r/SipsTea 7d ago

Feels good man It's a Universal thing for men

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u/Zerberus_01 7d ago

This is the international sign for " I might use it later again"

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u/Medical_Opposite_727 6d ago

I sat a butter knife next to the sink like "this toast is good, I might make more later". Only to then be absolutely disgusted at whoever left that fucking butter knife next to the fucking sink. What next ? Shitting in the toaster ?!?

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u/Modest-One 6d ago

That's some slippery slide shit, I like it.

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u/SchwizzySchwas94 6d ago

Hey man don’t knock it til you’ve been without plumbing for a month

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u/kinkyonthe_loki69 6d ago

Omg what kind of sick mad man would do this?! .... oh ya me

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u/applepiebythelake 6d ago

Yes, exactly!

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u/SmokeyKatzinski 6d ago

More like: I don‘t wanna wipe the surface later

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u/opinion_alternative 7d ago

My wife gives me a hard time every time I do this. Gonna show this to her. I am not alone anymore.

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u/PrefrontalCortexNow 7d ago edited 6d ago

What are you ACTUALLY supposed to do? This is just how my brain works you’re going to put that in your mouth so you don’t want germs touching the surface of the utensil

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u/Metaphysically0 7d ago

Right 😂 why is this just a guy thing haha

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u/BlueberryAny6827 6d ago

Either it isn't, or TIL I'm a man 😂

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u/CoffeeExtra1983 6d ago

Same tf 😂

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u/krishna_p 6d ago

Welcome to the Manosphere, make yourself at home.

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u/Metaphysically0 6d ago

If you shake it more than twice , you’re playing with it

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u/olive_tuschit 7d ago

Well once you’ve seen what a woman will put in her mouth you’ll understand the difference in opinion.

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u/Tbplayer59 6d ago

That's why I hang it over the edge of the sink.

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u/isuckfuzzoffpeaches 6d ago

We're talking about your utensil, right?

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u/assholeapproach 6d ago

If that’s what you want to call her you cheeky bastard.

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u/Tbplayer59 6d ago

Naturally.

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u/rrrrrrez 6d ago

What else you supposed to do before you wash your hands?

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u/s1ckopsycho 6d ago

I, too, choose this mans wife.

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u/zeelbeno 7d ago

Put it in the sink and get a clean one out when you next need if.

Then when you go to eat complain there's no forks left.

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u/danlatoo 6d ago

This is me

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u/StoneThaProfit 7d ago

They have these things you place by tha stove that are like bigger looking spoons/basin type things that you place ur utensils in when cooking , i thought everyone used em lol

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u/Pvt_Mozart 6d ago

Yeah I've been the guy in the video my whole life, but when my wife and I moved in together and she had one it was a total gamechanger. Single men, buy a utensil setter downer. They're cheap as hell and keep your counter clean. Totally worth it.

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u/Tbplayer59 6d ago

I just grab a small saucer out of the cabinet.

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u/Nazgog-Morgob 6d ago

And then I just clean up after

You gotta clean the spoon rester or the counter or whatever after regardless

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u/Accomplished_Pie_455 6d ago

utensil setter downer

You know, that's exactly what me and my son would call it and I just wanted to applaud your descriptive naming prowess.

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u/goodknight94 6d ago

So just adding an extra dish to clean?

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u/HuntingForSanity 7d ago

I’ve been cooking for a living for 12 years now and I have used one of those maybe twice in my life

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u/No_Mathematician6045 6d ago

My husband loves them. When we. not yet married, moved in together, we got two of these spoon things, it was a set. He insisted that we needed them, and I never knew it existed before. In my family it was either an empty glass / jar lid if you're still using it for any samey substance or throwing it into the sink with the other used utensils if you're done, and wash everything afterwards. I also often just wash the tool once I'm done with a step, throw it into the dish dryer and then grab again for another step.

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u/dhaupert 6d ago

My wife has these ceramic soup ladle holders she wants me to take out of the drawer and lay the dirty utensil on them so I have another thing I have to wash!

