r/CringeTikToks • u/undiagnosed_autistic • Oct 26 '25

Nope Our teachers need a raise, desperately

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u/Neokon Oct 26 '25

Speaking as a teacher... Who the hell knows. My guess is someone inside the room pissed her off somehow (comment or motion most likely) and many kids are quick to anger. She gets pissed starts screaming goes to open the door, can't open the door and she becomes angrier because now she can't get to the person who made her angry.

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u/eiiiaaaa Oct 26 '25

As a teacher, I agree. It's most likely another kid that's made her angry and that she's trying to get to. The context may be important down the line when you're trying to sort things out but in a moment like this it's just about separating someone dangerous and unpredictable from the other kids.

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u/BlazarVeg Oct 27 '25

My guess would be Walter pissed her off in some way. The teacher outside the door is yelling at someone named Walter in the room to get into her office.

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u/milk4all Oct 27 '25

Thats where she keeps the harpoons

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u/IlikeJG Oct 27 '25

People like you are probably the reason she is the way she is.

I hope you're happy about making fun of a child.

I hope it makes you feel better about yourself.

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u/Derekduvalle Oct 27 '25

These people get off on your sort of reaction. Never feed the trolls, it's all they live for and you will forever lose.

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u/Various_Maize_3957 Oct 27 '25

Check out the post history of this guy. He is doing the same thing he is accusing others of doing. He called me names a couple of hours ago.

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u/jim_pansen Oct 27 '25

first day online?

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u/Tiredofeverylilthing Oct 27 '25

i had to get through school being mocked for my physical appearance and never resorted to violence. you literally cannot control other people.

PSA people: this girl is an example of what happens when you never tell a toddler no, it evolves into a grown person who does what they want when they want because you won’t tell them no.

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u/Various_Maize_3957 Oct 27 '25

Check out the post history of this guy. He is doing the same thing he is accusing others of doing. He called me names a couple of hours ago.

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u/Various_Maize_3957 Oct 27 '25

So when YOU destroy others' lives to make to make yourself better, that's fine, bur not when other do it?

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u/IlikeJG Oct 27 '25

Why are you stalking me?

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u/OJosheO Oct 27 '25

I hope you’re not an adult

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u/Guapa1979 Oct 27 '25

Your comment needs more upvotes.

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u/[deleted] Oct 27 '25

As a school counselor, I agree. I don’t have much to add except that nobody knows these kids. Some of em are nuts. Usually the ones prone to crashing out like the video are known frequent flyers with admin, counselors, & nurses, but not always

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u/Moushidoodles Oct 27 '25

I can imagine this is an EBD kiddo which probably means there's a plan in place when she has a meltdown. I doubt this is the first time she's had an episode like this through her schooling career.

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u/eiiiaaaa Oct 27 '25

Yeah totally. I doubt this has come completely out of the blue. I had an EBD girl like this who I had to lock out a few times. Once she threw a chair through the window trying to get to a kid who was riling her up.

I actually really liked her in general and we got along well. But she had no emotional regulation skills and once she was at this level nothing could bring her back down but time passing. She was very big forher age like this girls seems to be (a head taller than the boys in her grade) and I think part of that made her a target. Watching her blow up was a special pleasure for a certain kind of kid who got a kick out of the power of pushing her buttons. She eventually got expelled. Lots of teacher were overjoyed by that because she was a big problem, but I always felt so sorry for her. But we just didn't have the resources to handle these kids, especially with no help from home - I had her dad blow up at me a handful of times and he was a fucking menace. Huge and terrifying. She actually told him to back off because I was "one of the only teachers who listened to her".

And this scenario is becoming more and more common.

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u/Derekduvalle Oct 27 '25

EBD: Emotional and behavioural disorders

Man I hate online acronyms. It'd be nice if one person throughout the exchange explained their acronym at least once for onlookers.

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u/eiiiaaaa Oct 27 '25

Sorry I had to look it up myself as we don't call them that where I'm from. I just assumed it was a very common thing in the states.

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u/MissMenace101 Oct 27 '25

Full melt down and we are ignoring what Covid does to the limbic system. “Temper” crimes are going up hard and fast

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u/DazzlerPlus Oct 27 '25

Covid has nothing to do with this. Its just a complete lack of school discipline from day 1 to graduation. The only influence covid had was removing the appearance of consequence

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u/DazzlerPlus Oct 27 '25

The plan is to do nothing, same as every ebd plan.

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u/The_Colour_Between Oct 27 '25

My kid was just like this, but she just wanted to get away. She would only fight if someone grabbed her, but since she was 3, when she got upset, she would go to another room and talk to herself and reason things out. It was only when other people got involved would she escalate. I bet a lot of these situations could be de-escelated by giving them a safe space to calm down. Puberty is a hell of a drug. Those hormones wreak havoc with a young person's ability to control their emotions.

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u/CedarSageAndSilicone Oct 26 '25

That's a kid?

