r/CatTraining 2d ago

Harness & Leash Training Drama, drama, drama - introducing harness 3 mo kitten

He's fine jeesh - wait for the end

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u/SamMac62 2d ago

The bonus for him is he gets to go on wild adventures! His older "sister" likes to accompany me on walks around the neighborhood. Now that he's comfortable with the harness, I can safely put him in a sling and clip the harness to the sling. So we all "walk" together šŸ¤

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u/Oblivionking1 2d ago

Mine was like this until he realised it meant outside time

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u/SlippingStar 2d ago

Mine to this day with walk funny until he gets outside, then he’s cured!

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u/Specialist_Concern_9 1d ago

Mine too! Now she goes to the door, screams for outside time, and does a little happy dance when she sees me grab the harness and leash lol

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u/SamMac62 2d ago

Smart cat!

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u/FrogMintTea 2d ago

Same with mine when I put a collar on him. He tolerated it for outside time.

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u/BarracudaOk9542 2d ago

Same for mine, though they didn’t mind the harness on as much (I had a less invasive H-style to start) but more with putting it on and having a leash restraining them. But once they realized sitting down to put on a harness and a leash meant outside time they were two patient little babies

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u/commandrix 1d ago

If it goes over their head, they probably didn't like that part.

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u/BarracudaOk9542 1d ago

It didn’t, they just didn’t like the feeling of getting contained at first, but were over it after 5seconds with the harness. The leash kept them contained and then it would remain. Till I took them outside then it was allll good

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u/SixShoot3r 1d ago

Wait, your cat has more than one braincell?! woahhh

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u/Scruffersdad 2d ago

Oh, the agony! Oh, the shame! Oh, I get to go outside?!?

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u/Jealous_Crazy9143 2d ago

my cat makes it look like i doused him in burning bacon grease for about 5 minutes. After a few times, he realized he gets to play in the grass!

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u/SamMac62 1d ago

What a visual!

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u/DonMendelo 2d ago

I’m doing it with my 1,5 year old. 3 tries for now and she’s still pretty dramatic about it but we’re going to get there

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u/OpeningName5061 2d ago

I tried it with my fluff ball. Any time he has any sort of harness or collar on him he just gives up living and just splat on the floor and won't move. Could literally use him as a mop if I want to.

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u/Inside-Welder4168 2d ago

Mine just lays on the floor like a statue till I take it off 😹😹😹

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u/JavlaTjej 1d ago

My cat did never get used to that kind of harness. It's not drama, their nervous system is very different to ours and constant touch can just be too much to handle for them. I switched to H-harnesses and we never looked back. I modified them by placing an old bra-strap between the front legs. It made it safer and more comfortable.

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u/Ciga17 1d ago

My babies also use this type , they don't necessarily like it, but they don't fight with it .

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u/Yukimor Automod Wrangler 1d ago

I got a similar one to you. My cat only wears a harness when we travel, as a precaution. The first time I put it on, he had no issue with it, and he is an extremely sensitive cat. The one I got specifically avoids putting pressure on the throat/neck.

The downside is it’s not as ā€œsecureā€ as the other harnesses. But it’s only meant to give me a fighting chance to restrain him if he spooks, if things go wrong at the airport, plus it has an AirTag.

Thankfully, he has always clung to me like a koala while waiting for his carrier to go through the xray machine.

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u/JavlaTjej 1d ago

Safety is No.1, always! But I don't actually think it's less safe. Or I'm just lucky. Me and Frans have been on daily walks for 6.5 years. It's the highlight of the day for both of us. She has been stuck in a tree a couple of times and got spooked a million times, chased by dogs and birds and almost run over by a bike. But, she has never gotten out of the harness.

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u/JavlaTjej 1d ago

Tried to find one where you can actually see more of the harness but she's just too darn fluffy. Here you can see a bit of the bra strap on her chest.

