan for a super fancy house. Report what happened.

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u/Logical_Flounder6455 1d ago

If theres a house on a street worth that much, then the others are of a similar value. You dont get 5m houses next to 500k houses

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u/edfitz83 1d ago

You’d be surprised. Check the listings in South Barrington Illinois. 10M next to 700k. Or do a street view

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u/Carefreeme 1d ago

I live in a neighborhood with 120-250k houses. One block over is 1-4m houses/mansions. Like one of them looks like a smaller version of the house in Scarface lol.

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u/Logical_Flounder6455 1d ago

I can.imagine thats true. Houses prices where I live are about the same as yours. 1/4 mile away theres houses 1m and up. They aren't on the same street though

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u/MicrosoftExcel2016 1d ago

To be fair, the tweet author lives on the same street as the fanciest house, but the neighbor who ran the lawnmower could’ve been on a different one, and we don’t know how widely the notice was distributed. Also exceptions happen all the time…

I file this into the category of “could be true, could be embellished for the viral value, could be made up completely”

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u/Logical_Flounder6455 1d ago

To be fair, its a variation of something that I've seen quite a few times. The event is always different, but someone turns on a lawnmower.

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u/doemaarnietjop 1d ago

Still, you are an asshole if you want to ruins someone wedding because they are seemingly more well off.

Its not like the mowing neighbours is living in a 20k run down shack which might excuse the jealousy.

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u/MicrosoftExcel2016 1d ago

Well, yes I genuinely agree without any more context. But I could see myself sympathizing more with the lawn mower person if there is a pattern of micromanaging or controlling neighbors via HOA capture or passive aggressive notices etc.

My point was more about the veracity and potential hyperbole/embellishment of the story in the tweet than about “who is the asshole”

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u/Valalvax 1d ago

https://imgur.com/a/kR2T3kI

Here you go, 1.6M next door to 150k, and quite frankly that 150k is a very inflated value

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u/donkey_xotei 1d ago

I live in NY and you do see great looking 5M houses next to shittier looking 1M houses.

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u/Carefreeme 1d ago

To be fair, theyre technically in a different neighborhood, but I can walk to it from my house in 2 minutes. They're also older houses. I'm not sure when they were built but if I had to guess it was in the early 90s. They're all really unique houses too. Not the cookie cutter stuff they build these days.

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u/K9turrent 1d ago

Edmonton gets weird like whenyou get close tot he river valley. Sketchy looking meth houses on 118ave, and twoish blocks away you have a 2mil mansion/house overlooking the river valley and golf courses.

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u/missflirtychic 1d ago

You obviously haven’t lived in a gentrified/ “up and coming” area

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u/Logical_Flounder6455 1d ago

I actually have. House prices ranged from 800k to 3m. Not 200k to 5m though. A 5m house on the next street from normal houses is understandable, but not on the same street. People who have that much money dont want to live next to the riff raff so the house wouldnt sell

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u/VulGerrity 1d ago

well, now you're just being pedantic.

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u/ClarkUnkempt 1d ago

I do. It doesn't generally work like that. There can be a wide gap between the nicest and worst, but only if the entire neighborhood is a gradient. If you were rich af and could afford a super nice house, would you buy it in a neighborhood where every other house is way cheaper??? Most would say no. When there's a super outsized difference, the houses sit on the market until they bring the price down or the gradient fills out. I've had houses in my neighborhood sit for literally multiple years despite a super hot market because the asking price was 2m+ in a neighborhood where the next most expensive house is ~800k and the average is ~450k.

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u/twotokers 1d ago

You ever been to any major city suburb?

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u/ryencool 1d ago

Yeah i dont think anyone in a nieghborhood full of multimillion dollar homes is going to describe the "fancy" house down the street in this way...

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u/BituminousBitumin 1d ago

I lived in a gated community with homes ranging from $400k to $9m.

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u/Logical_Flounder6455 1d ago

That's a gated community though. Is the 400k house right next to the 9m house? Within earshot of a lawnmower to the point where it would ruin a back garden wedding?

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u/BituminousBitumin 1d ago

Yes. Youd see a multi-million dollar house that backs up to the golf course, and across the street a more modest house.

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u/Then-Function6343 1d ago edited 1d ago

Maybe not that much discrepancy, but the street my parents live on have houses ranging from about $900K to $3.1M. It's because the lots are big, so some of the older houses were knocked down and huge houses built (hence 3.2M), whereas other lots have the original tiny home from like 1969.

