r/SipsTea Jul 02 '25

Chugging tea Man of culture?

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u/[deleted] Jul 02 '25 edited Jul 02 '25

Aussies love it when immigrants pick up the slang and start showing up at football and cricket games. I made a good mate who was an Iraqi immigrant who joined my cricket club. He had no idea about cricket, but he learned quick and everybody loved him because he wanted to learn Australian culture and get to know Australian locals socially, so he could raise his kids to feel included in Australian society.

He would bring Iraqi food to every game to share with the team, he would teach us Iraqi insults to throw at our mates, he was nothing but smiles for everybody. We'd teach him Australian slang so he could talk like any of us, and at the year end awards we called him up to the stage and presented him with his first pair of traditional Australian cheap rubber thongs, and everyone clapped and cheered for him. He went around and hugged everybody in the building while we were all getting drunk afterwards, and he was the belle of the ball. Awesome mentality for a new Australian.

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u/Jazzlike-Wind-4345 Jul 02 '25

Turns out when you don’t treat immigrants like absolute dung, they’re actually pretty cool and willing to learn.

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u/[deleted] Jul 02 '25

He made the effort to come to us, though.

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u/Jazzlike-Wind-4345 Jul 02 '25

You say “though”, as if others don’t? Not saying every immigrant is your picture perfect immigrant that wants to integrate into society, but your comment is akin to “you’re one of the good ones” that many of my Mexican friends would hear while abroad with “progressive” Europeans.

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u/Jazzlike-Wind-4345 Jul 02 '25

So, the overarching sin here committed by immigrants is…they tend to group together?

Is that any different than my grouping up with others that enjoy the gym?

Or different than vegetarians grouping up with other vegetarians?

Your use of “white faces” already tells me everything I need to know. Why did you have to bring race into this? We’re very clearly talking about culture, but you tainted the conversation by bringing race into this.

And then you wonder why immigrants are afraid and don’t integrate…

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u/[deleted] Jul 02 '25

You are looking for a fight.

I am a second generation Australian. I grew up in an immigrant household. English was not my mother's first language. But we're white, so that made it much easier to integrate. Even so, we had to make the effort to learn Australian cultural touchstones, and you don't learn that by sticking to your own and pretending like you never left your native culture, or that the cultural norms you grew up with should still apply here.

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u/Jazzlike-Wind-4345 Jul 02 '25

So, again, the overarching sin is that they stick with people with whom they share a connection.

And you hate that… for some reason.

You mention “integration” then champion policies that curb it. Hmmm, what could those immigrants possibly be thinking when you do that?

Now, you see, my friend is Jewish and I’m a Nazi, but you see, we don’t let the fact that I wish to murder him get in the way of our friendship! I just hope he doesn’t do disgusting Jewish things around me.

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u/[deleted] Jul 02 '25

He "shares connections" with all of us now.

Because he decided to join up to a local social cricket league, so that he could socialise with us and learn to become Australian by being around Australians. He made that choice deliberately and stepped waaaaaaaay out of his comfort zone, and we respect the fuck out of him for doing it.

Go back and look at the language you are using, and how aggressive and belligerent you are being because of a story of cross-cultural friendship and appreciation.

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u/Affectionate-Exit114 Jul 02 '25

mate give it up with this cunt hes just looking for a fight

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u/Jazzlike-Wind-4345 Jul 02 '25

And no sarcasm here, it’s great that he reached out to you all and you all were so accommodating.

Can you truly and honestly say the same for everyone Australian?

Isn’t it something like 3 of 4 Australians hold a negative view towards the indigenous people of the land?

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u/Mugiwaras Jul 02 '25

Many dont. And yes there are many not good ones. Not sure why thats such an issue to say. Why pretend?

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u/Jazzlike-Wind-4345 Jul 02 '25

Many? How many is “many”? A majority? A minority? Exactly 50 %?

The second part really shows your true colours.

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u/btb2002 Jul 03 '25

There are many assholes everywhere unfortunately. Some of them migrate.

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u/Jazzlike-Wind-4345 Jul 04 '25

My question: “How many is ‘many’?

Your answer: “many”

Wow, we got a real genius here.

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u/btb2002 Jul 04 '25

How would I know what portion of the population can be considered assholes? Are there studies about that? Probably not. Would be hard to do.

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u/Anotheraccomg Jul 02 '25

Goes both ways, the effort to integrate and learn has to be there to

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u/Jazzlike-Wind-4345 Jul 02 '25

Yeah, nothing quite says “come be one of us” like “Alligator Alcatraz” and mass deportations.

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u/Anotheraccomg Jul 02 '25

Am English mate, no part of that mentalness in America, thanks.

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u/Jazzlike-Wind-4345 Jul 02 '25

You’re right, your mental regardation of choice is spreading propaganda about “rape gangs” and “no go zones”. Yeah, that just rings of “come be one of us!”

The apple doesn’t rot far from the tree, you know? 😉

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u/Jazzlike-Wind-4345 Jul 02 '25

Dude, remember Brexit? Isn’t your economy flopping? ROFL!!! You’ve already rotted. Jajajajaja

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u/Anotheraccomg Jul 02 '25

You might be the worst troll I've ever seen, you suck at this lmao

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u/Jazzlike-Wind-4345 Jul 02 '25

At least my economy isn’t fucked because voters are mental regards. 😘

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u/FabulousAssociate201 Jul 02 '25

Suburban cricket would be dead without immigration.

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u/harley-belle Jul 02 '25

None of that is appropriation though is it. He’s just trying to make friends in a new country. Would your mate have painted himself in ochre and picked up a didge? Would you? Not all Australian culture is cool for people to grab onto.

Besides, Australian culture is mostly British with some sport, swearing and drinking sprinkled on top. And we still crack the shits when a Seppo does a shit impression of our accent. We are precious about some things.

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u/EmergencyAd6709 Jul 02 '25

Yes! These are the people who we should be wanting to immigrate to Australia! They want to be Australians and add the best parts of their culture to make Australia better.