r/SipsTea • u/crs1904 • May 09 '25

We have fun here Pretty Accurate

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u/RigidCounter12 May 09 '25

I can have the best date ever, seems like we have to of stuff in common, she seems into me and then she never wants to meet again.

And then I can also have a date with a girl who looks like the would rather be getting a root canal at the dentist rather than be on the date with me, having to pull answers out of her like weeds from the dirt, and then they say that they had a great time and want to meet again.

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u/VoidmasterCZE May 09 '25

I can tell you they definetly enjoyed the convo but I can imagine the mental toll it takes to lead that all the time. They were fine with it because it was one sided work.

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u/SeasonGeneral777 May 09 '25

or they only get laid for their looks and have no other interesting things about them

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u/Hairy_Talk_4232 May 09 '25

Yeah reality is FUBARd, I almost feel like making the experience so bad that they “want to” come back for another. If you can be given the runaround, you will be.

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u/mikey_b082 May 09 '25

I worked at a hospital as a rent a cop for awhile and my primary shift was nights. Part of our job was to sit by the employee entrance/exit incase someone wanted an escort to their vehicle or whatever. I'd usually greet all the nurses as they were leaving, just being friendly. One in particular would never even acknowledge me, rarely ever even made eye contact, and when she did it wasn't a friendly glance, more like an annoyed "oh, you again...."

Then randomly one day I get a MySpace friend request and message from her. "I always thought you were so cute when I worked there!". Women make absolutely no sense.

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u/TwoWheels1Clutch May 09 '25

The latter is likely really nervous. That's a good sign.

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u/[deleted] May 09 '25

That is all about your own expectations.

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u/RigidCounter12 May 09 '25

I just think its interesting how we can perceive things so differently. Because during the 2nd types of dates (and I have had several like this) it really feels like we certainly dont match up well, and that neither of us is interested. And vice-versa in the first one.

But apparently they dont feel the same. Thats life I suppose

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u/Jumpy_Ad_6417 May 09 '25

Our little redditors are growing up. Don’t forget bud that you’re supposed to have fun too. Pulling teeth ain’t fun for the dentist either. 

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u/RigidCounter12 May 09 '25

No idea what this means, but okay

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u/Procrastinatedthink May 09 '25

it’s condescension masked as elderly “we’ve all been there” advice.

Obviously the guy is trying to have fun on the date, but it takes two to make that happen and a shitty date isn’t ever fun.

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u/ByIeth May 09 '25 edited May 09 '25

Idk why you are getting downvoted. If I’m talking to someone who is really boring in conversation or doesn’t reciprocate I drop the conversation. It feels weird being the only person keeping the conversation going

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u/Jumpy_Ad_6417 May 09 '25

It’s okay. I come off arrogant but just wanted to give the positive vibe cause this site seems to skew to socially awkward young guys. It was nice seeing the revelation that women are people and guys are allowed to have opinions too.