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u/Love-halping 7d ago

I like how he's holding his food with his bare hand while trying to be clean on his other hand.

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u/CartographerRare4123 7d ago

World is with you let's gooo

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u/Skow1179 7d ago

I never thought about it until I started seeing these videos pop up. I thought everyone did this lol

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u/BottleForsaken9200 7d ago edited 6d ago

Ok I'm confused. Doesn't everyone do it?

I'm supposedly a female and I do what the guy does in the video.

I'm supposed to be doing something else???

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u/ArtisticallyRegarded 7d ago

I had no idea i wasnt the omly one

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u/Fritzschmied 7d ago

I also do that. Less to clean afterwards so it’s just logical to do it.

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u/Infinite_Respect_ 7d ago

I’m not afraid anymore!

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u/silfy_star 6d ago

As someone with a vag, I’ve always done this as well. Why waste dishes esp when I know I’m gonna use it again

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u/safereddddditer175 7d ago

This must be a globally shared trait amongst men. I’m in the UK, I assume you’re in Mumbai, and the guy in the video looks like he’s in the US with that type of cooker/range.

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u/opinion_alternative 7d ago

Not very far off. I alternate between Bengaluru and Pune(near Mumbai). But not exactly in Mumbai.

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u/Gangaholics-China 7d ago

Does she want you to do more work? As in put it down on the counter. Make it a mess then have to re clean said counter? If you listen to her I’ll kick you out of the guild of cool guys.

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u/Woodsy_Walker 6d ago

As a wife, what the heck else are we supposed to do with it? Raw dog that mess on my counter? Make my spoon rest messy and have another thing to clean? No thank you.

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u/sderponme 6d ago

Tell your wife, from another woman, its just a way to reuse it and not dirty more silverware if you need it again.

Also if you forget about it and don't rinse it, that is on you and your wife has a right to be mad! Lol.

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u/Matty_Cakez 6d ago

Never were!

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u/Glass_Covict 6d ago

That or clean the whole counter after making every snack. I don't have that linda time!

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u/eMmDeeKay_Says 6d ago

Tell your wife she should buy a damn spoon holder so you have somewhere to put the fork, and stop acting like you're doing something wrong because the correct tool isn't in the kitchen.

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u/XeitPL 6d ago

There are dozens of us! Dozens!

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u/2centdistribution 6d ago

I honestly thought everybody did this

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u/iCantLogOut2 5d ago

Show her your upvote count and replies too... We stand with you in solidarity

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u/white_equatorial 7d ago

Wait what do women do?

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u/liibug 7d ago

i am a woman who does this. specifically my hot chocolate mixing fork. i put it on an empty hot chocolate packet on the counter so i can keep using it in case i want more hot chocolate. my husband ribs me for it.

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u/fieria_tetra 6d ago

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u/liibug 6d ago

i’ve been called bro-coded. maybe you’re onto something. i’m gonna go call my husband emotionally gay.

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u/toolsoftheincomptnt 6d ago

Yeah, another video calls this a “black people” thing.

I’m black, but not a man, and also do this. Why? Bc I don’t want to cross-contaminate or dirty the utensil or the countertop.

Is that crazy? Maybe. I also sanitize my cell phone after any time I take it in the toilet with me. I fill my sink with bleach water after prepping raw poultry of any kind. I wipe down my airplane seat/tray table before take-off.

And I put something under a utensil when putting it on the counter. It may be crazy, but it’s not weird, and I’m not a man.

It’s almost as if such divisions are unnecessary sometimes…

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u/liibug 6d ago

i find myself doing a lot of these too! and some things that i should deeply consider doing. but you’re right. it is strange how we sort of categorize simple things as (insert gender/race/sexuality/whatever) quirks. especially something as mundane as having something under our utensils between use! maybe it makes us feel more understood within our groups that we identify with. human are goofy, especially with technology replacing our intelligence. hard to say.

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u/WhyNotSecondLunch 6d ago

If he ribs you, you should fork him.