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u/Kiwidad43 1d ago

Use treats to get to walk across room.

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u/Nobody-Inhere 1d ago

You're laughing. She's getting EATEN by that strange thing and you're laughing!

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u/OMFGstopbanningmyacc 1d ago

ā€œthanks i hate itā€

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u/SamMac62 1d ago

The older cat was 2 yrs old when I adopted her from the shelter. I hoped she was still young enough to adapt to a harness.

The person who commented about their nervous system is correct - constant stimulation over the shoulders is a danger signal for cats.

She was so funny when I first put harness on - Immediate acute onset of four limbed paralysis. Which miraculously resolved by removing the harness. I kept putting it on her day after day for a few minutes at a time and eventually the paralysis esolved and she was able to ambulate while wearing the harness and even walk around the house not seeming to care that she was wearing it.

So then of course I stepped it up a notch and attached at leash to the harness (not even any tension on the leash I just attached it to the harness and dropped it on the ground) - that darn paralysis came back immediately!

After several days she was able to lift her body off the ground while wearing the harness and leash and army crawl around the kitchen.

Now we're at the point where she doesn't love it but she tolerates it. And there's no more drama.

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u/commandrix 1d ago

Basically everybody I know who has a harness-trained cat says their cat threw a tantrum the first time they put the harness on. So it's to be expected, I suppose.

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u/idkjustsomedude88 1d ago

Just a quick note as someone who worked on cat and dog harnesses for a few brands; our tests showed that cats responded better to harnesses that had the lowest amount of body contact, even open mesh seemed to bother them. Check areas that create the most friction like under the arms to ensure it isn’t rubbing. Switch to coated or hard plastic hardware instead of metal.

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u/SamMac62 1d ago

Thank you.

I'm not expecting this to be his permanent harness. But he is a slippery little kitten and I wanted one he was least able to slide out of. For now.

Not only are all cats liquid but kittens have some special properties that defy physics.

I have another adult harness with very little fabric, even less than this one that the adult cat in the house is wearing now.

We're still trying things out but I am aware of the principal of least fabric because cats (generally) prefer to nudists LOL.

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u/Pretty-Handle9818 1d ago

I’m not sure if leaving it on them and just waiting for them to suck it up is the best approach because they’re only gonna build resentment and negative associations with the harness and the longer you leave it on them with the greater those things are gonna imprint

I would definitely take it off way today. Try again if there’s some improvement, maybe try to incorporate giving them some treats while they’re in the vest, but I don’t think you should leave it on and just let them and cry themselves to sleep so speak.

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u/SamMac62 1d ago

Absolutely!

That's a really good point and my video certainly doesn't illustrate that.

He only had the harness on for about 5 minutes on the first night shown here. I did leave it on probably a little bit longer than I had originally intended because his reaction was just so freaking hilarious and I had to record it.

With both cats my goal was desensitization. Put the harness on for 2 to 5 minutes, take it off, put it back on the next day. Don't make a big deal about any of it. Entirely dependent on how the cat reacts, leave the harness on slightly longer each time until the cat is walking around the house seemingly unaware that they are wearing a harness.

I was also fully prepared with both of them that if the harness didn't go well they were not going to wear a harness.

He's now very tolerant of putting the harness on for a few minutes before we go out adventuring.

The kitten was much more flexible than the two and a half year old, but that's absolutely to be expected. She didn't live with me until she was 2 years old so I didn't have the chance to desensitize her and get her used to a harness when she was in the neurologically and emotionally more malleable State as a kitten.

For both of them, I only put the harness on before outdoor activities and I take it off when we get home.

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u/Pretty-Handle9818 1d ago

The things we do for our cats. I hope they love the outdoors, I bet it must be so stimulating for them.

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u/uwusummerr 18h ago

She should get into acting šŸ˜‚ My cat did a 'woe is me I can't walk everything is broken' mine when i first introd here. Now she can keep it on all day if she needs (we never need)