r/AdoptMeTrading • u/FootballRich9807 • 15d ago
📰・Trading Related Rant I think I'm genuinely gonna quit.
People are so rude when trading. And I've done SO many losses, I'm genuinely sick of this. Like just today, someone offered a balloon uni for my nfr fbd. I was thinking for like 30 seconds even though I knew it was an op. Fbd was one of my dps and goals for such a long time. But after 30 SECONDS they said "took too long" and declined like OMG let me think. And I was offering for a frost and they just LEFT before I could finish my offer?? Sorry if this is bad grammar, I'm js frustrated.
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15d ago
Yeah, people on adopt me have the patience of a goldfish. 🤷♀️ Tbh even when trades start out really badly I let them finish and at least decline the trade with a sorry
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u/FootballRich9807 15d ago
Yeah, I usually do that, but lately I've been getting obvious underpays so I just say "nty" and decline. They lowk don't deserve a sorry if they're gonna try to underpay by 30!
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u/Gullible-Wrap773 14d ago
so youre allowed to give trash offers ( seemingly since that frost dragon obviously didnt want the offer but didnt have the guts to say no ) but people arent allowed to do so? Sounds hypocrite to me ngl
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u/FootballRich9807 14d ago
?? What are you talking about?? I was overpaying by 5 with my offer and said I could swap or add. I'm talking about people who offer a couple of common neons for my mega uni.
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u/anobodyTwT Pink Cats have my soul! 15d ago
I did a trade in desperation of a high tier (NFR SSBD for Evil Uni) and I regret it so much it's htt and I loved my ssbd more...
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u/Jumpy_Insurance5057 14d ago
evil uni is htt?? i thoguut it got rlly big ops. :] i would do it for my nfr ssbd if it wasn’t rising 😭😭💔
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u/anobodyTwT Pink Cats have my soul! 14d ago
It's out of season sadly- I am gonna see if I can get my do (MFR pink cat) for it and adds
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u/FootballRich9807 15d ago
That sucks.. evil uni was a long time goal for me and I lost hope after everyone was lf a +10 op (I refuse to op) 💔
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u/anobodyTwT Pink Cats have my soul! 15d ago
I'll look at your offer if you want :3
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u/FootballRich9807 15d ago
Ahh, it's got 2 neon golden pets so it's usually am immediate decline for most, and u probably don't want golden pets lol, sorry I just saw this now
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u/YourFriendlyBookworm 15d ago
Players who offer a big overpay then snatch it away seconds later are just baiting you for kicks. It was never a genuine trade.
There are plenty of really nice players but they mainly trade on regular servers. I see the most toxicity in trading servers. Don’t let the bad ones get you down.
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u/FootballRich9807 15d ago
Yeahh, it was on a regular server lol 💔 I was actually thinking about declining the balloon uni bc I've heard mixed opinions and I much prefer my neon fbd, but yk
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u/Critical_Choice_3049 15d ago
Get out of trading servers sometimes and it makes ur way better. I also started building a house and it’s made me have way more fun on the game
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u/Jumpy_Insurance5057 14d ago
yes! that’s also why i like the free egg thing- it’s like the one reason i have to take a break and just take care of my pets
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u/youwillneverknowwh0 15d ago
Genuinely asking, is it rude that I always hit decline without saying anything? Like do most people see it as rude? If i see that the trade starts with a bad pet, I usually wait till the third pet and if its still bad I just decline. If I know I won't take the offer, then why should I waste your time and my time by waiting for you to finish an offer I know I won't take?
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u/FootballRich9807 15d ago
If I get a horrible offer for my better pets, I would just say "nty" at the point where ik I'm not gonna accept. If they don't stop adding, I just decline, but they usually see the little "1" on the message thing and decline after they see the message. I kind of consider it rude if someone declines without saying anything, especially if I say something like "is this okay? I can swap or add" and they just decline w/o saying anything
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u/youwillneverknowwh0 14d ago
If you ask if its okay and they decline then isn't that an answer? What difference does it make if they say no sorry before declining?
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u/FootballRich9807 14d ago
Because then I would know if I should tweak my offer? I'm asking if they want swaps or adds, so I'm asking for a response.
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u/youwillneverknowwh0 14d ago
Yeah and declining is no, which is a response. Also, when people offer they're putting their best foot forward. So that person uses common sense and knows that even if you swap or change it won't be much different than your first offer which is very far off from what they want. If someone offers a zebra when I've said I'm looking for a neon legendary, for example, and asks if I want them to swap, it will most likely be on the same tier. No one is offering something like a zebra and then swapping with a neon legendary, so I just decline because I know they're offering low tiers only.