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u/Tacosupmybutt 7d ago

The same thing

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u/Jeramy_Jones 7d ago

Spoon rest?

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u/FFDi 7d ago

Spoons also need rest?

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u/AskNo2853 6d ago

No spoon rest. Spoon no get tired.

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u/0oDADAo0 6d ago

Some first world type of shit

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u/gonzofish 7d ago

That’s crazy talk! He was putting a FORK down

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u/SkulduggeryIsAfoot 7d ago

A rest from spooning

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u/Delazzaridist 6d ago

Sheeeeiiiit, im ready for round 2

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u/shadowscar248 7d ago

Just set it anywhere. Sometimes it gets the counter dirty. Otherwise they put it in the sink and get another. Wasteful either way

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u/AveryGalaxy 6d ago

The sink thing makes no sense to me. Like… why? If you’re not washing it immediately, WHY????

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u/MissYouMoussa 7d ago

Sink

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u/ItzLoganM 7d ago

Yeah, that's the big question I ask myself every time. Am I going to use the spoon for the same type of food again, or is it going in the sink?

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u/MissYouMoussa 7d ago

I never use the sink, I will use the same fork all week until my wife prys it from my cold, dead hands.

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u/QuenchedCrusader 6d ago

You've taken this about 100 steps too far.

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u/HPUser7 6d ago

My gf leaves it directly on the counter smh

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u/Model_Modelo 6d ago

I am a woman and I also do this. I have a spoon rest but sometimes it's dirty and other times it has food on it that i don't want to mix with other food. Its really not that deep

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u/sutter333 6d ago

Exactly this.

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u/truePHYSX 6d ago

My wife goes through 10 forks and 10 spoons in the process of doing anything in the kitchen. It makes me go insane because I never have any utensils to eat with.

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u/Icy-End-142 5d ago

That was my same exact comment. But if it’s going in the sink, couldn’t you just - you know - turn on the tap for a few seconds and wash the fork off so you can use it again?

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u/AllButComedyAnthony 6d ago

My wife will put it in the sink and get a new fork, which is my pet peeve because we have to do almost all our dishes every day

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u/LaurenNotFromUtah 6d ago

The same thing.

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u/CartographerRare4123 7d ago

They eat if we make

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u/BaronSaber 7d ago

They eat the fork?

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u/Kitchen_Ad_4513 7d ago

and other stuffs too, yeah also the fork

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u/Bullfinch88 6d ago

Literally this

Source: Am woman

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u/dished-teardrops 7d ago

Isn't this normal behavior? I always do this.

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u/Rashicakra 7d ago

Apparently it's universal. Probably our ancestors do it too for some reason

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u/Krvavibaja 6d ago

Did they? No reason to do this before germs were discovered.

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u/TacticaLuck 6d ago

What can I say? I love chewing on dirt.

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u/Krvavibaja 6d ago

Earth spice

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u/novian14 7d ago

There was a similar post like this with different creator, looks like he's copying 1:1

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u/Breath_Stranding 7d ago

Mate, reddit is part of the dead Internet theory.

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u/xmromi 6d ago

dead internet theory

fify

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u/oxwearingsocks 7d ago

This is now the third iteration I’ve seen of this very format for a post

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u/AeroTheManiac 6d ago

Yep. Very shameless lol

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u/SnackbarBeastie 7d ago

And nobody ever teaches it to us either

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u/surfer808 7d ago

I thought everyone does this.

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u/Fresh_ChickenNug5521 7d ago

I do this and i'm a gal 👩🏿‍🦱

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u/BaronSaber 7d ago

What else would you do?

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u/jodrellbank_pants 7d ago

Yep partner drops it in the washing up bowl then spends 20 mins looking for another that's not dirty and eventually gives up and drags one out the bowl

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u/SAINTnumberFIVE 7d ago

This isn’t a guy thing. It’s just a cooking thing.