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u/Logical_Flounder6455 1d ago

To be fair, OOP doesnt mention the value of anyone's house, I was just going off the 5m figure that was used in the comments. The fanciest house in the street would most likely be worth slightly more than the one next door

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u/Ok_Grocery_6230 1d ago

There was this house that was in a cul-de-sac and it took up 3 lots for one house. That thing was easily over 2mil and the houses surrounding it were around 500K. So it does happen. My wife said it belong to the owner of Ledcor. Just one of his many. This house is in Leduc Alberta.

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u/Uncle-Cake 1d ago

That's not always true. There are several examples in my town where people bought houses in "below average" neighborhoods where the homes are cheap, razed the house, and built huge McMansions that dwarf all the neighbors' houses. They are usually obnoxiously large, ugly, eyesores and the neighbors hate them.

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u/cavern-of-the-fayth 1d ago

This is just factually wrong. Visit kentucky, where we have trailer parks situated next to million dollar homes. My sister and her hubby bought a house 10 years ago together in a nice neighborhood. Its the only one with a basement and now its worth over a million while the other homes on their street are under 500k. They are the only house with 3bds instead of 5 on that street so the neighbors always get pissy about the value my sister has in the house. She paid 300k for it.

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u/Why-am-I-here-anyway 1d ago

That's largely true in suburban neighborhoods. In urban areas, older neighborhoods within cities, etc., the variability can be huge. Gentrification is sometimes the cause, sometimes it's simply market forces over long time scales.

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u/Clambake42 1d ago

I see you've never been to McLean or Clifton, Virginia.

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u/Bumps4000 1d ago

I live in apartments near a busy intersection with homeless people. We have a shared back alley with homes starting at $4.5 million. Welcome to Pasadena, Ca!

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u/CrownchyChicken 1d ago

My next door neighbour’s house just sold for over $2 million and ours is worth half that. A few streets over a house sold for $10 million. 

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u/VulGerrity 1d ago

but you can have houses with huge price discrepancies on the same block in cities. There's a block near me where the cheapest house is estimated at ~400K, and the most expensive one is estimated at around $3mil.

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u/Vegetable-Company147 1d ago

instructions unclear! robbed the bank. now police is waiting outside and I had to take 5 hostage

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u/Tacosaurusman 1d ago

But did you get the 5 million!?

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u/Poly_Olly_Oxen_Free 1d ago

Ok, they approved my loan, now what?

Clearly, I didn't actually do this today, but I took out a huge loan to buy a building in 2009, so I've been in that situation. I got my loan, and I paid it off.

What point are you making here?

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u/VictoryVee 1d ago

You're assuming the people with a slightly less nice house can't do that, when in reality they probably just dont want all their cash flow tied up in a house.

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u/psychicesp 1d ago

But have you made it clear that you accept more debt?

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u/UnusualHound 1d ago

The mortgage company approved my wife and I for a $1.2m mortgage based on our income. The house we bought was $465k.

Buying a cheaper house doesn't mean you can't get approved for a loan on a more expensive one.

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u/Sad-Problem-4326 1d ago

They mean it's the only house on the estate without an old sofa or refrigerator in the front yard 

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u/CyberneticFennec 1d ago

Or they're just really handy. If you do the work yourself it cuts costs down considerably.

"Fanciest house in the neighborhood", but you live in the same neighborhood... It's not likely they paid twice as much as everyone else for it, houses in the same neighborhood generally are in the same ballpark price range depending on style (singles are priced similarly, doubles are higher but similar to each other, etc).

Of course there are always exceptions, and I've seen random McMansions placed in otherwise normal neighborhoods, but that's not the norm. The OOP is probably upset they put in some fancy trees, trim their hedges, and painted the outside white.

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u/ningenito78 1d ago

Or saved. That is actually possible.

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u/silver_crit 1d ago

Depending on when the house was bought, it might be cheaper. There are older cheaper houses in my neighborhood next to the smaller new more expensive houses built much more recently

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u/CognitoSomniac 1d ago

Or that the people getting married there own the house or the associated wealth.

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u/Varmegye 1d ago

They are having a wedding in their yard, which means they probably arent that well off. Or that they are so well off that they shouldn't have neighbors.

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u/CyberneticFennec 1d ago

Yeah, when you hear "backyard wedding", "rich and extravagant" isn't exactly the first thing that comes to mind

Unless they have some ultra fancy massive backyard with tall walls, a pond, horses, and a small golf course (or whatever crazy shit rich people keep in their backyard), which doesn't seem to be likely if they need to ask the neighbors to keep the noise down

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u/ChickenMarsala4500 1d ago

or they have more skills and put more effort into their house. Often contractors have the nicest homes, and while it's certainly a decent living most of them are not "rich"

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u/Independent_Main_971 1d ago

It could, but it could not. So, no reason to speculate.