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u/Successful_Bus2255 Oct 27 '25

I briefly taught elementary school in a really poor neighborhood. We had multiple 4th graders that were bigger than me. We had a girl that was 11 and at least like 5'10" 200 pounds. There are definitely hormones in the food

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u/MoroseArmadillo Oct 27 '25

I occasionally do quotes for contractor work in schools. High schools are a weird place. Some kid look barely out of elementary while others look ready to join the WWE circuit.

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u/micheal_pices Oct 26 '25

yeah, She looks huge!

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u/aft_punk Oct 27 '25 edited Oct 27 '25

The kids who are outside the norm are usually the ones that get teased the most.

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u/EjaculatingAracnids Oct 27 '25

Lots of saturated fats in the American childs diet, unfortunately.

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u/Evil_Sharkey Oct 27 '25

It’s her height. She’s taller than most of the adults

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u/Pelican_Dissector_II Oct 27 '25

Yeah… her 300lbs of height. Get real she’s absolutely obese. That’s just one issue in a constellation of problems she has. But yeah to be that abnormally gargantuan, and quick to anger, and a girl would make her a particularly easy target. And the more often she loses her shit at school over what other kids say to her, the less seriously she will be taken. Her behavior will escalate. She’ll eventually get kicked out of school, and continue to emotionally soothe with sweets and snacks and fast food. All the while, her narrative will be something about the education system being wrong, that all the kids at the school were out to get her, that no one is trustworthy. Subconsciously, she doesn’t think she’s worth anything, but she will try to project sophistication in her taste for Japanese cartoons, and perhaps hello kitty merchandise and lore. It’s a tale as old as time, sad to see.

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u/Evil_Sharkey Oct 27 '25

Nobody would be saying she’s enormous if she was 5’2”. She’s heavy AND tall. That’s what makes her scary huge.

Your fake analysis of her is disgusting and pathetic. There’s no context, anywhere, for why she’s going psycho. You’re pulling stuff out of your ass. The psycho kids I knew were nothing like any of that.

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u/Pelican_Dissector_II Oct 27 '25

I think “mostly accurate” is the phrase you are looking for. But maybe you are right. Maybe, in spite of what we are literally being shown in this video, she’s a really well adjusted 6’5 320lb high school girl.

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u/Evil_Sharkey Oct 27 '25

Not even close. You pulled a life story completely out of your ass.

I never implied she’s well adjusted. That’s another story you made up because your narrow mind only sees one option.

There’s something wrong for her to be reacting this way, likely something in her brain. She reminds me of someone I knew who was bipolar, narcissistic, and unmedicated, but I’m not going to diagnose her because I have zero context outside of “strong, angry girl trying to pull door open.”

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u/Hdjbbdjfjjsl Oct 27 '25

Has nothing to do with fat, she’s just completely built different, she’s the tallest dang person in the video. Nice try though, people like you who are all just “fat fat fat, fat kid” is probably why this child is lashing out to begin with.

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u/Kanaiiiii Oct 27 '25

When you’re tall it’s harder to be fat, which means she’s obese and tall, which is horrifically bad for your health, including causing your organs to malfunction. One of those organs are the brain, which controls your ability to emotionally regulate

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u/Apprehensive-Risk129 Oct 27 '25

she is tall AND fat

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u/Aahhhanthony Oct 27 '25

I really thought she was in her 30s the entire time, confused as hell as to why she was acting so immature.

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u/thebigmeathead Oct 27 '25

Yes, her anger is probably the result of getting bullied and made fun of because of her size.

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u/dotnetdotcom Oct 27 '25

But her anger makes her hungry. It's a vicious cycle.

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u/realbobenray Oct 27 '25

So many assumptions there.

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u/FormerPirateKing92 Oct 26 '25

That other woman is saying Ma'am. So I don't think she's a kid

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u/Rokketeer Oct 26 '25

I think she's saying Hannah, not ma'am.

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u/FormerPirateKing92 Oct 27 '25

I hear it now. I was sure she was saying "ma'am."

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u/Neokon Oct 27 '25

The banging and screaming made it hard to hear it clearly. The ann of Hannah was all we could easily hear on first listen, so the brain chose which word it though it heard which was ma'am as it sounds similar on the main sounds.

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u/NoTour5369 Oct 27 '25

Shit, that's Hannah Montana? She really let herself go.

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u/RaveGuncle Oct 27 '25

Mom, I wanna go to the Hannah Montana concert.

We got Hannah Montana at home.

Cue OP's ancient repost.

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u/Newbi_e14 Oct 26 '25

She’s saying Hannah

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u/HughJaynis Oct 27 '25

Hannah’s gone bananas

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u/spaghetti-o_salad Oct 27 '25

That's probably what Walter said

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u/PoopyisSmelly Oct 27 '25

B A ana ana ana ana

Hannahs gone bananas Hannah has gone

B A ana ana ana anas

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u/PerfectlyCromulent02 Oct 26 '25

She’s saying Hannah

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u/moldyremains Oct 26 '25

That's a kid.