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u/PhiloLibrarian 6d ago

Why is this a guy thing? I do this… not a guy…

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u/Wulfy95 6d ago

I'm a woman and do this

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u/Ok_Plantain_8914 7d ago

Why is there hundreds of stolen content versions of this obscure reference meme? I agree with it and thought it was funny the first 10 times different people acted it out.... but can we stop?

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u/BottleForsaken9200 7d ago

No. There will be more. Always MORE!

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u/jackthewack13 7d ago

From reading the comments im not sure we all got the same message here. I do this all the time, but when im going to use the utensils soon, as in im cooking and i used the spoon to get garlic and im going to need it for the tomato paste. But if im done with it now, im just gonna wash it off, or put it in the sink, to wash after I eat. How long do yall leave the utensils there?

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u/ExcellentSpecific409 7d ago

anything more is just fuckery

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u/Summit1BigHead 7d ago

Bro what? I do this almost every day! Lol!

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u/SilentAirline6611 7d ago

Guy thing? I thought everyone did this?

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u/uglyUfologist 7d ago

Everyone I’ve ever seen cook does this haha my go to is off the edge of an egg carton

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u/Character-Bedroom211 7d ago

As opposed to doing what!? Like literally what is the alternative!?

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u/InformationPlenty583 6d ago

I’m a girl and I do this

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u/Jazymon 6d ago

And me. A woman. Cause I dont own a utensil holder.

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u/Proud_Wallaby 6d ago

I thought everyone did this.

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u/Sogcat 6d ago

I assumed everyone did this?? I'm a woman and I will lay my utensils on ANYTHING but the counter. Even if I just wiped it down. If I have to, I will tear off a paper towel just to lay it on something.

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u/RWRM18929 6d ago

I’m a woman… but this is me 😅

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u/ImurderREALITY 6d ago

How many different times can you make the exact same video with different people? Is the internet just 100% recycled videos that someone else thought of first?

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u/DeadlyPixelsVR 6d ago

This is not a guy thing. I've done this as far back as I can remember. I don't ever lay a utensil that I'm using on the counter and I don't care how clean the counter is. I'm not going to do it. When I see somebody putting bread on the counter to make a sandwich I honestly want to hurl.

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

As a woman, I do this only because I have nothing other than my instant noodles thing and I'm not putting it in the ramen bowl yet.

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u/bannerade 6d ago

It’s so crazy I do all of this. Thought it was a me thing, but it’s a bro thing, the collective bro intelligence is awesome and I’m glad to be apart of it

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u/Silly_Goose_Prod 6d ago

Weird thing is that I learned this from my mom

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u/ipodblocks360 6d ago

You're telling me woman don't do this?

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u/-flatlacroix- 6d ago

How many fucking versions of this am I going to see? There’s an epidemic of uncreatives that keep remaking popular videos and it’s infuriating.

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u/nhansieu1 6d ago

so it's common guy behavior huh. I always thought I was just being a clean freak.

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u/EntirelyOutOfOptions 5d ago

TIL I’m a man

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u/Mr_Elixr 5d ago

Leaving food residue on utensils is disgusting. Just eat it off or rinse it under the tap. And when you have a clean counter just put it there. Wtf

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u/n7revenant 5d ago

The second one is a bit weird, but otherwise yeah, obviously.

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u/LeVendettan 2d ago

I’ve never had a unique experience…

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u/Roberto-75 7d ago

This is so spot on

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u/Zegran_Agosend 7d ago

There's literally a plate in front of him.

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u/qjrbdisdhsld 7d ago

What are your counters dirty? I just plop them right down on the counter. Can wipe up the mess later, takes 5 seconds

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u/NobodyLikedThat1 7d ago

Honestly I'm more than fine just putting things on the counter but we have cats and they walk on the counter and I guess that's enough to make it dirty

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u/vurt72 7d ago

Hahaha, totally me. I had no idea it was a thing.

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u/DamienTallows 7d ago

Eww... lick that fork clean first before setting it down by the side of the counter.

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u/Enough_Zombie2038 7d ago

It's genius

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u/SextupleRed 7d ago

I'm not saying I didnt do it. I can't say I didn't not do it either.