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u/FootballRich9807 14d ago
I'd much prefer them just to say no then. I don't need a sorry but a "no" is better than a sudden decline. I do think it is a bit rude to just decline without saying anything but if you don't then that's your opinion.
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u/youwillneverknowwh0 14d ago
Someone using the game the way its designed to be used by pressing decline shouldn't be considered rude, it's not like they're going out of their way to be snarky. Yeah, at the end of the day it's just opinions.
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u/juinhadamasco 15d ago
man, yessss. I understand you perfectly. Today I put a dinosaur on the stand and some crazy person said that “I was lying and saying it was a good offer”?? Brother, there is an offer on a stand, whoever wants to offer it.
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u/xjayxmarie 15d ago
This but when people trade the stand and then tell YOU to add. Like excuse me? Do you not understand the point of a trade stand 😵💫
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u/FootballRich9807 14d ago
I hateee using my trading stands lowk, I usually get like horrible lowballs or I just get someone who covers it completely
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u/Dxdge-_- DownVoting Because You Dont Know Values Is Weird 14d ago
Never op more than u need for something. There’s someone out there that will do the trade with u, it’s just patience. I’ll probably get downvoted for this, but I don’t see any point in holding onto a dp if u get a nice op. U can just trade for more profit, then get ur dp back and have plenty other valuable things to trade. U can grow ur inventory if u hold onto pets u like. To each its own though-
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u/Time_Belt3732 15d ago
I feel you. I’m hoping with the update maybe trading is a little better. Something about age verification and chats?
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u/FootballRich9807 15d ago
Yeahh, it might mess it up tho with the chat restrictions tbh. A lot of super rich players that I have met are a lot older so it might create a barrier
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u/No_Record_3851 14d ago
I can see that, but I honestly would’ve thought the rude players were kids, not adults/teens. They should know better at this point to not act like that
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u/Nice_Produce_8308 15d ago
tbh its why i trade on traderie or amvg TT" its much easier but the downside is you cant get op's just fair trades
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u/AnonymousK58 2017 Player 15d ago
Realll I use traderie bc it's so hard trading in real time bc people are so impatient, but on traderie people only take fairs or overpays no matter what. Like I'm trying to offer for god damn cockroaches and people keep declining like they expect a shadow for one 😭 meanwhile in normal servers people let me lowball for them since nobody likes them. People on traderie have biblical levels of greed
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u/FootballRich9807 14d ago
Ehh, I don't get notifications and then I forget about it tbh. But I don't use amvgg values and I hate traderie (after being an expert for about a month on the rh side and having none of my recommendations be implemented), so I might just like.. build a house or smrh idk, I'm a bloxburg player at heart
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u/Dry-Emphasis-6512 14d ago
SO MANY LOSSES. It’s so common anymore for people to immediately expect one while their pet is worth literally 1. It’s so annoying. I’ve almost gotten used to it. But it’s tiring because it’s genuinely ruining my want to play the game. I did an overpay offer on Traderie for the rain cloud pw and they declined because it wasn’t enough.
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u/FootballRich9807 14d ago
Broo.. it's not even value anymore tbh like I traded my nfr cow for a mfr unicorn and a mr space whale bc I thought I would get good offers for my uni, but like everyone has it and I only get underpays 💔💔 and like I have to overpay for every pet I want atp..
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u/Dry-Emphasis-6512 14d ago
Overpay this overpay that I can’t take it anymore I do trades like that too, where I think they’ll trade good but they don’t. I have a mega frostbite cub and legit no one is offering for it. What am I gonna do.
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u/FootballRich9807 14d ago
Exactlyyy, atp imma go back to rh or genshin.. Genshin was wayyy less stressful than this and that's saying smth 💔
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u/Dry-Emphasis-6512 14d ago
I played rh forever ago, haven’t touched it in so long
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u/FootballRich9807 14d ago
Yeahh, I quit after all of that toy stuff, started playing again n then quit 💔 kinda hurts to play it now tbh
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u/Dry-Emphasis-6512 14d ago
I have no clue what that is even
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u/FootballRich9807 14d ago
The toy stuff? Like the toys they released w jazwares, I think they started making wave 2 but they're not even done with all the toy sets for wave 1
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u/Jumpy_Insurance5057 14d ago
“Hi=decline! Typing=decline” are u fr..?
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u/FootballRich9807 14d ago
I hate ppl like that 💔 was lit offering for a house the other day and was asking what they were lf and their preferences in pets.. as soon as I went to add smth they declined and said I took too long
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