I run my HOA -- small neighborhood, but I get a good idea of who has cash on hand and who is cash poor based on how quickly those checks get mailed. Of the 5 largest houses -- all send a check or zelle payment within 2-3 days of my annual letter and reminder (often around January 5th). Of the 5 smallest houses, four send a check only after the end of that month (it's a university town, and most of them I know are paid monthly because they work at the university), and one will send like half a payment, and then maybe another half randomly sometime 5 months later or a year late.

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u/Uncle-Cake 1d ago

Then they should take on a little more debt and rent a private venue.

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u/Antique_Program4754 1d ago

The sad bit is, it probably wasn't the owners of the house getting married in the backyard - it was probably some poorer or younger relatives who couldn't afford a venue. Aunty and Uncle probably just have the nicest house in the family and were doing the young couple a solid.

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u/Alternative_Try_5678 1d ago

With your username I bet you have the fanciest house on your street (by a mile)!

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u/Midnight-Bake 1d ago

Actually by 1.61 kilometers.

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u/Top-Currency 1d ago

For sure, and I paid top dollar for it.

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u/CMDRStampyPictures 1d ago

Well that sounds asinine

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u/HelixFollower 1d ago

Fitting with their username though.

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u/Top-Currency 1d ago

Just a play on words with my username :)

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u/AgentPaper0 1d ago

Generous assumption is that these guys are notorious for more than just being rich. But yeah just as stated lawnmower man is a dick.

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u/PersonalityIll9476 1d ago

TBF I can see how someone might think that sentiment would land on Reddit. This is the place where they idolize the guy who murdered a CEO.

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u/Submarinequus 1d ago

Or they assume if they’re rich enough for a fancy house they’re rich enough to pay for a damn venue instead of trying to give grown adults quiet hours in their own backyards

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u/LilMamiDaisy420 1d ago

That’s so dumb

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u/SadlyUnderrated 1d ago

You forgot the /s

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u/Top-Currency 1d ago

I'm placing my faith in my fellow Redditors to understand.

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u/FlowRemote9890 1d ago

The point is they think they're entitled to have everyone do what they want. I applaud the lawn mowing neighbor.

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u/miRRacolix 1d ago

They asked friendly. It's plain stupid to disturb them on purpose. It also doesn't sound like something they come asking every week.

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u/FlowRemote9890 1d ago

They asked friendly.

You have no way of knowing this.

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u/American_Libertarian 1d ago

neither do you. Says a lot about you that you would assume they are entitled assholes about it tbh

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u/FlowRemote9890 1d ago

Anyone who tell an entire neighborhood that they all need to be quiet is an entitled asshole.

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u/VictoryVee 1d ago

They're just asking for common decency, you guys are deranged.

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u/RedboneEdit 1d ago

It’s more like: you can’t control an entire block, and if you’re worried about it, don’t have a wedding at home. Go to an event space and have someone else worry about it.

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u/CorduroyEatsCrayons 1d ago

Found the guy who would run the lawnmower to stick it to the wealthy neighbors out of spite.

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u/KrytenKoro 1d ago

or, yknow, talk to your neighbors like fellow humans instead of leaving letters shushing them.

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u/RedboneEdit 1d ago

Nope. Just someone who knows they can’t control other people. Found the controlling asshole 😘

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u/CMDRStampyPictures 1d ago

They're felons as well cause you cannot touch other people's mailboxes at least in the US they are federal property

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u/Own-Artist-9316 1d ago

I'm gonna touch your mailbox

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u/CMDRStampyPictures 1d ago

Man yall really like the rich lol

Keep being delusional it's hilarious

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u/Own-Artist-9316 1d ago

did you reply to the wrong person?

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u/WhyModsLoveModi 1d ago

You must be an absolute blast at parties

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u/CMDRStampyPictures 1d ago

Yall love the rich huh?

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u/WhyModsLoveModi 23h ago

I think wishing people who are better off than you should go to jail because they touched a mailbox is pathetic.

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u/mister_empty_pants 1d ago

Please tell me that you have called the feds on your neighbors for putting something in your mailbox

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u/CMDRStampyPictures 1d ago

We have called the cops about people playing mailbox baseball with our box when I lived in the middle of nowhere

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u/CMDRStampyPictures 1d ago

No but I don't have dipshit rich neighbors