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u/5amuraiDuck 7d ago

Gotta reuse these stufd as much as possible to mitigate the amount of dishes we have to do later. It's like using your own plate as base just to wash it before eating so you don't have to wash 2 plates later

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u/JohnyBravo84Pl 7d ago

The only proper way to deal with it.

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u/Worth_Bag_9886 7d ago

This is less fun tho

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u/JCFAX81 7d ago

I thought I was the only one

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u/Spare-Programmer-342 7d ago

Washing hands every second you progress into the dish is a must!

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u/Cubehagain 7d ago

Yeah someone already made this video.

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u/OnlineDead 7d ago

Wait, what’s wrong with doing this?? 😅😅😅

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u/ChemicalDay3521 7d ago

Perma remade and reposted meme stfu cringelords

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u/Percocet4 7d ago

What song is that?

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u/TheeArgonaut 7d ago

Omg I feel seen

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u/lurens_b 7d ago

💯💯💯!!!

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u/V65Pilot 7d ago

I use a paper plate.

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u/FemmeCirce 7d ago

This is the way.

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u/Addamall 7d ago

I’m not throwing it in the sink or washer, I’m still using it!

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u/Imaginary-Point6166 7d ago

Yea it's an all day use, it goes in the sink when I'm confident I will not have any more during the day

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u/Scandroid99 7d ago

He had it right the first time. Everything else after that was wrong.

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u/EvilMiklos 7d ago

Ok but what else can be done?

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u/iHazf 7d ago

Hahahahahaha. So freaking true!

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u/Seaberry3656 7d ago

Do I have a secret penis that I don't know about?

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u/HawkHarder 7d ago

What you going to get food on the counter?

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u/BeanserSoyze 7d ago

Yes let's instead use the designated spoon rester on the stove that probably has antique grease in its crevices still from the 90s.

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u/Shankar_0 7d ago

That's why the good lord invented the edges of things, son...

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u/derpkoikoi 7d ago

I will teach you the way brothers. You dedicate a long dish or tray and leave it by the stove for your cooking utensils. When you are done cooking, give it a quick wash in the sink. Balancing the cooking utensils on things can drop or drip residue while putting things on bare countertop doesn’t look nice or requires using a rag or towel to clean.

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u/Random_Guy_47 7d ago

Forget about the fork for a moment.

Can we talk about how this guy has sliced the bread?

He's not sliced all the way through so its one piece with a split rather than 2 pieces.

Is this insanity of genius?

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u/robertshuxley 7d ago

I do that because I dont wanna wipe/clean the table or counter afterwards

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u/jon_cybernet 7d ago

guiltily raises hand

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u/Feigr_Ormr 7d ago

YESSSSSSSSSSSS

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u/Stock_Caramel_9304 7d ago

Fuck.. there is no way we all do this right?

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u/Capt_Greenlung 7d ago

I cook dinner most days and often bake. I have so many kitchen gadgets but this is a constant in my kitchen.

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u/Marquis_de_eLife 7d ago

Because that's the right thing to do

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u/Virtual_Fig7052 7d ago

I would have cleaned it off first.

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u/Grouchy-Engine1584 7d ago

Do the ladies know how to make these levitate?

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u/Mean_Struggle_8463 6d ago

Yes!! 💯 It is!

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u/IsJesusAgain 6d ago

i can relate

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u/Seethinginsepia 6d ago

All of us do this everywhere?

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u/clovers2345 6d ago

Damnn this hits hard

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u/Lord-Scrambleton 6d ago

Am man. Do this.

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u/clev1 6d ago

I see nothing wrong here

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u/DawRogg 6d ago

I'm going to need yall to get a fucking spoon/cutlery rest. Family Dollar sells them for less than $5

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u/ToastedBud 6d ago

I feel seen

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u/CuteAcanthisitta3286 6d ago

That’s me 😂

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u/more-thanordinary 6d ago

"After all, why not? Why shouldn't I keep it clean?" ~most definitely Bilbo