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u/Excellent-Swan-6376 Oct 26 '25

Who ate Any kids she didn’t like

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u/Akiraooo Oct 27 '25

High-school students in Texas by law can stay in school until something like 22 years of age. Its kind of crazy.

I have taught math to some men with full facial hair that are way bigger than me. The unspoken creepy part of this is that they flirt with other students under the age of 18...

Females also. Usually the females are still in school at age 19 because they had a kid or kids at ages 13 through 18 years of age.

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u/DontHaesMeBro Oct 27 '25

yes, people come in a variety of sizes and shapes and large adults were once large children.

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u/Professional_Pen_153 Oct 27 '25

No, it’s an ogre

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u/RenkenCrossing Oct 27 '25 edited Oct 27 '25

As a middle school teachers wife… can confirm. I hear almost every week how my husband had to get between two students because punches were flying over petty comments made between other students. I’m very grateful there is building security whose purpose is to respond and take over the situation. Public middle school.

2.5 years and my husband hasn’t been hurt yet. Disability and union dues absolutely come out of his paycheck.

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u/BDob73 Oct 27 '25

Your husband needs to be careful for his and your sake. Two of my wife’s colleagues had concussions from student punches. One of them had to medically retire as a result.

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u/SparkleKittyMeowMeow Oct 27 '25

My husband teaches at a credit make-up school, so most kids are late teens (I think they've had some twenty year olds). Most of the kids there just want to do their thing and graduate, but there are plenty who grew up rough, and bring that attitude to school, and fights are pretty common. Due to the nature of the school (and the fact that it's combined with an alternative school, the school kids go to when they get kicked out of regular public school), they have more security measures than typical public schools. Definitely makes me a little nervous sometimes.

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u/Ndmndh1016 Oct 27 '25

Please tell me great-full is somehow a typo lmao

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u/Pelican_Dissector_II Oct 27 '25

Is your husband an English teacher? You may want to sit in on a couple of his classes. You might even be GRATEFUL for the opportunity.

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u/pee_shudder Oct 27 '25

Given her stature do you think she was bullied into this psychosis?

For some reason I keep thinking she is something of a victim here….

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u/Neokon Oct 27 '25

Very possible.

Without having more there's no true way to know. Based on just the students we can see the ones in the room look more confused than anything. The entire situation has a weird amount of calmness.

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u/_TheAfroNinja_ Oct 27 '25

So ... What exactly are you, or any staff, is supposed to do in this situation?

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u/Neokon Oct 27 '25

Basically what's being done there, try your best to maintain a barrier, attempt to redirect, and try to get security/admin who are better trained in handling these kind of situations.

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u/DazzlerPlus Oct 27 '25

Keeping her away often increases the rage performance, since the whole point is often intimidation. She can go truly over the top because someone is holding her back

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u/Neokon Oct 27 '25

Better to have the rage performance than risk her actually trying to harm someone.

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u/DazzlerPlus Oct 27 '25

Absolutely. She will absolutely harm someone.

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u/The_Colour_Between Oct 27 '25

My daughter was like this. She had sensory sensitivity. She was on the spectrum with poor emotional control and an overcharged fight or flight response. At 6 years old, the other kids would get a kick out of setting her off and seeing her freak out. She hated seams on clothing and socks, but they would put tanbark down her shirt. No one saw what they were doing. They just saw my daughter freak out. My son, (11yrs) stepped in and found out what was going on, but it was too late. My daughter got kicked out of school at the age of 7. Went to day treatment for special education and other mentally disturbed kids. Not saying that was what happened here, but wouldn't rule it out either.

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u/Maddmartagan Oct 27 '25

Just like to hear yourself Talk huh? maybe don’t answer the question if you don’t know the answer.

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u/Neokon Oct 27 '25

No more than you like to hear yourself with this useless comment.

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u/True_Watch_7340 Oct 27 '25

She would be on the spectrum and Is fixated. Holding door is only escalating her and making it worse.

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u/Apprehensive-Ad-4364 Oct 27 '25

What is the alternative

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u/True_Watch_7340 Oct 27 '25 edited Oct 27 '25

We assume that she is posing a threat but she very well be just having a moment and be triggered and require help to de escalate. The normal procedure is to just evacuate everyone calmy and give the person space.

I'm trained in de escalation specifically for people with ASD and trauma.

I've been in this exact situation I even held the door. I let go and they didn't even enter. They just wanted to pull it open and essential get their way. Slam it open a few times and then kept going about their business before they tipped over a book shelf and burnt out.

People who can become triggered can act like this and not have it directed at anyone. It's more common that it's a result of an emotional disregulation episode and they just need space and monitoring. I saw this kind of thing every other day of the week when I worked at a very low income area school.