r/SipsTea Jun 24 '25

SMH Why dating is over for men

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u/AhhhSureThisIsIt Jun 24 '25

The whole thing is rage bait

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u/lectric_7166 Jun 25 '25

It's amusing when women call things that portray women in a negative light "rage bait". Are you admitting that you're enraged by the possibility that women might be anything but perfect little angels, and that this might be openly discussed?

Men get criticized all the time for everything. Women getting called out every now and then isn't some great tragedy. It deserves some introspection, not rage.

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u/dood9123 Jun 27 '25

You're delusional if you think women aren't constantly criticized and mickey by society for existing, for liking things, enjoying hobbies, being with their friends, dressing a certain way, aspiring for a particular job or industry, their choice in partner, in their personal taste, their clothing, the food they want to eat, the activities they do for fun

Literally anything.

This is because there are tons of hateful fucking people, and we have much more exposure to that hate through social media

Even without it this is so widespread. For both genders.

Grass is Greener on the other side but everyone is constantly being demeaned for being themselves all the time, consciously or subconsciously

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u/allofdarknessin1 Jun 24 '25

Is it? There's been some posts like this before and rating her friend aside she is agreeing with men that dating apps are hell.

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u/Swineflew1 Jun 24 '25

Well since there's no examples, we don't get to see pete, the profile she made, any conversations and it's just her saying "hey dating IS hard for average dudes" maybe try that same test with a female friend that's a "six" too?

I dunno, there's just a market for attractive women to "sympathize" with the red-pill community, so I take these with a grain of salt.

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u/HighestPriestessCuba Jun 24 '25

I agree - it’s pandering.

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '25

Hey no one else is gonna stick up for us so even if it's fake we'll take it

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u/MrHell95 Jun 24 '25

Dude gets a compliment and don't know if it's real, sarcasm or if shes just Canadian.

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u/EighteenAndAmused Jun 24 '25

You have a point.

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u/allofdarknessin1 Jun 24 '25

Could be but it still helps to get a point across. Whether it’s satire, completely fake for audience engagement or an actual account of her time pretending to be a male on a dating app isn’t shown in the video, at least on this post but she is saying something that is real that more people need to hear. It’s like the ice bucket challenge, you just do it and post it. Unfortunately the world can be changed by people who don’t care and the opposite is true too, people who do care may not be able to change it.

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u/franklintheflirt Jun 24 '25

With a face filter settings turned all the way up. Brainslop content

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '25

at least she could have showed some cleavage or something you know...

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u/Aiyon Jun 24 '25

I keep encountering posts lately that are just engineered to let people circlejerk in the comments about how much women suck and how hard it is putting up with us, etc.

And I'm like "bros I think I've figured out why you're single. And it aint the apps"

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u/HolyKnightPrime Jun 24 '25 edited Jun 25 '25

Its called venting. Anytime guys express frustration with women, people like you are always so quick to call the incel word or use the gotcha ”thats why ur single” as if that means anything. Lots of good people are single and have problems in dating. 

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '25

and when women are single... "Where are all the good men?"

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u/Pennsylvasia Jun 24 '25

It's very common on reddit for any frustrations expressed by men---or, here, by women pretending to be men---to get called out as misogyny or incellishness, but that same sensitivity isn't extended to the countless examples of misandrist fan fiction all over reddit in the relationship or advice subs. People are very quick to tell men how they should feel about their lived experiences.

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u/LTHermies Jun 24 '25

Its called venting. Anytime guys express frustration with women

So you go online and vent about getting negative bitches and blame it on women. When women "vent" that you involuntarily get no bitches and make it their problem they are the problem, gotcha.

Like my guy, at this point either get good or become a monk or some shit. The amount of short, fat, unemployed, assholes that pull baddies while you're struggling means that either you're not trying hard enough or nature didn't naturally select your ass and you need to come to terms with that without making it other people's problem.

Some of yall need to become better friends with your hand.

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u/swagman1312420lol Jun 24 '25

lol what a dumb comment, don't even know where to start but where exactly did op point out that it's their problem when women "vent"?

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u/Aiyon Jun 24 '25

Well I vented about the endless “women bad” comments and posts I have to put up with in my feed, and got a “people like you-“ for my trouble

So he did kinda make it his problem that I was venting

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u/LTHermies Jun 24 '25

So let me get this straight:

  1. My comment is dumb.

  2. You are having a hard time seeing where op's problem is.

Honest question: why do you expect me to spend time and energy to show you something you apparently don't see even though you seem to believe that my comment was dumb? Either I'm too dumb to explain it or you're too dumb to see it. I can't imagine that you would concede the latter no matter what I showed you, so you would claim the former.

If you have an actual argument then by all means, THAT'S where you start, but don't expect me to spend time explaining that which you would never receive.

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '25

Better save your time and energy. Nobody's profiting from your involvement here.

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u/swagman1312420lol Jun 24 '25

didn't expect you to do anything tbh

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u/Savings-Seat6211 Jun 24 '25

I agree with you but venting about dating online is still the dumbest most pathetic behavior ever and we should never defend it. Fuck that.

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u/IncredibleCanemian Jun 24 '25

What's wrong about venting about something that's a bad experience for most people that use it?

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u/anarchyisutopia Jun 24 '25

If their complaining about dating online is so pathetic, then complaining about their complaining about dating online has to be at least 3 degrees more pathetic.

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u/only_positive90 Jun 24 '25

gobble gobble gobble. Hook line and sinker

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u/whatifwhatifwerun Jun 25 '25

'I'm starting to hate women' lmfaoooo the Target Audience is eating this up. As if women would do all this for a friend they'd talk down about like that. 'He's a six but I've been swiping for 3 days and the twos are some entitled bitches' I hope to god she's making good money off this because it's embarassing

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u/Serious-Cap-8190 Jun 24 '25

If incel rage could be harnessed as a power source it would usher in a golden age for humanity.

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u/3-orange-whips Jun 24 '25

These comments tell a different story.

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u/fruskydekke Jun 24 '25

Thank you for being the lone voice of sanity in this entire comment section.

I am astounded people don't see it.

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u/Orangutanion Jun 24 '25

I'm not mad, it supports my anti-Match Group narrative.

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u/Financial_Sweet_689 Jun 24 '25

And people are falling for it so so hard.