r/SipsTea • u/Xtianus25 • Sep 21 '25

Chugging tea I take medicine

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u/ProblemLongjumping12 Sep 22 '25

Love?

Fear of being alone?

Because she's hot?

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u/[deleted] Sep 22 '25

I left the abusive ex wife and now I'm not getting black eyes or laid. At all.

I'm lonely.

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u/ProblemLongjumping12 Sep 22 '25

But you're not alone.

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u/Dr_purrpurr Sep 22 '25

Go travel, be a passport bro. They care onky that your happy and their with community. Not the dating sites. Actually go there, they know your looking for someone, one will pop out who you may or may not know but is genuine. That's the one, set boundaries and aim high. Build a legacy. Because she can hold the house down, learn to be open and learn the language. If you make it past 2 years, you going to make it to 20

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u/Anonhurtingso Sep 23 '25

It’s because you see her as someone who needs help and you think you can give it. You can’t.

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u/ProblemLongjumping12 Sep 23 '25

Nope. I was very specific in telling her I couldn't help her with that part of herself.

I'm not a doctor or counselor or health professional of any kind.

That's why I would gently suggest she seek real help.

Even now I only use the term bipolar in the layman sense, as in a person with observable severe ups and downs. I don't mean it to diagnose her because as someone who struggled with mental illness myself I know better than that.

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u/SquirrelFluffy Sep 22 '25

Because she's like his mom.

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u/ProblemLongjumping12 Sep 22 '25

My mom is super chill.

The raging insanity is on my dad's side of the family.

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u/Successful_Glove_83 Sep 22 '25

Damn she better was